Posts by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
(DIR) Post #A7KdixnlnFOSkREhaS by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-05-17T06:13:43.640512Z
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I’m not anti-sex or sex negative or whatever, but porn isn’t sex, is it? It’s a performance. One predicated on the torture of women, one that only gets more and more violent as the standards are shifted to cater to the ever increasing tolerance porn watchers experience. Sex does not require women to shove makeup sponges up their vaginal canals during their periods so they can achieve penetration w/o blood leakage. Sex does not require men to take copious amounts of drugs to sustain erections throughout an entire day. Sex should not involve abusing women. But it often does. Just like porn.
(DIR) Post #A7RfSO88DBE3UohgVE by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-05-20T15:43:47.796269Z
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My casually misogynistic boss is leaving 🎉 (This is the one I talked about months ago when I first got the job, the one who made remarks about how women talk so much but don’t really say anything of consequence) My new boss will be my current boss’s boss. She’s a wonderful lady, a bit hard to communicate with but she’s very kind.
(DIR) Post #A7RlrRggiorHUfCNYu by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-05-20T16:28:50.501542Z
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Why is the trans flag made up of baby pink and baby blue??? Also I’ve seen many trans identified males fetishize childhood, wanting to be little girls n shit. Very sus.
(DIR) Post #A7WsVUzAWfBKlSR5I8 by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-05-23T04:02:19.231936Z
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This implies if not directly states that it’s women’s fault that patriarchy exists. It’s not women’s fault. Men have always been in control of women, since the dawn of time. Look at different ape species, though the variance in strength between the sexes is not as pronounced in humans as it is in other apes, it still exists. We did not breed the patriarchy. It came about as a consequence of male entitlement and superior strength. Thoughts??
(DIR) Post #A7mTgotfRoBxNXWUfg by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-05-30T16:43:17.594710Z
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The fact that throughout western history women have changed their names to that of their husbands makes it so difficult to find out your family tree exclusive to women. Like for men it’s easy as pie to travel their history because the husband is the “default,” the one who remains at the forefront of the family line. For women, we have changed names so many times through the journey of the family tree that it’s so complex to trace. That seems very wrong to me. I won’t be changing my name, should I ever marry. Not just because I want women to be the default center of the lineage, but also because my name is... my name. Why should I change it? Why should I take on another name that is not historically my own? No. That will not happen. I won’t.
(DIR) Post #A7mZdtMYzBOE5P1fWq by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-05-30T17:46:18.221283Z
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@Fullycaffeinated yeah and I know in Hispanic cultures they retain their names and build upon them over time (hence a lot of hispanic people have super long names, I kinda like that.)
(DIR) Post #A7mbj31AiSUZO2beyW by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-05-30T16:48:55.615579Z
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In the scope of reproduction, it is the woman who passes on the most to the child. Cell differentiation factors, mitochondrial DNA, and sustenance for embryonic survival pre-implantation. Meanwhile, men contribute the bare minimum. The other half of genetic material, plus nothing else. Then, the woman gestates the child for nine months, and takes on the role of raising the child, nearly exclusively in the first few years of the child’s life. It is women who give the most to their children, children who are still considered by society to be belongings of the father. And the mother, nothing more than an incubator for the man’s progeny. A slave with his name on her. Fuck that. Fuck that shit. Nah, that won’t be me. I swear it.
(DIR) Post #A7mbkQ50ST45CY3QFk by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-05-30T17:45:20.302617Z
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@ArtistBristol of course, but it has always belonged to me in my lifetime. Far different from changing it halfway through my life if I were to marry. My name may have belonged to my dad but it’s also always been my name. Get it?
(DIR) Post #A8C8HnA8B8szpfbSU4 by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-12T01:48:39.184747Z
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It’s been said before but it needs to be said again. The way women hate men is by avoidance. The way men hate women is by murdering us. Women don’t kill. Instances of women committing homicide are so rare that we give female murderers undue attention because they are such oddities. And because everyone becomes familiar with their existence and their crimes, it is mistakenly believed by society at large that women are just as capable of murder than men. In reality, women aren’t committing murder in any statistically significant number. But that number is going up with the inclusion of murder stats by trans identified males. And when news sources use female pronouns for male perpetrators, it heightens the belief that women are as capable of or as likely to commit crime as men. #TheseAreNotOurCrimes
(DIR) Post #A8D7YMVobxkLIy2juC by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-12T13:07:37.509970Z
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My brother once said to me the reason we as an American society cannot survive on a single salary like we used to be able to is because of women and their complaining. He (17 yo) said that the decreased salaries industries pay and increased cost of living is the result of prohibition of alcohol, which was caused by women complaining that their husbands would come home drunk and beat them. Yeah, it’s definitely women’s fault that men were getting drunk and beating them. Why couldn’t those nasty women just shut up and take their beatings. Separatism from males is good for women. Men live longer when they’re married to women, while women’s life expectancy goes DOWN when married to men. And not just some men. All men.
(DIR) Post #A8DAxxc86WsTTatWca by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-12T13:37:53.255892Z
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I find it pretty interesting when women advocate for female separatism from males, and moids always show up with a braindead take like “enjoy wasting your child bearing years and dying sad and alone, old cat lady.” Yeah, really proving we as women should be with such empathetic creatures as men. Many women who aren’t separatist are still child-free, so this argument ignores them. Because at it’s core, it’s really about men not wanting women to leave them to rot. Interesting how they think women can’t have children without men. We can. I can go to a sperm bank right now. Women can have children without men, but men can’t do the same. Not really. Any person who views children as a means to cure one’s loneliness should stay away from children anyway. I think that’s the difference between men and women (broadly speaking) as parents. Women view it as gifting life to someone else, we wish success and a full life for our offspring. We see them as separate people from ourselves, again broadly speaking. But men don’t. They see children as a way to enhance their own lives, or to selfishly ensure the continuance of their name through an heir (it’s an ego thing in that case, not a desire to see another succeed in life). How many times have we seen men only take an active role in their kid’s lives when they can start to play ball and stuff? How many men are happy to change a child’s diaper because that means ensuring the health and comfort of the child? There are some, I’m sure, but mainly men make the mothers perform these tasks. They wait until the child is old enough to fulfill their role as life-enhancers to really start to take interest in the kids lives.
(DIR) Post #A8DHBlMb31IXGFasL2 by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-12T13:45:41.384471Z
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A trans-identified male poured boiling water over another man’s face at a Casino in Ireland because he “wanted him to be my boyfriend,” after being friend-zoned by the man following an incident wherein the trans-identified male sexted the other man. 58 year old Ronaldo “Samantha” Otto did not receive a custodial sentence due to his “hardships and gender issues.” https://www.womenarehuman.com/transgender-indiv-stalks-pours-boiling-water-on-casino-patron-who-spurned-sex-advances/
(DIR) Post #A8GItZM5jniEBkgoy0 by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-14T01:57:14.665212Z
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Stolen from Twitter.
(DIR) Post #A8S9sLckjlT7cbLQtU by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-19T19:21:26.840143Z
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Misogynists are mad that women are using their terminology to signal to other women that a place of residence has no men. The responses to this are funny, everyone’s super pissed that many women view trans identified males as men.
(DIR) Post #A8SPyiWy598zfZhL72 by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-19T19:24:50.384045Z
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Friendly reminder! The only logical definition of “Trans misogyny” is when trans people are misogynistic. Ie hateful, untrusting towards, or discriminatory towards women. Trans identified males, AKA transwomen, can never and will never be the victims of any form of misogyny because they are men. Transwomen are members of the oppressor class.
(DIR) Post #A8SdjQYi19mEwf7EkC by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-20T00:50:11.410783Z
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Well, it happened. This account was banned from Twitter. Good thing I archived the tweets this account made that documented sooo many gross abuses committed by transwomen. https://spinster.xyz/notice/A77oQqTaS5Ql7Hn4hU
(DIR) Post #A8ShcHN0BOL8EhUFDU by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-20T01:34:14.539077Z
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@MandyJane @iMeMiss thank you! I didn’t even know this person had another account. I hope (he?) was able to repost the content on the other acct. Those threads were so extensive and great for getting people to understand the TRA rhetoric.
(DIR) Post #A8T31esO1RsjPs6rK4 by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-20T02:54:48.848708Z
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Perspective:
(DIR) Post #A8V5mvA9sJmVlO0Sbw by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2021-06-21T05:17:34.131855Z
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Women’s hatred for other women: largely comes from being pitted against each other in a patriarchal society that values women based on looks and sexual status. Sometimes it’s borne of real pain obviously but the majority of “cat fight” type hatred we see is a direct result of patriarchy. Men’s hatred for women: killing us, raping us, controlling everything about our bodies; thoughts, speech; torturing us, mutilating us, killing our children, raping our babies, etc. This observation came about today because I saw a tiktok of a woman being rude to another woman about her appearance. All the boys and men in the comments were saying that women hate women far more than men hate women. No, we don’t.
(DIR) Post #APwLPA5YWAVpaA1Xfs by ndkaldjen@spinster.xyz
2022-11-24T15:37:42.377888Z
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Hello all, I haven’t posted it so long. Miss it here a lot! I want to tell you about this weird thing that happened to me this morning. It made me really sad. I don’t understand why males are like this. This is definitely a “micro aggression” but it did make me feel upset. Here’s a story about my father. Its thanksgiving in America today. I am making snickerdoodles this morning in my parents kitchen. My dad walks in and smiling, says “what kind of cookies are you making?” I reply, I’m making snickerdoodles for thanksgiving tonight. Why do you ask?” Conversationally. This was not said in a defensive tone or a rude tone. He immediately sours. “I was just asking. You don’t have to yell at me.” I didn’t yell at him. Why did he say this? I was making conversation. Am i not allowed to question him? He always questions me about every little thing. I go out to eat with friends. He asks who they are. Where we went. What I had to eat. He needs to catalog my every move. It’s fine to do that conversationally, but it feels more like an interrogation from him. And anything but the exact details is never enough for him. I just wanted to know why he asked me what cookies i was making. My expectation was for him to say, “the same ones as last week? Because those were tasty.” My tone was light and conversational. He turned it into something else. Into me victimizing him. Why is he not allowed to be questioned even conversationally? Why did he have to turn himself into a victim, and me into a villain? Why did he have to make me feel like a villain on thanksgiving morning? I don’t know what he wants. If I don’t answer his questions with an enthusiastic intonation and perfect detail, he’s upset. But I can’t make conversation back. I don’t know what he wants. My response to him was simply, “what? I didn’t yell. Why did you say that?” He didn’t respond so I let it drop. I don’t want to make my thanksgiving morning unpleasant even if he is hellbent on it for some reason. He’s already in a bad mood because his brother in law came over to fix the waterheater. A few moments later, my mother calls her dad to inquire about coming over to bathe my grandma. The conversation is on speakerphone as my mom is a boomer. My grandfather answers the phone call from my mother (who is the only one of their children to take care of grandma) on thanksgiving morning with “hello. What do you want?” My dad hates my mother’s family. He scoffs and makes a remark about how rude my grandfather is. My mom hangs up because grandfather is often rude and she’s fed up. My dad launched into a tirade about my grandfather. Talking about how horrible he is. My father is the same as my grandfather. Both are emotionally fragile and toxic men. Both are selfish. I hope my fellow American spinsters are having a wonderful thanksgiving. Or at least better than mine! I really need to get out of this house. Or maybe I’ll just have a little Jack Daniels in the meantime!! These men are trying my patience. I really can’t wait to get out of this house. I just wish I could take my mother with me.