Post B6KcLKOy4oF5ytQWhs by Melezioh@mstdn.games
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 (DIR) Post #B6KcITKaQAZEo311ns by Melezioh@mstdn.games
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       I leave trans fems to discuss their thoughts on the whole socialized male thing  and have learned a lot but don’t argue against the whole socialized a gender situation. I was very much socialized female and it still affects me a decade into my transition. I don’t know a trans masc that denies being female socialized.
       
 (DIR) Post #B6KcIUPaP4A29qMXEe by Melezioh@mstdn.games
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       To follow this up:To say we were female socialized obviously shows theres more to gender than socialization. I am still 100% a man but because I was female socialized there are certain things I do, certain ways I think, certain ways I speak, etc.
       
 (DIR) Post #B6KcJmbkEhQAsifNIG by anna@kind.social
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       @Melezioh I think a lot of trans femmes have had it weaponized against us in a way that muddies the waters and makes the concept of "transfemme male socialization" difficult to use in a way that isn't transmisogynistic
       
 (DIR) Post #B6KcLKOy4oF5ytQWhs by Melezioh@mstdn.games
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       @anna I choose not to speak on that side of things because I know the terf rhetoric and how it is weaponize against transfems. So I tread lightly . However trans mascs shouldn’t have their experience erased and ignored. So I do speak on being female socialized because I was and trans mascs generally agree.
       
 (DIR) Post #B6KcLKcnFPIkfltZFw by Melezioh@mstdn.games
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       @anna adding. My post was basically meant to be don’t erase the trans masc experience. Not try to tread into the waters of trans fems male socialized.