Posts by tbessie@spinster.xyz
 (DIR) Post #ALE1H5YlA3FeWd1GaW by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2022-07-06T19:55:54.254257Z
       
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       @ninapaley @tangleofsnakes @TriptychTwins-partdeux Time to create your "TERFs vs Transactivists" computer game! 😄
       
 (DIR) Post #ALQcZy52PJc44xEfJ2 by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2022-07-12T16:33:06.633626Z
       
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       @nina @smellsofbikes Which Phil Wood hubs are you using? I have Phil Wood touring hubs on one of my touring bikes (White Industries hubs on the other).My city bike also has White Industries hubs (tho' a different model); I was cycling through the Panhandle (SF) one night, and a cyclist who was riding nearby said "Hey, is that a White Industries [model name] on your bike?"  He could identify the specific model by the way the hub sounded.  I was impressed. 🙂
       
 (DIR) Post #ALdCRmIYRZFnkvNWF6 by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2022-07-18T21:29:41.852367Z
       
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       @ninapaley @polarisera @ninafromcanadaeh I'm soooo glad I never really got into any given fandom to such an extent that I was invested in a particular reading of a character or characters, or their "relationships".  It's fiction! Enjoy it, but it's not real!
       
 (DIR) Post #ALdFXyUyIPStC6pgx6 by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2022-07-18T23:59:04.606896Z
       
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       @ninafromcanadaeh @ninapaley @polarisera Well yeah, I just wonder how people get that way.No lives, perhaps?
       
 (DIR) Post #ALdalSkxCvm3q5a6EK by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2022-07-19T02:42:38.590569Z
       
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       @ninafromcanadaeh @ninapaley @polarisera I meant fans, but not just any fans - the type who get so involved in the lives of fictional creations (tv shows, movies, cartoons, books, etc) that it takes on the importance one normally gives to real life.  That's what I was wondering about.
       
 (DIR) Post #ARBF9DknU93E7jfXv6 by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2022-12-31T22:50:27.316783Z
       
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       I wonder how this will pan out...https://www.theguardian.com/media/2022/dec/31/transgender-woman-sues-female-only-app-giggle-for-girls-for-alleged-discrimination
       
 (DIR) Post #AUNsvRFi6HqJmZGLc8 by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-04-06T18:42:26.216346Z
       
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       @ninapaley Are you sure their licenses are current? ;-)
       
 (DIR) Post #AUOKVyjjmVhMorxJlQ by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-04-07T00:05:02.369073Z
       
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       @ninapaley @GalacticTurtle My girlfriend says that deep dish pizza isn't pizza. I disagree. And I love it.
       
 (DIR) Post #AUoo7l8VFniIstNG5I by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-04-19T17:52:10.619525Z
       
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       @nina Tangential, but I was sure it was "barcarolle".  I looked it up, and for some reason some sources call it "bacarolle" and some "barcarolle" (tho' my meagre musical knowledge informs me that "barcarolle" is the right spelling).  A Google search for "bacarolle" brings up 77k hits, whereas "barcarolle" gets 1.9 million.  Further searches, including Britannica and French Wikipedia, have it at "barcarolle".  Interesting, in any case - I wonder if it's just a common misspelling (as the French pronunciation elides over the 'r' - https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=pronounce+barcarolle+french&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8 ). 🙂
       
 (DIR) Post #AWKeALb7oY0XZ8EgtM by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-06-04T00:59:24.699483Z
       
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       Hey folks, could use a little advice.I posted this on Facebook: https://www.realityslaststand.com/p/medium-censored-my-article-defendingAnd got this as one of the responses..."More TERF bullshit. The entire "safety" argument is a fucking trash fire. There's never been a single demonstrable instance of a transwoman assaulting a cis woman within any women's space, yet transwomen are constantly assaulted and murdered."How would you respond to this?
       
 (DIR) Post #AXoYmmnyg4Xh4qD9sm by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-07-18T08:40:03.947619Z
       
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       It's kind of funny - I've noticed that the more highly educated a friend of mine is, the more disgusted and appalled they are by anything gender-critical I post on Facebook. Might've just lost 3 or 4 Facebook friends (one of whom is a long-time real friend) after I posted this rant by Meghan Murphy - granted, it's a bit more angry than my usual posted articles... But now I'm officially hateful and bigoted and anti-trans. It's not "why do you post this stuff? what are your beliefs on the subject?" but... hateful, anti-trans, bigoted, etc. I'm Jewish, and even I would ask someone saying anti-semitic things why they believe what they believe.https://open.substack.com/pub/meghanmurphy/p/no-speech-for-women
       
 (DIR) Post #AY56j1N29mPp7zeFBg by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-07-25T20:11:22.685602Z
       
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       @ArtistBristol I got a bunch of KJK's stickers, but I haven't yet applied them anywhere.  Soon.
       
 (DIR) Post #AY5JMo20MytQn4Y7aS by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-07-25T20:28:43.333421Z
       
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       @Chronic-Yonic @Cousin_Isobel Your last line reminds me of @ninapaley 's cartoon:http://mimiandeunice.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/023_TheWorldBurns3.pngFrom these (which I presume you've seen):https://mimiandeunice.com/2018/11/07/the-jenndra-identitty-comics/
       
 (DIR) Post #AZly6SqrxdUniwgyvo by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-09-14T20:03:15.739427Z
       
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       @ninapaley Do you make this every year?
       
 (DIR) Post #AZxzuJWdNaprUYVNxo by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-09-20T18:17:00.743796Z
       
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       @ylem Ha! In the past, I've had to see a doctor in Scotland, Germany and France, and never had any problem making an appointment and seeing a doctor, sometimes the same day.  But maybe things have changed recently in those countries.
       
 (DIR) Post #AZy4uL6hzvTQAWD6Ei by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-09-20T18:13:31.739879Z
       
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       @ninapaley WHUUUUUH? Aren't the people behind the event supposedly on our side in this debate? (or maybe it's the specific venue for your talk?) Insanity!
       
 (DIR) Post #Aa0BdDI6h5NjuvJ9LE by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-09-21T19:40:28.150094Z
       
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       @polarisera I've always taken "waiting for the other shoe to drop" to refer to someone taking off their shoes while sitting on their bed (typically upstairs, so this is from the perspective of someone downstairs), and meaning what @ninapaley said.  I even remember some story (sci fi or fantasy) where someone makes a wish that causes someone to disappear, and they hear one shoe drop, but not the other.
       
 (DIR) Post #Aa0EQGVBkBpVyQwan2 by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-09-21T19:34:18.060163Z
       
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       @Blackgendermoderate This reminded me of this... https://vimeo.com/311115009
       
 (DIR) Post #AabNi1bGKpXJlcy9Sq by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-10-09T18:23:31.821671Z
       
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       @ninapaley Reminds me of that line from Hotel New Hampshire - "Get obsessed and STAY obsessed!" :-)
       
 (DIR) Post #AabZ7WJuM2TBmNDAu0 by tbessie@spinster.xyz
       2023-10-09T19:37:33.470813Z
       
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       @ninapaley Well yeah, I was just registering awe at your dedication during the non-cold part of the year. :-)