Posts by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
(DIR) Post #A56QNmuDQixRxLjCCW by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-11T12:46:57.081231Z
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@steph absolute horror in Croatia. 0 awareness, quite behind in educating public and schools about disabilities, little support, majority(if not then a lot)of families with disabled children move out for this specific reason or heavily rely on donations for treatments etc(similarly to people with conditions that have expensive treatments). Maybe certain places are trying but in my city for example there are stairs everywhere and I rarely see ramps, ones I know of are out of function more than likely and buses are often not suitable for wheelchair tho they do have them you just need to wait cca extra half hour to catch one(I know this because I tried using baby pram with LO and beside buses street aren't even walkable in some areas as cars park on edges of pedestrian side). As far as I noticed only those who are cognitively/physically impaired or otherwise hard to deny diagnosis are recognised, autism spectrum equivalent to what was called Aspergers or other"invisible disabilites"as well as mental health issues are not recognised or supported well here. I'm going back to UK to get my toddler assessed for possibly being on spectrum as here they don't even have diagnostic centre and still refer to being on spectrum as disorder. I even had my aunt that worked in pediatrics say that sometimes"parents upbringing can cause autism"and then I was like ok I give up on looking for help here, even if my LO isn't on spectrum people here seriously lack tact so like most people here I'll look for help elsewhere
(DIR) Post #A57B049kKy6QLyBOgi by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-11T22:47:59.131530Z
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@Ladyfat odd hair colour, probably isn't going to come out as lesbian or bisexual that she is most likely but"non-binary"and then depending on how well trans kingdom progresses in next few years, she might come out as"a man"too, at least for few months that is
(DIR) Post #A5Cf84jbotBYa1Khcm by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-14T12:12:08.822263Z
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Has anyone ever tried any"self-administered"therapy for trauma like EMDR or even Tapping Technique etc? Why is it that no one ever thought of self help methods, who has time and money to go therapist for half of his life
(DIR) Post #A5JzbLKcY9g7dsb7Jo by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-18T03:08:49.467240Z
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@fpcgggc Imagine the guilt once you realise you got tricked into basically poisoning your child and enabled it few years down the line. Damage is irreversible
(DIR) Post #A5OsZpLKGllIFk3bhQ by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-20T11:49:00.901875Z
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@Ladyfat I just can't believe the number of retweets and likes. They do not spare anyone. Greta isn't disabled in that obvious sense but she's on autism spectrum and is more likely to get raped as majority of women on spectrum are because of not being able to read out cues for potentially dangerous situations. That and mens particular need to make rape jokes and sexually agressive jokes and whatnot because Greta is still quite childlike make me sick more than usually
(DIR) Post #A5OxmrHwqZLZp2Vi1A by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-20T12:28:25.481830Z
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@FloozyDarlington I laughed because I couldn't believe some idiot would have sex with"transwoman"thinking it would be anything like having sex with a woman. IMO only deranged people anticipate having sex with these men because they know it will be bizarre and to some extent cruel. I also feel sorry for anyone undergoing these experiments of their body because it sounds traumatising all together
(DIR) Post #A5Q5zEtnsmzdJcajg0 by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-21T00:55:29.589823Z
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Does anyone else feel like they been living inside their head their whole life? Just observing from the inside.
(DIR) Post #A5RBhR6eYFqWqWSJjk by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-21T14:06:20.855364Z
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@Flick I wouldn't be able to sleep at night. I couldn't sleep at night in previous flat just because I could hear building elevator from my bedroom, I can't imagine living in a house especially if bit secluded
(DIR) Post #A5SxGa1cH1dFe8Js8G by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-22T10:50:33.652474Z
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Does anyone else of smaller proportions feel like men staring at you think you are a teenager? Mostly I forget but I'm often reminded by others that I look younger and it creeps me out. Also I hate others calling me short, I can feel in their tone sometimes they don't mean anything nice about it
(DIR) Post #A5Sy8h8M3lVLKaH7vU by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-22T11:08:53.233675Z
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@AthenasWrench2 like what does vagina even mean to them in the end?? *laughs in desperate*
(DIR) Post #A5WAWBIAv9x2F20GES by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-23T22:53:35.259447Z
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@Flick @Ismat I remember Stephanie Davies Arai debunking those statistics about 2 years ago as one of first myths in trans ideology. I can't remember her web page name, it's probably on fairplayforwomen anyway
(DIR) Post #A5eplTUPrVQcHdJGMq by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-28T04:32:34.431860Z
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I think I *might* have found lucky mix for my debilitating anxiety. I got magnesium spray that I massage in my neck for tension when needed, valerian root caps before bed time( and one during most days)and 2mg of melatonin in oral spray right before bed time. I try to wear ear plugs during day to minimise stress from noise my toddler makes too sometimes and I think I should go back to wearing them when sleeping too. It seems to be helping, I did wake up at around 4 in the morning today but at least I fell asleep around 11. I wish I got a weighted blanket because my toddlers restlessess not only drives me insane half sedated when falling asleep but I have a feeling also wakes me up during night sometimes without me realising. Plus it sounds like something I would like. I should have listen to my gut feeling and invest in it, now it's already getting too warm to get one...maybe. I don't know. I also try to take vitamin D3, B vitamins and iron every other day and I think it helps too. I'm quite sure SAD light helps but I never manage to do it consecutively for full effect. I feel at least fit enough to think now and to start considering stretching and then some exercise. It's a sad fact that probably more than half of mums and homemakers have to use some sort of sedative.
(DIR) Post #A5exs4eIlcSBqOR9ay by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-28T04:52:25.187700Z
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@Hollahollara I think I even tried l-theanine 2-3 years ago but I got it for free for Amazon reviewing so maybe it wasn't"it". Isn't it the stuff gym folk and body builders use? My older brother was into bodybuilding supplements and killed it for me saying there's no proof it"works works", I haven't revisited since but I might take a look since I see people mention it!Breathing technique is something I'll write down and stick somewhere(or everywhere). Who would think you need a reminder to breathe lol I only hope I don't fall out of these habits and then do the research as if I never done it before(similarly to l-theanine...but actually I think it was l-carnitine I was taking)Shirtless?? I thought"it goes through"eyes? I have to check that too
(DIR) Post #A5fmlXczilg7M7T4Yi by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-03-28T13:18:50.097297Z
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@Hollahollara yeah I think it was definitely carnitine thing I had just mixed it up because of L lol I'll pick one up in pharmacy to see how it works, maybe it turns out better than Valerian for during day?I was just imagining people passing by my window seeing me shirtless staring in bright light 😂
(DIR) Post #A67JUj7b6OjwTcRCam by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-04-10T22:02:13.500826Z
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@FemaleIsNotAFeeling and also for now protect your daughters because it will take generations to properly educate those sons and you don't want women to be sacrificial lambs(again)in the whole process because we're trying to prove a point to bunch of misogynist in misogynistic society that will simply have to die out statistically and that are beyond point of reeducating
(DIR) Post #A6gGGVCITrKsejlrou by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-04-27T18:53:40.480030Z
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I'm trying to read Body Keeps the score for the second time but I was put off by nonchalant description of PTSD veteran raping a woman during Vietnam war. I was just terribly put off with author not adressing male violence and making a distinction between that and actions out of character in distress etc. It was in the very beginning of book so I couldn't move past it. Just before this I read Sheila Jeffreys Trigger warning and it totally makes sense to ask if there is an alternative book on the same issue by female author aware of feminist analysis?
(DIR) Post #A6gRUbjs3Tv6UhP4z2 by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-04-27T21:00:26.182797Z
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@Hollahollara @Skye356 first thing that came to my head was"wipes to clean yourself after man touching you"😂
(DIR) Post #A6hOVde8LLZZzlTo6S by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-04-28T07:50:38.130792Z
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@Piss_Ant @Hollahollara @Skye356 I definitely thought of their too-much deodorant or perfume and cigarette smell, it would literally stay on me after I'd been with some of these men, you need a proper shower or it lingers 😒
(DIR) Post #A6iK8y5zwQcO6CPKpU by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-04-28T18:42:19.015083Z
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Is anyone else watching the most unrelated stuff one after another? I just seen Sheila Jeffrey's talk and then watched some Wendy Williams talk show. And then I felt depressed and watched 31Minutos kids show. And then onto tarot readings. And then played Animal Crossing. I'm in the middle of life crisis
(DIR) Post #A6lyIVoCXucYuA4KB6 by Monchalant@spinster.xyz
2021-04-30T12:28:47.863892Z
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The comments on the video. Men are disgusting. And uninformed. https://youtu.be/kmwfNdUbd4c