Post AzwiYY0PofiJOm70EK by piegames@flausch.social
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 (DIR) Post #AzwiYX01Ydo4HGvAyu by piegames@flausch.social
       2025-11-05T17:49:27Z
       
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       As a community mod I've seen quite a few interpersonal conflicts, and one hard and uncomfortable truth I've had to learn is that often times there is virtually no way to distinguish "an abuser bullying some people out" from "victims trying to fend off an abuser" without getting intimately familiar with the situation.
       
 (DIR) Post #AzwiYY0PofiJOm70EK by piegames@flausch.social
       2025-11-05T17:50:43Z
       
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       Oh also good luck trying to find out how to distinguish "yet another toxic relationship between some shipwrecked souls gone wrong" and "someone got abused real bad here" from an outside perspective.This all is not by accident, some people just know how to control the optics of a situation and how play victim really well.
       
 (DIR) Post #AzwiYgJquI0zBNGddY by piegames@flausch.social
       2025-11-05T17:55:10Z
       
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       (This is not a subtoot about any specific event btw. It's just that I've been around the block quite a few times by now and I'm observing some patterns)