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 (DIR) Post #AtfBgDkWg1RBdKZhWC by SilverDeth
       2025-05-01T22:02:23.521477Z
       
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       >This is a subject I tread carefully around. However I did point out to my GF that it seems like the odds of both the President and VP to have immigrant wives seems low. ___________________The grass seem greener.  I've seen a lot of folks try the foreign bride thing.  While an American woman is hypergamic, generally insecure, mostly unable to submit to a man and programmed with massive amounts of meme-Malware, other regions females are a sight to behold in their own right.  I'm about to generalize here - because generalizations are completely valid at the civilizational level - in fact, at this scale, bell-curves are pretty much ALL that matter.  While individuals - we call those "outliers" - can break from the norm, the overwhelming majority of races behave in a similar way.  (These shared temperaments are cultural to a small degree, but you can mostly chalk them up to heritable genetics).I have a frequent customer - an author - who ordered himself a Ukrainian bride.  Before he did this, I told him "you have no concept of the sh*t-tests a Slav is going to put you through."  Predictably, she ran him over, got her green card, and promptly took him to the cleaners in court.  He was a doormat on his best day - he could not even handle a western female - let alone rein in a firebrand blonde babushka. What Larry didn't understand is that a Slavic woman will find you unfit if you show anything less than the iron resolve of a dictator - and that she will fitness-test you constantly just to be sure.  I won't say she thinks you don't love her if you don't occasionally "slap the b*tch," but it's f*cking close to that.  A Slav requires a level of Alpha behavior that most Western men find exhausting - and she will continually test your authority - failing that test in western lands is asking for the worst possible sort of divorce rape.  Or getting poisoned.  Don't date eastern-block women unless you're a a square jawed meme of a man who relishes conflict or a mob boss.Let's move on to the Asians.  Japanese, Chinese, Korean and Pilipino women are popular pick for the guys looking elsewhere.  They think - hey... they seem "trad..." this will work.  (They're not, it won't).Most Asian women are natural uber-strivers.  They will hen-peck you to death over finances and social standing.  In their culture, these two things are of paramount importance  (Honor Culture).  While she will comport herself in a reserved, traditional way with regards to wifely duties - and take the largest share of the child-rearing off your shoulders - your financial success and social standing will be MANDANTORY.  You better get that promotion and you sure as sh*t better bring home the bacon.  If you're not seeing to her children's needs and THEN some - and making her look good by being attached to a prominent man, you're toast.  Lose your job?  Pretty much guaranteed you loose the wife and kids too.  All relationships are transactional to a degree - most Asian ones are PURELY transactional.  If you're ordering in "take-out" you had best be very much "a big man" in your zone of influence, and a salaryman to boot.  She'll submit only so long as she deems you worthy of it.Korean women combine the above with "Modern Western Female Empowerment Syndrome."  Avoid avoid avoid.  There is a reason their birth-rates are collapsing faster than Japan's.  She'll demand the bacon and the status, but won't give even the pretense of submission.Some men think they'll get a little señorita to be their "trad wife."  She's cooks, trends religious, hate divorce, and like to be with the kids.  This is your dream - right?Well, we'll just leave off the part that most gain 150lbs after the first kid.  Most Western women seem to bounce back better after having children, and let's not pretend "looks don't matter."  They matter.  Always have, always will, so cut the pretenses.  (Nobody likes the look of a flumpy oval-shaped woman or a bald, short or flabby man.  Nobody - not even themselves).  Latino women - particularly Mestizos - let themselves go when it's time to be "mommy."But beyond the superficial - Latino women are absolute queens of mind-games and back-handed compliments.   She needs you tough, manly and strong (physically or emotionally).  She's not there to make you comfortable, soothe you or create a relaxing environment.  The kids are the priority, you're a meal-ticket.  Imagine a Slav, only less calculating, more volatile, a good bit more irrational and 1.5 standard deviations dumber.  Your Latina bride is not a recipe for "peace and happiness."  She's not as likely to divorce rape you to pieces.  Which is nice.  But you will be continually cut down and reminded of your every inadequacy if she's not getting what she expects.  And because she's not as capable of modeling probable scenarios - 15 average IQ deficit - she lacks the ability to settle the way smarter races of women do when they realize their man has peaked.  She'll always want more, and you'll know not one second of peace until she gets it.____________________________So what's a man to do?This is not an easy question.  I struggle with it a lot.  I found a real unusual lady.  Unicorn among unicorns.  (We could compare mug-shots).  When my son get's older he's going to have terrible issues unless something changes.    I think it helps to understand that all relationships are transactional to a degree.  What's a man getting?  Sex, comfort and kids to carry on his legacy.  What's a woman getting?  Protection, financial security, kids to love and raise and be loved by.  That means a woman needs to sleep with her man, cook him food and create a peaceful home environment for him.  She also needs to give him children.  These are obligations.  They are what she brings to the bartering table.A man has his own duties.  He will protect his woman and kids to the point of his own death.  He will work and sacrifice his health and comfort so his family has what they need to grow and be secure.  His toil, blood and pain are to craft an environment where children and his wife can thrive.  If one party is failing to deliver in these duties, problems erupt.  The short-circuit is that young men and women are fed lies that tell them there need not be any obligations in relationships. Player (cad) culture allows men to game female hypergamy for easy sex and no commitments.  Feminism tells women they ARE THE TABLE and they don't need to offer anything.  Compounding things are skewed divorce courts that turns marriage into nothing but serious downsides for males.  Why take a 66% chance of getting raped in Family court when pr0n and game-theory can meet your sexual needs?  (Only later most men realize how empty that all is, and how important children and family are).  They opt out.  It's a bad transaction.  From the female side of things, modern Western men are disheveled, feminized children.  This is the fault of risk averse helicopter parents, lack of good male role-models and culture that shows nothing but contempt for manly culture and activities.  Nobody taught these boys how to be men, and their civilization punished them for any masculine traits they dared display.  So a woman looks at these soy-kin "males" and that does ANYTHING but make her feel like he can provide for her and three kids.  It introduces uncertainty and makes it impossible for her to submit herself to the "man."  The few males who do know how to act like men are foreign imports or players who are just work the girls for casual hook-ups.  (Hypergamy is not a difficult concept to figure out and take advantage of).On top of all that, you have economic issues that make one man providing for his family almost impossible.   The fact that you'd need to be making $113.00 per hour to have the buying power of MINIMUM WAGE in 1977 is a Goddamned disaster for socieo-sexual relations.    Whole situation's f*cked.  Probably has to burn down to fix.T/L DR: Western women need to submit to their men, and the men need to be worth submitting to.
       
 (DIR) Post #AtfNoezQTrZ1stKp1c by TrevorGoodchild
       2025-05-02T00:18:22.658629Z
       
       3 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @SilverDeth excellent, accurate effortpoast