Post Al8VeHxIMd3tfKW4u0 by aiju@chaos.social
(DIR) More posts by aiju@chaos.social
(DIR) Post #Al8VeCZ0PVf4wY76qe by aiju@chaos.social
2024-08-19T19:43:58Z
0 likes, 0 repeats
sometimes i worry im too boring and that im actually trending in a more boring direction, especially since i’m drawn to quiet and want to long term spend more time in quiet contemplative-ish activities ^^ but it does seem to make me more happy…
(DIR) Post #Al8VeDFBsfPD3NqnbM by aiju@chaos.social
2024-08-19T19:53:01Z
1 likes, 0 repeats
like i can tell that im starting to enjoy silence more and more. i used to really hate breaks in conversations and now im like, this is fine. and i think i can extrapolate that at some point i will prefer just enjoying people’s presence in silence and that might be .. weird ? idk ^^
(DIR) Post #Al8VeHxIMd3tfKW4u0 by aiju@chaos.social
2024-08-19T19:55:42Z
0 likes, 0 repeats
when i was a kid someone told me that the words spoken are actually the least important part of communication and i thought that was complete nonsense back then but the older i get the more it seems like he was right ^^
(DIR) Post #Al8VeJbOF2jClyHc2K by aiju@chaos.social
2024-08-19T20:38:21Z
0 likes, 0 repeats
honestly i think im realising im mostly scared about being boring bc i dont have an embodied experience of being around people that have compatible vibes? most of the time when i hang out with people i can feel this tension bc they’re more drawn to intensity and i’m more drawn to quiet