Post Aa0tZcPZkbVMeSthU8 by dejenol@cdrom.tokyo
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 (DIR) Post #AZyr7qFCL2OeIogXrM by wandering_soul@cdrom.tokyo
       2023-09-21T04:24:01.806549Z
       
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       It didn't work out well in the end.I asked her to stay so we could talk for a bit, and she said yes; but then she didn't wait for me and went to the bus. We did talk, but not privately. I don't know if it was conscious or not, either way, it's like she's telling me she's not interested in that way... Which sucks. I hope we can still be friends, but I'm giving up on anything else I guess. I make her laugh, and she's said I'm a likeable person, and I'm sure none of that has changed. Maybe she's just distracted. I don't know. At least I tried something. That alone gives me a little bit of peace. I'm not going to worry about it anymore. If I get the thought again, I'll cut it right there. She does not like me like I like her.
       
 (DIR) Post #Aa0tZcPZkbVMeSthU8 by dejenol@cdrom.tokyo
       2023-09-21T14:51:32.110639Z
       
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       @wandering_soul That sounds like the friendzone :blobdead: . Still, I would recommend trying to meet her outside your daily schedule (bus/school/uni or whatever) when you feel like it. Nobody wants to miss the bus and arrive late at home, also people can be tired or being distracted with the daily events (it happened to me years ago when a nice girl tried to start a conversation with me in the bus home and I wasn't having it). If she accepts the proposal you'll have a new friend and if she refuses you'll have more peace of mind and could still maintain a cordial relationship.Otherwise, in the future you may torment yourself thinking that maybe you should have given it another try or approach the matter differently.