Post AXOtYXmU8InrksWTbs by comrade_lecter@nnia.space
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(DIR) Post #AXOt8RnFlw1xeiRFAm by grumpy@mirr0r.city
2023-07-05T23:23:38.099945Z
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i'll never get over the fact that there are fuckers out there who can tell you with a straight face that they're "pro para" and "anti map" at the same time
(DIR) Post #AXOt8SOpWE5XXG1Fk8 by grumpy@mirr0r.city
2023-07-05T23:37:56.632696Z
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@Parapuppy "I'm pro-para unless acting upon your desires would be morally wrong" is usually the stance they take, in which case they sorely misunderstand what being pro-para even is while shitting on the term's origins.
(DIR) Post #AXOt8T64vQgPhOFn9c by KatieCruz@freak.university
2023-07-05T23:46:47Z
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@grumpy @Parapuppy Isn't the very definition of paraphilia "morally wrong?"
(DIR) Post #AXOt8TgEkzbfVXAfVw by grumpy@mirr0r.city
2023-07-05T23:50:50.644249Z
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@KatieCruz @Parapuppy now that i think about it, im not 100% positive i know what the dictionary definition is of paraphilia, but i've always been under the impression it was just an abnormal sexual/romantic preferencemap, necro, zoo, plush toys, inanimate objects, fictional characters... etc
(DIR) Post #AXOt8ULiGmmdaAZnA8 by comrade_lecter@nnia.space
2023-07-06T00:12:56Z
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@grumpy @KatieCruz @Parapuppy the current SCIENTIFIC definition of a paraphilia is “intense and persistent sexual interest other than sexual interest in genital stimulation or preparatory fondling with phenotypically normal, physically mature, consenting human partners” (DSM). It's not considered inherently dangerous or illegal. The POPULAR PSYCHOLOGY definition of a paraphilia does involve danger, immortal, or illegal activities. Because, while research doesn't recognize a kink or a fetish as something separate from a paraphilia, a number of pro sex positivity blogs define a kink as an atypical sexual interest, a fetish as an exclusive atypical sexual interest, and a paraphilia as a dangerous or disordered sexual interest. The COMMUNITY definition of a paraphilia is just a non normative attraction besides LGBT attractions.
(DIR) Post #AXOtYX4An3MFXRn5Xc by grumpy@mirr0r.city
2023-07-06T00:13:58.921747Z
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@comrade_lecter @KatieCruz @Parapuppy Ah, don't you just love it when the semantics are confusing as hell?
(DIR) Post #AXOtYXmU8InrksWTbs by comrade_lecter@nnia.space
2023-07-06T00:16:58Z
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@grumpy @KatieCruz @Parapuppy well, I find the first one and the last one synonymous, if we simply add more attractions than just sexual. I do dislike the second one a lot, because these people made it up as an excuse to say that ageplay kink is okay, but pedophilia is a no-no.