Post AUhEICTJrFWA48LkEC by atomic@universeodon.com
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 (DIR) Post #AUh6zmu3U45JsF81aK by Tilopa@convo.casa
       2023-04-16T01:36:44Z
       
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       I want to be a ghost that spends eternity haunting interesting abandoned buildings.
       
 (DIR) Post #AUh7jsIHm02vujRDVI by atomic@universeodon.com
       2023-04-16T01:45:03Z
       
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       @Tilopa sounds lonely.
       
 (DIR) Post #AUh95MJfRidl3ttPGa by Tilopa@convo.casa
       2023-04-16T02:00:09Z
       
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       @atomic I was just thinking that I have no interest in having a girlfriend, or wife, and no interest in having any kind of social life. Either this is because of detachment springing from a 'going beyond', 'leaving behind' mundane affairs, or the result of severe mental-illness.
       
 (DIR) Post #AUhCMDpQYY4vWUTrOa by atomic@universeodon.com
       2023-04-16T02:36:48Z
       
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       @Tilopa I'm mostly the same way.  I don't have much interest in dating, casual sex is not something I am into.  I will go out occasionally with my brothers friends when they go bowling or to a movie.  But dont really have any friends of my own.I don't necessarily think that that is because there is something wrong however.  It may be just who you are.  I would like kids someday, but being gay that is unlikely to happen.  But other than that I am happy by myself.  Maybe you just need to be happy with yourself as well.
       
 (DIR) Post #AUhDDifsbOLQXQWZWq by Tilopa@convo.casa
       2023-04-16T02:46:29Z
       
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       @atomic https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder if I had to self-diagnose.
       
 (DIR) Post #AUhEICTJrFWA48LkEC by atomic@universeodon.com
       2023-04-16T02:51:15Z
       
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       @Tilopa huh, that sounds a lot like me as well.  Though a good bit of it for me might be the fact that I am autistic.  But most of the things in that opening paragraph fit.  😅Especially the internal fantasy thing.  Though I typically only engage in it before I go to bed.
       
 (DIR) Post #AUhEID1LoijvlgGvGy by Tilopa@convo.casa
       2023-04-16T02:58:30Z
       
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       @atomic Yeah, me too. I generally feel a bit flat, 'empty', have a nagging feeling that I should have a social life, but being absolutely incapable of forming one. Lack of a personality means unable to procure sex, so don't even bother trying. What is different now than in the past is I've accepted how things are, how I am. I don't really feel lonely, only feel puzzled as to why I'm not, though I should be. I feel like a slightly sad ghost, drifting through a rather dull, pointless existence.