Post AT0x6R7NLjoRfCB63c by bobdoto@pkm.social
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 (DIR) Post #AT0c38i1EtWof9u7ua by nicole@pkm.social
       2023-02-24T15:39:54Z
       
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       Some of my favourite high-context words about relationships in Tagalog (Filipino) that don't exist in English:1. Kulit: Being so exuberant, excited, or needy in a way that others find annoying but also endearing.2. Lambing: Doing or saying something you know will gently provoke someone, with the goal of letting them know you care for them.3. Gigil: An overwhelming excitement/affection for someone to the point of wanting to physically hurt them (in trivial ways).Talk about mixed messages!
       
 (DIR) Post #AT0x6R7NLjoRfCB63c by bobdoto@pkm.social
       2023-02-24T19:35:41Z
       
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       @nicole love this!
       
 (DIR) Post #AT0zpaMC2trDG0lVc8 by nicole@pkm.social
       2023-02-24T20:04:47Z
       
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       @bobdoto Sometimes I forget how awesome and quirky my native language is. :)
       
 (DIR) Post #AT1VSuMOhlnjAY5iWO by matthewhaines@mas.to
       2023-02-25T02:00:50Z
       
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       @nicole that last one remind of the middle schoolers I teach!
       
 (DIR) Post #AT1guK1GVnQ842Tu5o by kmaustral@pkm.social
       2023-02-25T04:08:44Z
       
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       @nicole Thanks for the warning. It must be so hard to read Filipinos.
       
 (DIR) Post #AT27G4GSMnVQNccIcq by nicole@pkm.social
       2023-02-25T09:04:19Z
       
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       @matthewhaines Oh! I can see gigil totally works in that context too! 😂
       
 (DIR) Post #AT27QT4Mzs5MCuvFpo by nicole@pkm.social
       2023-02-25T09:06:13Z
       
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       @kmaustral I can't speak for everyone, but I'm married to a non-Filipino and had to learn to actively lower the necessary context of my communication. I thought it was unfair to expect him to understand behaviour that is so steeped in culture!