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 (DIR) Post #ASG9lUFMYaSS8HFNbM by conquestoftoast@social.xenofem.me
       2023-02-02T05:39:31.008838Z
       
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       whenever I'm out drinking and we cheers to something I always habitually cheers the bar, whether it be against the bar or table or a wall depending on where we are. which I've been told is a pretty explicitly southern thing but what I've noticed more is that it's a poor folk thing.good dives act as community centers in certain respects so it's beneficial to marginalized folks to respect the place they gather. now yeah that comes with perks like a not insignificant time my tabs are free, or free drinking after it's closed to shoot the shit with the staff.but the other thing I noticed is that folks who *don't* have those habitual behaviors tend to kinda shit heads when it comes to operating *within* other community spaces. I won't say it's a one for one because there's definitely a regionality to it, but I won't say it's not something I notice or look for when I'm at my local watering hole.