Post APpSWuteDzlKM1Naca by alyx@gameliberty.club
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 (DIR) Post #APpCZZinoJWiHdYJEG by icedquinn@blob.cat
       2022-11-21T09:56:24.367504Z
       
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       kind of bizzare that men thought happy men would be the most attractive to women but women apparently think happiness is cringe and prefer men who look bored and dead
       
 (DIR) Post #APpFFskPf8QlMWbglU by newt@stereophonic.space
       2022-11-21T10:26:28.558336Z
       
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       @icedquinn most women consider most guys quite ugly. Which raises plethora of uncomfortable questions, like how the hell hasn’t the human race died out yet?
       
 (DIR) Post #APpFLEjrKNFx0wtvzk by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T10:27:27Z
       
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       @icedquinn No... this is precisely what I would have expected. Women have no evolutionary pressure to select for happy men. They evolved to select for successful and powerful men. That's pretty much it. Men's emotions don't play much of a role in that. The slight pride uptick is more of a byproduct of successful men. On the other side of the coin, the evolutionary pressure on men is to protect women and ensure their happiness, because men's goal is to make women faithful to them. So from the start, women being happy is what men want.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpGkhqQLjl8TigFd2 by newt@stereophonic.space
       2022-11-21T10:43:14.679212Z
       
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       @roboneko @icedquinn if you're ever on Twitter, there's an entire genre of posts by women posting men's bios from Tinder and other dating apps and shittalking them into the ground for how supposedly ugly and demanding these men are. Meanwhile, most guys mentioned in these posts are pretty average and all they seem to want is find a couple.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpGvrF7kN64oQYEYy by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T10:45:16.614552Z
       
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       @newt @icedquinn because women dont choose their partner based on beauty, men do
       
 (DIR) Post #APpHM90yIKIHSYSwnw by newt@stereophonic.space
       2022-11-21T10:49:35.404822Z
       
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       @yangwenli @icedquinn somehow i very much doubt both these statements. It's more complicated than this.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpHPrPjfulU1xoyKu by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T10:50:41.547843Z
       
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       @newt @icedquinn if this is news to you, then im surprised.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpHTKV9z7qx730q8m by newt@stereophonic.space
       2022-11-21T10:51:19.110341Z
       
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       @yangwenli @icedquinn let's say, your words contradict my experience.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpHY2B3XdGzjFquLQ by newt@stereophonic.space
       2022-11-21T10:52:10.350451Z
       
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       @roboneko @icedquinn I'm not even sure what counts as "would fuck" here. Like, "he's ugly but that's a nice lambo" ?
       
 (DIR) Post #APpHZtXicCjRWqL88O by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T10:52:30.039500Z
       
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       @newt @icedquinn theyll think about it a bit harder once their eggs are drying up
       
 (DIR) Post #APpHmHfOkVCtp3q6jI by newt@stereophonic.space
       2022-11-21T10:54:15.002584Z
       
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       @yangwenli @icedquinn seeing unmarried lonely women in their late 30s or older makes me sad.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpHoKmY8ZOA41A70a by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T10:55:07.346495Z
       
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       @newt @icedquinn pretty much the norm. Their manboys will settle down for only one of them
       
 (DIR) Post #APpHy4ZJH1gUfrc4EC by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T10:56:52.125404Z
       
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       @newt @icedquinn btw theres some weird shit that goes on in women's brains when fucking too. Which is why they fall in love first on average, even when theyre just whoring around
       
 (DIR) Post #APpI7VItF59ACLQiLw by newt@stereophonic.space
       2022-11-21T10:58:34.528818Z
       
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       @yangwenli @icedquinn man, we seem to live in completely different worlds.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpIB8IeiBeO0m3Cj2 by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T10:59:14.513024Z
       
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       @newt @icedquinn what I said is fact, but youre free to not believe it
       
 (DIR) Post #APpIDYHR5XnnAQdLeK by writer13@blob.cat
       2022-11-21T10:08:26.260651Z
       
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       @icedquinn I can't take this shit seriosly tbh. Stupid experiment, based on very few pictures and emotions.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpIHeQ4Cld1MkcpMm by newt@stereophonic.space
       2022-11-21T11:00:23.049115Z
       
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       @yangwenli @icedquinn if this was a fact, we'd both see the same picture. We don't. Perhaps, regional and cultural differences are to blame.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpILcRJVYnKNr6ISm by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T11:01:08.152720Z
       
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       @newt @icedquinn sexual liberation was a huge mistake and birthrates will cause the downfall of our comfy office job society. That much is certain no matter what
       
 (DIR) Post #APpIi2Ho5j6UutLKcq by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T11:05:11.618049Z
       
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       @roboneko @icedquinn @newt oxytocin https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20131125/how-the-love-hormone-works-its-magic
       
 (DIR) Post #APpJ0bSw28uREiOyGm by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T11:08:33.242100Z
       
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       @roboneko @icedquinn @newt the main point is it works very differently between males and females "Oxytocin is produced in the hypothalamus and released during sex, childbirth, and lactation to aid reproductive functions." https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/275795
       
 (DIR) Post #APpJ2EYmASasm4uYtc by Ashalam@poa.st
       2022-11-21T11:06:48.508725Z
       
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       @alyx @icedquinn 
       
 (DIR) Post #APpJ9GjUUIEDXZHH84 by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T11:10:06.745699Z
       
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       @roboneko @icedquinn @newt nice leftist meme
       
 (DIR) Post #APpJAvBLaF7LHV5xi4 by newt@stereophonic.space
       2022-11-21T11:10:24.289812Z
       
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       @roboneko @icedquinn @yangwenli I wanted to post this!
       
 (DIR) Post #APpJCktYnictxLeMoS by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T11:10:45.437307Z
       
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       @roboneko @icedquinn @newt need more text
       
 (DIR) Post #APpJLuCHaNVJPblpDM by Ashalam@poa.st
       2022-11-21T11:08:06.129175Z
       
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       @alyx @icedquinn Wrong image.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpJMc52QfqxVsif20 by yangwenli@cawfee.club
       2022-11-21T11:12:32.453955Z
       
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       @roboneko @icedquinn @newt we can be nitpicky about this but would you say childbirth doesnt make a woman love her child because a fuckton of oxytocin is released? Yes some mothers kill their babies but im talking about the average
       
 (DIR) Post #APpKf1OZ9CTPC1C93o by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T11:27:03.625261Z
       
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       @roboneko @Ashalam @alyx @icedquinn tl;dr "Dating site statistics sample people who remain on dating sites, and not the general population."
       
 (DIR) Post #APpKmbkoMfX7z7DXzE by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T11:28:26Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam So is the general idea that women on dating sites just happen to be far worse people than women in the general population?
       
 (DIR) Post #APpL5k4fec7TI9d9bE by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T11:31:53.288970Z
       
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       @alyx @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam That is one way to interpret it. There's lots of interpretations of this, but none of them are "this is the general dating population."
       
 (DIR) Post #APpLVnsq78r2dQWWW0 by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T11:36:36Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam I think that's wishful thinking.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpLYs8gkSQWhbOrb6 by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T11:37:09.311117Z
       
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       @alyx @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam There are a lot of equally good interpretations of those charts.One is that the men who remain on dating apps are actually uglier than the average, and that women who remain on dating apps are not.One is that women who remain on dating apps have skewed ideas about male attractiveness.One is that women can pick up on male desperation - and the most desperate men remain on the dating apps.Each of those "sounds" right to at least someone. But they tell totally different stories. If anything, these sorts of statistics should be read as an argument for not using dating sites - they tell you a lot about the people who are on them.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpMEJO6LMD75LMwmv by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T11:44:38.627137Z
       
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       @alyx @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam Proper sampling matters. When your sample is flawed, you need to acknowledge it. Extrapolating to the general populace is not possible here.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpNUCqQXRAxNalFs8 by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T11:58:43Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam >One is that the men who remain on dating apps are actually uglier than the average, and that women who remain on dating apps are not.This is severe wishful thinking. It implies handsome men get enough action IRL that they don't need dating apps, but somehow beautiful women don't get enough action IRL?! Considering men are the chasers, and women the chasees, if anything it's gonna be beautiful women that have more than enough attention from men IRL that they don't need to use dating apps. >One is that women who remain on dating apps have skewed ideas about male attractiveness.This implies women have unrealistic expectations about men. >One is that women can pick up on male desperation - and the most desperate men remain on the dating apps.This is similar to your first interpretation, in that only the less desirable and thus desperate men use dating apps. If this was still 10-15 years ago, maybe I could still buy the "this is not representative of real world" argument, but dating apps have gone into mainstream years ago. And once again considering the chaser-chasee dynamic, if anything such hypothesis would fit better the women demographic. If anything you would expect there to be disproportionally more desperate women on dating sites, cause the non-desperate women simply get their attention from IRL. Men are chasers, and chasers are gonna go wherever the pray lies. We already know from other studies that men are far more likely to date down than women are. And you don't even need studies to see that fact. Just look at the articles from women column writers that complain they can't find a man that is smarter, more educated, and makes more $ than them. They can't even think about dating someone with less social status then themselves. But men don't have than hung up, and all too often we see men being perfectly accepting of dating down, or sometimes even desire it.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpNZ9s915xnbovSfg by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T11:59:37Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam Too much of the population uses online dating to still claim sampling is flawed to this extent.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpNhbEZAdekmoRFjM by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T12:01:08Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam If the irregularity was close to what you see in IQ bell curves between the sexes, or between races, you could have had a point. But this is an extreme difference.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpOf4gjItw3DqyJ0q by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T12:11:53.266302Z
       
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       @alyx @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam For the first:>This is severe wishful thinking. It implies handsome men get enough action IRL that they don't need dating apps, but somehow beautiful women don't get enough action IRL?! It may also have been the case that mainly attractive men got selected out of the dating app pool (because they paired up with someone) and that the attractiveness of women had no impact on them being removed from the dating app pool. This makes some sense - on dating apps, men often match with everyone they can (so there is no selection for attractiveness) and women pick and choose (so there is some selection for attractiveness).For the second:>This implies women have unrealistic expectations about men.It may also be that women who remain on dating apps are overly choosy - that they have overly high standards which are preventing them from pairing off with a mate.For the third:>This is similar to your first interpretation, in that only the less desirable and thus desperate men use dating apps.I correct you here by saying that it suggests that only the less desirable men *remain* on dating apps. People who use the app, pair off, then delete the app are undersampled in this data. I mainly want to make the point that there's a lot of ways to look at the data. I think it is wrong to draw broad conclusions from these graphs.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpOx1qSc42ncL5ICe by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T12:15:07.613211Z
       
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       @alyx @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam Oh, I want to point out here that I have been saying "remain on dating sites" as opposed to "use dating sites" for a reason.If someone uses a dating app for 1 month, pairs off with someone, then deletes the app, you get less data out of them.If someone uses the dating app for 12 months unsuccessfully, then you get a lot of data out of them.Most of this data is coming from people who stayed on the dating app and didn't pair off successfully.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpRLMLyDPLq54YJ2e by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T12:41:56.351555Z
       
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       @roboneko @Ashalam @alyx @icedquinn Your argument that serial hookups being high representation may be right. However, for arguing that this data does not generalize, it is not necessary to make that argument.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpRN8wH3pkd3WNqts by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T12:42:14Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam >It may also have been the case that mainly attractive men got selected out of the dating app pool (because they paired up with someone) and that the attractiveness of women had no impact on them being removed from the dating app pool. This makes some sense - on dating apps, men often match with everyone they can (so there is no selection for attractiveness) and women pick and choose (so there is some selection for attractiveness).I love how your argument goes back to: men don't have unrealistic expectations about women, so they will match with everyone they can, while women have unrealistic expectations about men. Besides, why would attractive men get selected so much easier out from the app dating pool, when, even if they don't have much expectations, they still need to pass the woman's expectations to get selected out. It's not like a man just swipes "yes" a hundred times and he gets guaranteed a date. There's still 2 levels of selection here: the less strict selection the man makes, and the strict one that women make.An attractive women on the other hand... it's not exactly news that a beautiful women can pretty much have anyone she wants. She wont get much resistance once she picks someone. And then there's also the issue of men being far more likely to date multiple women at the same time. So you'll have men stick around anyway to cheat. And let's be honest, it's not the unattractive men that get the privilege to play that game. I simply don't see how there would be an imbalance, that favors eliminating handsome men from app dating pools but somehow favors beautiful women remain in place. >It may also be that women who remain on dating apps are overly choosy - that they have overly high standards which are preventing them from pairing off with a mate.Or in other words, women have unrealistic expectations about men. > only the less desirable men *remain* on dating apps.You're just doing useless word games at this point, and bad ones at that. The data simply shows distribution of people using dating apps at a point in time. You act like there's been some historical process that has magically eliminated ONLY the handsome men, that no undesirable men have given up dating or have stopped using dating apps for various reasons, that no undesirable men have improved themselves to be more desirable, or that no new desirable men have entered or returned to the dating pool. The reality is that the dating pool is always dynamic, in that people come and go, but the demographic distributions are gonna stay similar, because that's how things tend to compensate over time.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpRidQ6vZ4JfmaUKm by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T12:46:08Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam A single person who stays 12 months on a dating site is not gonna become 12 data points, while a person that stays 1 month only provides 1 data point. That's not how studies are made. This is a severely erroneous assumption. If someone were to make this mistake in constructing a study, I would demand they be thrown out of academia. Studies show a snapshot in 1 point of time, where each individual is 1 data point. That's it. You don't need to track the views of people who got married out of dating sites to get an unbiased view on how dating men rate women and vice-versa.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpS1MEv1oxhtHHRZo by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T12:49:31.637790Z
       
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       @alyx @icedquinn @Ashalam I'm going to bookmark this to explain to you later, unless @roboneko can drill it into your mind.I will point that the OKCupid data is not an academic study - it is a corporation publishing their data.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpS1nQBy11SC3lKOe by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T12:49:37Z
       
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       @roboneko @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @icedquinn @Ashalam >so certain populations will build up on the siteI disagree.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpS8i56Di3ResC2a0 by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T12:50:50Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam Sorry man, nothing you said convinces me that this severe difference can be explained away. There is something else underlying there, that you refuse to believe, because you're probably still stuck in your mind believing women are flawless beings. News flash: they're not.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpSJkpsJrtLO1L3S4 by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T12:52:51Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam And it's hilarious, that EVEN IN YOUR ARGUMENTS for why men handsome would be less represented in the data, YOU ARGUE that women are more picky, have much higher standards etc. But then you desperately try to disprove data that shows EXACTLY THAT.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpSQSFPpNuJlPToNU by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T12:54:03Z
       
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       @roboneko @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @icedquinn @Ashalam I've explained far too much already. At this point I'm feeling like I'm talking to a stubborn wall.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpSVGZwdjOZ1NNPkW by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T12:54:56Z
       
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       @roboneko @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @icedquinn @Ashalam Fuck. You.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpSWuteDzlKM1Naca by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T12:55:14Z
       
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       @roboneko @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @icedquinn @Ashalam You seriously don't get to say that. No.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpSd4SZa75BkfeMSG by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T12:56:20.651378Z
       
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       @alyx @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam I point out - again - that in those arguments, I am pointing out that there are many valid interpretations of the data. I point out *again* that each of those arguments for what the data says is something that *someone* would believe - even if they imply totally different things!It would do you well to slow down for a moment and think.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpSsx5akkyBWdTPt2 by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T12:59:13.032389Z
       
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       @roboneko @alyx @Ashalam @icedquinn I should point out that "observing that samples are flawed" is a mistake that serious researchers make a lot, so it is a little unfair to say this.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpTJc9eh9P6Pv5VDM by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T13:04:01.706772Z
       
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       @alyx @Ashalam @icedquinn @roboneko my man, I want to point out that the things you and I think are obvious may not actually be obvious to an average observer. Moreover, our friend here is emotionally charged right now - I think it is bad to bring out the textbooks right now.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpTKXzjeBvnnwtOnw by alyx@gameliberty.club
       2022-11-21T13:04:12Z
       
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       @roboneko @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @icedquinn @Ashalam
       
 (DIR) Post #APpTmLzJshyAftxPVY by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T13:09:13.820689Z
       
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       @alyx @roboneko @icedquinn @Ashalam >This entire conversation30ce88597b2b95d9c502b71ed7cd2840c808bc4d270a7b06b2dc2b10d886b2e7.png
       
 (DIR) Post #APpTyBOr4cvnJMXeZk by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T13:11:22.022143Z
       
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       @roboneko @Ashalam @alyx @icedquinn That one has been saved in my folder for years and this is the first time she gets to come out.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpUBoNJTamXxHJqzI by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T13:13:48.588872Z
       
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       @roboneko @alyx @Ashalam @icedquinn I'd not wanted to bring that particular one up myself, although I certainly *did* have that thought.I did not think it constructive to play into the emotional issue. I sincerely wanted him to understand that there is more at play with these dating app statistics than he believes.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpUhdG6LGKqkG7SAS by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T13:19:34.785326Z
       
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       @roboneko @Ashalam @alyx @icedquinn He did start to bring up a valid counterpoint - that there's people who stop using dating sites for reasons other than pairing off. However, he won't hear that the equilibrium these things reach is not distributed like the actual dating population from either of us anymore.He's gone done stormed off 'cause you ticked him off. I understand it's tempting to tweak the guy's nose like that, but I'd wanted to actually get something through to him!
       
 (DIR) Post #APpZKgymqFkHOYtwA4 by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T14:11:25.522981Z
       
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       @SoyMagnus @roboneko @icedquinn @alyx @Ashalam >get a pooch🤔 Yes, but that is how you get women to be sexually attracted to your dog and not you.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpa1I7H9qlujgBVYW by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T14:19:07.337996Z
       
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       @SoyMagnus @roboneko @icedquinn @alyx @Ashalam This is fair. I personally prefer adult human friends, but mostly of the male variety and in completely platonic ways.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpb7hbNPrmHT9svlw by Zettour@gearlandia.haus
       2022-11-21T14:31:29.015756Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @SoyMagnus @alyx @Ashalam Get a small dog and she'll treat it like a child instead.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpbInMyJR3KXiR8q0 by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T14:33:30.177150Z
       
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       @Zettour @roboneko @icedquinn @SoyMagnus @alyx @Ashalam >woman treating the dog like a child🤔 Explain why this doesn't involve her sexing the dog.8kpbj9jnhay91.png
       
 (DIR) Post #APpbXZsAm8HX1k4zdw by Zettour@gearlandia.haus
       2022-11-21T14:36:11.948009Z
       
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       @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @roboneko @icedquinn @SoyMagnus @alyx @Ashalam Damn. Get a female dog and hide the peanut butter I guess.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpeGG6HKrWedx6vZ2 by PapaPole@bae.st
       2022-11-21T15:06:42.910746Z
       
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       @roboneko @newt @icedquinn I would bet the women are judging based on a different criteria than the researchers think. Bored is actually disinterested. Its a man who isn't begging for her attention/approval and that tricks her into thinking he's a Chad with better options than her.
       
 (DIR) Post #APpl1NOqc5DAcMeAd6 by Ashalam@poa.st
       2022-11-21T16:13:51.378328Z
       
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       @roboneko @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @icedquinn @alyx It's a good image to get redditors fired up though, that was my actual intent(along with the other one, I hedged my bets).It's weird how sterile and academic the discussion got. People, both men and women, have their tastes but to some extent that will be negated if they meet a person that they want to be with and vice versa, they might meet someone that fulfills a lot of their ideals but they don't like the person.Dating sites will have a couple of pictures and some text which makes it very impersonal so a woman can easily reject a man on a dating site based on that information and that's the end of it, had they met in real life it might have gone differently.Same with a man, he might have swiped [whatever direction is "I can do that"] but if he had met that woman in real life he might have noped out.
       
 (DIR) Post #APqIU0JynKEJvUd1Rg by ceo_of_monoeye_dating@bae.st
       2022-11-21T22:37:21.622026Z
       
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       @Ashalam @roboneko @icedquinn @alyx >It's weird how sterile and academic the discussion got.Two technically minded people jumped on the topic. Yes, it will immediately become very sterile and academic.