Post APe6Du7aaBrlnH2aga by iarna@kolektiva.social
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 (DIR) Post #APdZXzOFPGi5RFnnWq by cwebber@octodon.social
       2022-11-15T18:48:39Z
       
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       I've gotten a bunch of replies being confused why I specifically said I am willing to date *queer* people, and why that seems to cross otherwise decent cis straight dudes off the list.  It's not that I'm against it, I'm against a cis straight dude *initiating* that with me.I've mentioned that the murder rate for trans women is pretty high, and unfortunately I even had some people straight up tell me I'm wrong.Well, I'm not wrong.  Trans women are in general at serious risk, and *black* trans women even more so.Read up.https://abcnews.go.com/US/homicide-rate-trans-people-doubled-gun-killings-fueling/story?id=91348274https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/ncvs-trans-press-release/Don't reply turning this into a debate by the way.  Do that somewhere else.  I'm not open to it.
       
 (DIR) Post #APdZY00X6vKpLziNCi by cwebber@octodon.social
       2022-11-15T18:51:16Z
       
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       To be clear on that one point: I am a white trans woman.  I am saying, there are people who are in even much higher risk categories than me, but the risk category is already high.
       
 (DIR) Post #APdZY0SXQnjikqojr6 by zleap@qoto.org
       2022-11-15T19:17:19Z
       
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       @cwebber I am just doing a course on Bullying through the anti bullying alliance.https://anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk/There is a module that covers issues faced by the LGVTQ community,  I can't fathom why,  when we are all human beings.   Hopefully Mastodon is a safe place.@TransRadioUK
       
 (DIR) Post #APe6Du7aaBrlnH2aga by iarna@kolektiva.social
       2022-11-16T01:23:27Z
       
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       @zleap @cwebber @TransRadioUK Safe places are not exactly a thing, but there's a community to fight back with here.
       
 (DIR) Post #APfZdDnBfvpRs1slpA by mym@toot.cat
       2022-11-16T01:12:59Z
       
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       @cwebber i tried dating a cis man once! she came out like three months later
       
 (DIR) Post #APfZhyhNDlSiVQQnDc by daisy@cloudisland.nz
       2022-11-16T12:44:53Z
       
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       @mym @cwebber my anchor partner is cis, but nearly every “cis man” she dates subsequently comes out as trans/nb/gq, including me 😂