Post AMtlxt7nCTdOGPqQHA by Elizafox@social.tulsa.ok.us
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(DIR) Post #AMtlxt7nCTdOGPqQHA by Elizafox@social.tulsa.ok.us
2022-08-25T20:53:11Z
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Am I bad for wanting my abusers to get better... I don't want harm to come to them, I want them to realise the harm they've done and correct their behaviour, and I don't want others to be hurt by them.I'm not interested in penalties anymore. It's more important to stop making victims and rehabilitate abusers who were likely abused themselves.
(DIR) Post #AMtlxtcdLoIvo4H3Lc by Elizafox@social.tulsa.ok.us
2022-08-25T20:54:48Z
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Like, one of my abusers recently died and it's made me reflect on this a lot. Their death from cancer was so hollow, so meaningless, it fixed nothing, it didn't give me closure, it just made me feel like... what a fucking waste. Imagine if they'd actually reached out, apologised, and worked to ensure they erased those traits from themselves.