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(DIR) Post #AMXlKt3Hva1CgO6arA by james@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-15T06:24:51Z
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Looks like you get notified on #Mastodon for a post that was edited that you boosted or liked.
(DIR) Post #AMXmd4Z3xm7HYSCf20 by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-15T06:39:18Z
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@james that’s actually smart. So if you boost a post about linux, they can’t turn around and edit it to something transphobic and thus make you have shared something transphobic, without you knowing. (For example)
(DIR) Post #AMXoQv5PZq3OakfP8K by 2T2@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-15T06:59:34Z
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@slink lol what's that transphobic?
(DIR) Post #AMXoel53ZhZvc76EhU by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-15T07:02:04Z
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@2T2 are you asking what transphobia is? If so, it’s the irrational fear of, hatred towards and/or inacceptance of transgender people.
(DIR) Post #AMXty53c1eRQqLSOB6 by 2T2@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-15T08:01:35Z
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@slink if they fear transgenders it means they are not a threat for transgender people. Hatred it's a bit too much to say it's like me saying transgender people hates straight people which more likely is not true. Also if we refer to the first case 'fear' assuming there is someone with that kinda feeling it's something they can't control like the fear of the height or fear of spiders etc.Also you can't demand everybody just kiss your rear end just because you cut your balls and start throwing generously left and right with so called 'transphobic' label.People have the right to like or not all kinds of stuff if they considered so . Therefore if i say i don't like trans people is my legit right but that doesn't mean i hate them or i'm scared about them. So you see this word tranphobic doesn't hold any substance but only when a individual runs from trans people like you would run from a tarantula which again could be 1 in a million case. If i don't like chocolate ice cream i'm not a chocolate-phoeb. Or if i don't like climbing up mountains i'm not an climb phobe or hate climbers. It more a matter of taste.
(DIR) Post #AMYivtfyUFgXVLMMJE by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-15T17:32:38Z
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@2T2 The term is a bit odd, I agree. People have been trying to find a new one that is more accurate (anti-trans is one such term). There are people are actually afraid of trans people (“the gay agenda” bla bla bla) but the majority is hatred and inacceptance. And yes, people who are afraid of trans people try to pass laws to erase and harm them; they are a threat to trans people. I never said you hated trans people, but there are many who do. I never ask anyone to “kiss my ass”? I simply expect basic human respect and decency. I didn’t call anyone transphobic here either. And saying “I don’t like trans people” has some issues. It is the equivalent of saying, (truly equivalent, this is not a reductio ad absurdum attack) “I don’t like straight people” or “I don’t like black people”. If you don’t want to be trans, you don’t have to be trans. That’s a false comparison. Saying “I don’t like trans people” is like saying “I don’t like mountain climbers”, or “I don’t like people who eat chocolate”. Happy to clarify what I mean by anything above.
(DIR) Post #AMYmrDerAOczqWrU1o by 2T2@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-15T18:16:37Z
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@slink yeah i mean you guys should find a better term for those who don't like trans but not hate them. After all that's what for example is a gay dude he doesn't like girls but that doesn't mean it hates them i like to believe. Therefore a gay dude i guess you can't say he is girlphobic..
(DIR) Post #AMYn1z8LVZXJz8mx60 by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-15T18:18:33Z
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@2T2 you’re comparing romantic attraction to acceptance there. Not a valid comparison. Anti-trans is a better term.
(DIR) Post #AMZ0FeidVNKG81c0bg by 2T2@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-15T20:46:42Z
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@slink things have to be validated from both sides. If only one side decides how to call the other side it means is a biased term. Trans-incompatible-personality think is a better term. Anti-trans is still too much. Those anti-trans are those that beat them on the streets or other out of the ordinary actions. Same as society learned to accept same sex relations same this community has to learn to accept trans-incompatible-personalities. Everybody has to accept to receive a NO at some point not only what he/she likes to hear cos those are fantasies from movies and not real life. Always has to be 2 ways not only 1 otherwise it's totalitarianism. Every decision has at least two options. Also when you feel you're forever hated is anything but healthy. But if you think you're just not liked that's another story.
(DIR) Post #AMZ0TjkFcCL3lq57pI by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-15T20:49:11Z
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@2T2 So racism isn’t bad, it’s just a “race incompatible personality?” Your logic is falling apart, I’m sorry.
(DIR) Post #AMZ75SrLRX2087lzCi by 2T2@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-15T22:03:18Z
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@slink no need to call the racism 'fire exit'. Trying to name transphobia even worse anti-trans is like trying to extinguish a fire with couple of gasoline gallons. The word racism can be called by both sides one that claim is oppressed by anti-trans and the other claiming is oppressed by the lgbt agenda so racism is not very helpful either in this case. We are not calling lgbt anti-straight or straight-phobic so same you guys stop calling us names like anti-trans or trans-phobic. Being a minority doesn't mean you guys have to be disrespectful with those that just say NO. Everyone has to take NO as a possible answer. That doesn't mean it's always NO cos everybody knows you guys barely fit into a minority so of course it's not always NO but just sometimes, occasionally. There's a profound incompatibility between lgbt and the vast majority of straight people but that doesn't mean that incompatibility turns into racism. It's as simple as the word incompatible and guess what, is not the end of the world no matter how much we twist this. But both sides have to make efforts to be empathic as much as they can individually and should not expect to have YES wrote somewhere in constitution cos that would be totalitarianism. People has to have freedom of expression either straight or trans.
(DIR) Post #AMZ9jYDSlLOvI9OhEW by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-15T22:32:56Z
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@2T2 Again, I’m afraid I’m not following your logic. It’s not a “fire-exit”, it’s a valid comparison. If you don’t want to address it, you don’t have to. Queer people are not “straightphobic”. Many trans people are straight. What do you mean by “incompatibility”?I also wasn’t saying it turns into racism, I was saying it is comparable to racism.
(DIR) Post #AMZFIHogEBdMKqBi3k by 2T2@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-15T23:35:14Z
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@slink i don't think straight and trans can be linked together no mater how much natural rubber eats someone in order to have a flexible enough thinking to put those two words together. I referred to straight straight not to trans straight. Incompatibility not because it's necessarily intended but better said resulted. Like someone flex too much and his pants breaks. So because straight people run after some hot natural-born-girls and the other lgbt folks run after anything but that there's a technical incompatibility like a conflict of interests. This incompatibility arise without anyone being against anyone but just because they run after totally different goals. Like two planes that take off from different directions and some collision may occur. Those collisions are neither because of straight folks nor straight trans like you call them (trying to keep up with the ever changing fluid things out there) those are just technical incompatibilities. So again this kinda logical incompatibilities appears and one side can interpret it as anti-trans and we can interpret it as anti-straight but that's just an incompatibility. Like an equation that doesn't have a solution.
(DIR) Post #AMZQnHYsKBQI18mHku by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-16T01:44:06Z
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@2T2 I’ll let you rephrase that in a way that makes any sense whatsoever.
(DIR) Post #AMZvfvwlO0kPX4vXn6 by 2T2@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-16T07:30:09Z
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@slink not until you explain the trans-straight part
(DIR) Post #AMZvtcjJdBS3zEAICW by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-16T07:32:36Z
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@2T2 A woman can like a man, and vice versa. If one or both of them happens to be trans, you have a trans straight person. That's about all there is to it.
(DIR) Post #AMZyV6cleBAXKE6R0a by 2T2@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-16T08:01:48Z
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@slink i don't think the term straight can fit anywhere in lgbtq+. If yes why a gay dude (non trans) can't be straight precisely gay-straight meaning he is not bisexual?
(DIR) Post #AMaUlpG4fDNuvCVLto by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-16T14:03:22Z
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@2T2 what
(DIR) Post #AMaWA8HVgh0IpDKYXg by 2T2@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-16T14:18:59Z
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@slink gay-straight exists or just trans-straight?
(DIR) Post #AMaWbbcehqoLdxJzRA by james@mstdn.starnix.network
2022-08-16T14:23:55Z
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oh look what thread I made
(DIR) Post #AMaWlSXpJQzgNulGEq by slink@tilde.zone
2022-08-16T14:25:43Z
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@2T2 gay and straight are mutually exclusive, one cannot be gay *and* straight…