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 (DIR) Post #AIB5hr9YD1CR40DaN6 by sunrise_matriarchy@spinster.xyz
       2022-04-05T22:58:09.245558Z
       
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       On DRESS CODES. I do and I don’t support mandatory dress codes for these events because if lack of access to or lack of desire for required looks prevents someone from coming who would otherwise love to attend and who would be an awesome presence in the space, we are missing out by alienating them. However there’s something to be said for the feeling that comes with the self care of polishing up to arrive someplace of value that wants you as a guest to feel taken seriously. So when you opt in to the dress code you opt in to helping create “the scene”,  “the vibe”, and therefore the quality of experience for yourself and other guests.  Therefore dress codes at my gatherings will be optional , but highly encouraged. These collages are a mix of casual and fancy looks I personally love. For myself I lean more towards the fancy, but that doesn’t have to mean “frilly and feminine” ….  I absolutely adore the women in suits. Don’t they look fantastic in that dark blue?!
       
 (DIR) Post #AIB5hrr9au4tFEcPKq by sunrise_matriarchy@spinster.xyz
       2022-04-06T16:25:26.496263Z
       
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