Post A6B3cHvhGPbFpCIKdk by woktavia@spinster.xyz
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(DIR) Post #A69PvZTq2o86R0wbo0 by Nora@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T22:05:26.433271Z
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In your estimation you are
(DIR) Post #A69Pva4hpjcWHMC3Gq by lezpaulguitars@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T22:33:51.316463Z
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@Nora it depends, I like my face but its heart shaped with softer facial features. There seems to be this rising obsession in popular culture, at least in the US, with very defined, strong facial features. There's a lot of women getting filler injected into their jaw area to get a more masculine jawline and the expectations seem to get more ridiculous as time goes on. I'm more likely to find someone who looks like me in a classical painting than in a modern advertisement. Before I fully realized the way pop culture and media were influencing how I saw myself I might've said that I'm unattractive, but I think I'm average. I also think that everyone has the ability to move around on this scale, something as small as a haircut can make a big difference in appearance. Somedays I'm more unattractive, which I embrace, because when I'm not thinking about my appearance it just means my focus is on much more important things :)
(DIR) Post #A69PvaXQ6yaZiPcz1k by theAVclub@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T22:39:11.432322Z
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@lezpaulguitars @Nora If this was 14th century france, I'd be SUCH a hit. 😂
(DIR) Post #A69QZURyAKEiPw6Z0a by Nora@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T22:30:38.829903Z
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Hug to the person who thinks they're repellent- as long as you're repelling the right people, it can be a skill...
(DIR) Post #A69Tnfdnef6B2e5l1k by Yhe_XX_Estate@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:22:51.862600Z
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@Nora On a good day I think I am 🔥 🔥 🔥 . Other days average, and when I'm in a bad or insecure space just ick. I think most of us are average or moderately attractive no matter our self perception.
(DIR) Post #A69TpPLnC2rl64UtxA by Chronic-Yonic@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T22:55:17.209033Z
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@Nora It depends. For men and straight women, I'm surely completely unattractive. For lesbians, I might be passable.
(DIR) Post #A69TpPnRXEz4TpQz3I by Nora@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:00:00.760709Z
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@Chronic-Yonic y'see this is why I made an anonymous poll, because I know some of us are far too modest...You've hit on something I was pondering though: whether how attractive we feel has something to do with whether we're attracted to men/they're our target market.
(DIR) Post #A69Tq4ox0XYFiNSGau by Hollahollara@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:23:49.627774Z
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@Nora “Repellant”…are we talking personality here or what? 😝
(DIR) Post #A69TzqQRNs1JxqeFWa by Fullycaffeinated@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:25:35.360619Z
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@Chronic-Yonic @Nora I disagree, you have a Jamie-Lee Curtis-esque bone structure, expressive eyes and your hair colour absolutely suits you. Now I have no idea what lesbians find attractive, but I assume that varies from one woman to another.
(DIR) Post #A69U0Wq5gtUfVYyKKu by cubensis@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:25:42.662335Z
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@Nora Results spoilers aheadWoah! That gorgeous bell curve. love it.
(DIR) Post #A69UnRA7aP4s5hf8VM by Chronic-Yonic@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:29:10.671633Z
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@Fullycaffeinated @Nora Really? Well Jamie Lee Curtis is kinda like a looker I find. Thanks! :blobaww: I'll tell that to the mirror in the bathroom :blobjoy:
(DIR) Post #A69UtPBJrZspgZ4Jk0 by Fullycaffeinated@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:35:37.545562Z
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@Chronic-Yonic @Nora I've found that the bathroom mirror is often a liar. And that we often hyper-focus on things that we think are wrong with us.
(DIR) Post #A69V4z90UkemPJVbou by Chronic-Yonic@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:37:13.996219Z
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@Fullycaffeinated @Nora That's true, there are times where we feel good with ourselves :blob_cat_snuggle:
(DIR) Post #A69ZWxOsyJowvKWt28 by Nora@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:54:37.521608Z
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@Hollahollara Interpret it how you like! All modes of being repellant are valid
(DIR) Post #A6AXzFCQNqIjU61Nz6 by Gnomeshatecheese@spinster.xyz
2021-04-12T08:28:20.521753Z
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@cubensis I was just about to say that I’m rather tickled that the most common answer is “average”. @Nora
(DIR) Post #A6B3cGa2HSg9dj9WEq by Justwanttobreathe@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T22:43:44.215989Z
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@lezpaulguitars @Nora oh, I have never noticed that the culture was actually pushing this type of face. It's so easy to not see it when it's something you like. I have a heart shape too and I voted hugely attractive (ha) cause other people seem to really like even though I'm annoyed by how babby it is
(DIR) Post #A6B3cH7MHZKlJ4k8B6 by woktavia@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T22:54:23.458960Z
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@Justwanttobreathe I actually bet it was you @lezpaulguitars @Nora
(DIR) Post #A6B3cHVSpwcGVq1Nke by Justwanttobreathe@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T22:57:01.748332Z
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@woktavia is my narcissism that apparent? Ah well @Nora @lezpaulguitars
(DIR) Post #A6B3cHvhGPbFpCIKdk by woktavia@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:05:53.837751Z
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@Justwanttobreathe Oh no, I'm not implying an inflated view of the mind. I'm pretty sure you mentioned it once and and I thought you wouldn't have false modesty so I placed my imaginary bet. @Nora @lezpaulguitars
(DIR) Post #A6B3cIJnomsl1xZaDI by Justwanttobreathe@spinster.xyz
2021-04-11T23:16:18.719215Z
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@woktavia @Nora @lezpaulguitars one doesn't contradict the other :eyebrowwiggle:
(DIR) Post #A6BEn8s6Ne1QPfzWSm by Nora@spinster.xyz
2021-04-12T09:15:47.563206Z
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@Gnomeshatecheese @cubensis I think that points towards healthy self image in the feminist outcast community
(DIR) Post #A6BEqMoT0Fx0WJpRZ2 by Babayaga@spinster.xyz
2021-04-12T08:14:57.779780Z
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@Nora I am repellent to all straight men, but of course am hugely attractive. Single for 25yrs as proof!!