Post 77089 by Cathymarinara@mastodon.social
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(DIR) Post #76843 by Eweish1@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:24:13Z
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https://bofa.lol/media/tcYk4bne_0_nvMSlssU
(DIR) Post #76844 by citrustwee@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:24:39Z
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@Eweish1 he said the trans word... :(
(DIR) Post #76845 by SouthernGothHick@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:25:26Z
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@citrustwee @Eweish1 that's really not what the problem is.
(DIR) Post #76846 by citrustwee@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:26:26Z
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@SouthernGothHick @Eweish1 that's what he was being accused of. this is todd doing a joke about being a chaser, after multiple trans women encouraged him to, because it's funny
(DIR) Post #76847 by citrustwee@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:27:21Z
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@SouthernGothHick @Eweish1 aka me. i was literally the one telling him to do a bit where he acts like an idiot chaser and it's incredibly obvious that he's joking.
(DIR) Post #76848 by nuttgodd@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:31:14Z
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@citrustwee @SouthernGothHick @Eweish1 I don't even remember if Todd knew what a chaser was before you joked about it
(DIR) Post #76862 by citrustwee@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:32:03Z
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@nuttgodd @SouthernGothHick @Eweish1 yeah lmao before i told him, todd, the gay man, did not know what a chaser was
(DIR) Post #77047 by AnthonyDavis@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:28:12Z
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@citrustwee @SouthernGothHick @Eweish1 hang on, I'm confused here, wasn't the whole point that Todd said the "t-word" slur, but I don't see it here?
(DIR) Post #77048 by citrustwee@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:28:34Z
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@AnthonyDavis @SouthernGothHick @Eweish1 yup! everything that was said literally did not happen, as i expected. thanks!
(DIR) Post #77049 by Cathymarinara@mastodon.social
2018-09-18T15:31:56Z
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@citrustwee @AnthonyDavis @SouthernGothHick @Eweish1 oh good, his bad ‘joke’ is slightly less bad than remembered
(DIR) Post #77051 by AnthonyDavis@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:33:15Z
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@Cathymarinara @citrustwee @SouthernGothHick @Eweish1 I think it's important to remember that the whole reason this was started was because someone made an accusation about an incident that didn't happen, and then posted an image of a less bad incident as proof that the first incident happened
(DIR) Post #77052 by Jewbacchus@octodon.social
2018-09-18T15:41:48Z
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@AnthonyDavis @Cathymarinara I mean, similarly important to remember eweish never had context when reading and would not be inclined to check the context further. I feel like, sure, todd probably didn't say this, but eweish has been incredibly consistent about saying it's not a callout, just unwilling to doubt herself/her memory/her experience based on other people telling her to. Pushing for receipts and jumping on threads has mostly been escalatory. Just give people their space/time.
(DIR) Post #77053 by nuttgodd@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:47:51Z
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@Jewbacchus @AnthonyDavis @Cathymarinara if you accuse someone of being transphobic when they have many strong friendships with trans folks online you either better have receipts or just accept that nobody is going to believe you
(DIR) Post #77089 by Cathymarinara@mastodon.social
2018-09-18T15:49:50Z
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@nuttgodd @Jewbacchus @AnthonyDavis wow okay, cause no one has ever used friendships with marginalized people as a smokescreen
(DIR) Post #77127 by nuttgodd@bofa.lol
2018-09-18T15:53:27Z
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@Cathymarinara @Jewbacchus @AnthonyDavis what about marginalized people vouching their friendship and confidence in that person?
(DIR) Post #77238 by Jewbacchus@octodon.social
2018-09-18T16:00:40Z
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@nuttgodd @Cathymarinara @AnthonyDavis this all seems to be a much larger scope than the original issue of just "did Todd say an incredibly shitty word or not" where you're now talking in very stark and more morally absolute terms. This is also incredibly not my lane so I should and will bow out of talking about it. Sorry if I contributed to anyone's hurt, I think both of the major stakeholders in this issue are good people being misunderstood.