Post B6jeFNRhNjKduLk7cG by MK2boogaloo@freebeerextremist.com
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 (DIR) Post #B6j5GfHf35WX7qvVFA by MK2boogaloo@freebeerextremist.com
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 (DIR) Post #B6jFa8mKbybve5CJvs by menherahair@eientei.org
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       @MK2boogaloo has "patina" not entered tiktok vocabulary yet?
       
 (DIR) Post #B6jeASAoNRb97eUpRw by MK2boogaloo@freebeerextremist.com
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       @menherahair never, they're only interested in fast fashion.
       
 (DIR) Post #B6jeAbpCUeFl3WSi9Y by manfromhuh@dsmc.space
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       @MK2boogaloo This is a really odd one to parse without actually knowing the parties.On the one hand the guy might have been really proud of the work he did even if it wasn't “professional” level.On the other, it's hard to say OP did anything malicious and if he's upset he should say so.A simple conversation would solve so much and neither of them seem like they're going to have it.
       
 (DIR) Post #B6jeFNRhNjKduLk7cG by MK2boogaloo@freebeerextremist.com
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       @manfromhuh tbf I won't be able to hold myself back in a conversation without hurting someone if they did something similar.
       
 (DIR) Post #B6jeFfwqaewXIASFfM by souldessin@noauthority.social
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       @MK2boogaloo "hey, honey, I know you put all your time and effort into something and you really like it, but I think it looks like crap so I got it completely redone for you and negating any of your time and effort that you did put into it. Hope you love it!"
       
 (DIR) Post #B6mmKFgh2I3COyTJ1U by manfromhuh@dsmc.space
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       @MK2boogaloo That seems a bit much. You need to establish boundaries. And maybe that's what this moment should have been. The boyfriend saying some version of “this thing that you did hurt me and here's why.” But again, it seems that the root of the problem here is that neither of them are going to have that conversation so this and a thousand other cuts can fester, and eventually kill them both. :cirnoShrug:
       
 (DIR) Post #B6mmMcb6pPve2DzQEC by MK2boogaloo@freebeerextremist.com
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       @manfromhuh true, it's better to communicate this kind of stuff even if it means it's going to hurt for the moment.