Post B5XSVyOZiTgiczdz96 by georgia@netzsphaere.xyz
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(DIR) Post #B5XQNHP9TGoH4NdmLo by anemone@ebiverse.social
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i think everyone here hates me
(DIR) Post #B5XQNHr9n9DATEk90C by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
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@anemone we are friends, are we not?
(DIR) Post #B5XSVyOZiTgiczdz96 by georgia@netzsphaere.xyz
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@anemone I dont :(
(DIR) Post #B5XYzdQOqf4g091ZtQ by medli@shitposter.world
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@anemone i like you!
(DIR) Post #B5Xa4Z7mMe2M4AEJ28 by Saorsa@neondystopia.world
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I don't hate you, that's just your anxiety gnawing away at you.@anemone@ebiverse.social
(DIR) Post #B5Xa4ZNNQeVuqXWlLU by anemone@ebiverse.social
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@Saorsa@neondystopia.world idk i think most people dislike me
(DIR) Post #B5Xa4ZekO4PNiPedQ8 by Saorsa@neondystopia.world
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I haven't seen that to be the case so far from our interactions on the Fediverse. There will be people that may hate you simply for what you are, but truth be told they're probably doing you a favour by making their position clear from the start so you know to avoid them. @xaetacore and I regard some of the more censor heavy Mastodon instances in the same way. If they were going to defederate our instance entirely from vibes and subjective judgement calls without first checking in on our policies to see the kind of community we wish to cultivate. Then we are better are probably better off for it by not having to deal with authoritarians. Those that hate you simply for aspects about yourself that you cannot change are not worth your time or consideration. As for whether people do truly hate you or not, why not observe the way people interact with you and reach a conclusion from there. It is important to know that you won't please everyone, but likewise you can't and shouldn't lose sleep over the possibility of whether someone hates you or not. What someone thinks of you is ultimately not important unless they happen mean something to you.@anemone@ebiverse.social
(DIR) Post #B5Xa4a3Cv7ySwH6AXw by anemone@ebiverse.social
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@Saorsa@neondystopia.world @xaetacore@neondystopia.world maybe hate is the wrong word. I feel like I donβt exist
(DIR) Post #B5Xa4aI61lsrgS43km by subnetter@shitposter.world
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@anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa I get that. Honestly, I don't think anyone who doesn't feel this way or depressed is a bit bonkers given the current state of affairs. You may feel that way, but you are real to plenty of us and we would be sad if you were gone. I used to play shrimpcam in class for my students sometimes you know! You're really cool and my favorite transgirl on here by far, you crack me up and make me want to check in with others on here. I cannot be the only person your memes and presence have brought joy to.
(DIR) Post #B5YL7tzvuRWLWCeX32 by anemone@ebiverse.social
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Sorry I just have dark moods sometimes
(DIR) Post #B5YLLzBTQMTPenlZjs by RustyCrab@clubcyberia.co
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@anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa you tend not to respond or react much to posts which makes makes a lot of friction for conversation. Some of the more unhinged people (dicey) have commented on this. I figured it was just how you liked using fedi.
(DIR) Post #B5YcHj5p0Vj5oVg3qy by anemone@ebiverse.social
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@RustyCrab@clubcyberia.co @xaetacore@neondystopia.world @Saorsa@neondystopia.world my brain dont work
(DIR) Post #B5YcYEx2KJ8rFnRVKK by RustyCrab@clubcyberia.co
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@anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa something happen or is it just one of those days
(DIR) Post #B5YeYb0UWX3JZCM880 by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
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@anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa tbf you seem to often not post or interact much
(DIR) Post #B5YeaMZh9YyhNwfHdI by subnetter@shitposter.world
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@anemone ;_; you are deadass my favorite person on here, I'm sorry I don't bug you more I just didn't wanna be annoying or bother you from shrimp or reptile duties
(DIR) Post #B5YeaMmoMnTC2cnl4q by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
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@subnetter @anemone i talk to her on matrix from time to time to check up on her.
(DIR) Post #B5YeanBWDYgLumYrCK by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
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@anemone :niggamood:
(DIR) Post #B5YgzNguL7Opzm604O by pettanko@tsundere.love
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@RustyCrab @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa react much as in literally "reacting" or "favorite-ing" posts?
(DIR) Post #B5YgzNtfZfbkdM4Bxg by RustyCrab@clubcyberia.co
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@pettanko @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa both
(DIR) Post #B5YhbfVIYohcFEvFZI by pettanko@tsundere.love
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@RustyCrab @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa Yeah, that kind of thing comes off as something of a courtesy in a lot of social media sites, it's something I think I picked up from Twitter, but when you think about it favorite-ing every reply kind of makes nonsense of the word "favorite" so I try not to blame people for not doing it.
(DIR) Post #B5YhmZXT4w6avj8Wno by RustyCrab@clubcyberia.co
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@pettanko @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa most people know they are just read receipts. I don't blame her because it's whatever but it does feel like sending messages into the void sometimes
(DIR) Post #B5YiKnZzNkyeK2dVL6 by pettanko@tsundere.love
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@RustyCrab @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa >it does feel like sending messages into the void sometimesYeah that's kinda how I feel, but I was never sure how much of it was self-esteem issues on my end and how much of it was a legitimate problem of the internet not being able to convey any of the subtle clues people give off that show they're paying attention to you irl.
(DIR) Post #B5YiNDUrzc0fHbOXBY by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
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@pettanko @RustyCrab @Saorsa @anemone @xaetacore yeah, even i kinda think that, it's why I try to reply at least with a "yeah" sometimes.
(DIR) Post #B5YifJt6yC4cJhMjk8 by pettanko@tsundere.love
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@mischievoustomato @RustyCrab @Saorsa @anemone @xaetacore π
(DIR) Post #B5YifK1yRFA8lBVoYa by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
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@pettanko @RustyCrab @Saorsa @anemone @xaetacore π
(DIR) Post #B5YiftZWIVnCzMTbCi by RustyCrab@clubcyberia.co
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@pettanko @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa @mischievoustomato :niggathumbsup:
(DIR) Post #B5YihLOILwI3YbuuCe by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
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@RustyCrab @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa @pettanko lmfao
(DIR) Post #B5YiuNZZYHPW5ZPJxY by pettanko@tsundere.love
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@mischievoustomato @RustyCrab @Saorsa @anemone @xaetacore I really like reacts for that kind of thing but as I understand it reacts aren't supported across the entire fediverse and even on pleroma they can be a little janky.
(DIR) Post #B5Yivc6924chQbEPHU by RustyCrab@clubcyberia.co
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@pettanko @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa @mischievoustomato they're supported basically everywhere except for mastodon.
(DIR) Post #B5Yj07uog7vtGY5JUu by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
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@RustyCrab @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa @pettanko i dont think anyone i care about personally is on mastardon
(DIR) Post #B5YjHDzPLfRH1kNwoq by pettanko@tsundere.love
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@RustyCrab @anemone @xaetacore @Saorsa @mischievoustomato Ah okay. I knew they weren't supported on mastodon because when I was trying out iOS fediverse apps almost none of them had reacts because big surprise they were all made for mastodon.One thing I wish the Pleroma emoji picker had was a line for your most used emojis so I didn't have to go search for "thumbs up" or "sob" every time.
(DIR) Post #B5YjHcHf1SIeNJ6rbM by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
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@pettanko @RustyCrab @Saorsa @anemone @xaetacore > soblmfao