Posts by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
(DIR) Post #B2Xv66vuCQfLBwYW6S by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-01-22T14:41:21.512211Z
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@dot on this Christian instance we're only into pure things like feet or armpits
(DIR) Post #B2Xv7QjK51K8sfIcsK by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-01-22T14:38:03.860367Z
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@lvvhate that's legitimately an incredible idea.
(DIR) Post #B2bl9f6tMd6h9LaZqC by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-01-24T10:50:21.381202Z
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His score is what now
(DIR) Post #B2evtrOrIlhuv55Onw by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-01-25T23:46:36.603454Z
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@Mondobizarrro @nyx singular form of emoji just dropped?
(DIR) Post #B2h86ic2s5vJCH4V7Y by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-01-27T01:05:57.270169Z
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@nyx honestly a lot of people on here would profit from using a Twitter account to fight with actually annoying woke libs with shit takes and then return here when the superego-injunction for ugliness is dealt with.Like, I love all of you, just saying maybe do that
(DIR) Post #B2q4wEkSV5GWErxMvY by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-01-31T08:50:20.584950Z
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@Mondobizarrro @BloodBecoming what Parenti is to like young ML guys, he is for young anarchists. He's less a reflected thinker and more a "hype-man" who is rhetorically talented and excites people for the cause by assuaging their feelings of doubt. They even both denied the Bosniak Genocide.
(DIR) Post #B2qPYiavyk7ItR80xc by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-01-31T10:38:33.749687Z
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@BloodBecoming @Mondobizarrro listen I love Choking Victim but I don't think he was all that great
(DIR) Post #B2sV8HB6HLSyNEjtAW by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-01T13:00:02.391963Z
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@nyx @utz this is true but it is to be meant in a GDR-sympathetic and not an antideutsch sense
(DIR) Post #B2sXrqhXFd3HUDljnM by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-01T13:30:41.305643Z
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@nyx @utz only in Germany do we have ideological alliances that everywhere else would be made up for a joke
(DIR) Post #B2udXkUjbZLAUFV4Nc by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-02T13:43:18.174394Z
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@dot
(DIR) Post #B2upJVugDksieuc9tw by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-02T15:40:22.887036Z
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A misconception I've seen illustrated today on here and that I feel is too common is that being "nonbinary" is fundamentally distinct from being "transsexual" and that nonbinary people are generally seen to be these annoying people who believe in this hard gender/sex split and who are all about "identifying" as what they are.When I first considered medically transitioning some years ago I linked up with German and German-language trans communities to ask for help in how to get access to transition resources. A unanimous piece of advice I got in almost any communities I required into was "don't, under any circumstances, tell your doctor that you think you might be nonbinary". Doctors here have treatment standards for "binary" trans people (which I'm not gonna pretend are great) and if you don't fall into their categories of "trans woman" or "trans man" they mainly consider you a linguistic problem, someone for whom to sometimes place a tick on some checkbox but not someone who is in need of medical transition care. This is not random, if you read the DSM-V for gender dysphoria, it does nominally mention nonbinary genders but mainly it is formulated in a way that is predicated on people conceiving themselves as or desiring to be "the other gender" than the one they were assigned at birth, with nonbinary options tagged on as an afterthought rather than an option equally valid to the more easy to define identification with "the other" gender.This is not to start with insurers who are maybe the largest bottleneck in terms of transition care. There are standards of treatment for diagnoses like "Transsexualismus", which are very binary-centric as well. If you want to resemble "a woman", you have a strong case that you might want ffs or hair removal or other interventions. If you want to resemble a gender that has a less socially codified appearance, you are risking that insurances deny your claims as you have less of an argument that would make these procedures "necessary".If you see so many nb people who "don't transition" (tbc I don't believe that every single nb person "has to") or "binary" trans people who self-describe as nb, ask yourself if that is a neutral observation or if you are seeing that people who openly describe themselves as nonbinary are discriminated medical contexts. I personally know multiple nonbinary people from informed consent states who take low-dose cross-sex hormones because it is an option that is offered to them. I myself have tried different regimens that include SERMs and/or low-dose estradiol without medical supervision, and I am still on DIY because I could not live with subordinating my medical transition to a system that excludes what I want out of it. I'm considering saving up for top surgery in a few years because I know it won't be covered by insurance without doing a whole song and dance about how I'm actually male and "detransitioning".What I just want to be known is that "being nonbinary" isn't just a funny identity to also claim for yourself but something that is actively made hard to express by a lot of systems. It's not just an escape from having to "fully" identify as your gender. Beyond having it as a checkbox in official forms in more "progressive" places, nonbinary people aren't much respected or taken seriously at all.
(DIR) Post #B2xs1ymN2eS6JEwEEq by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-04T03:09:59.932015Z
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@haematophage @fujoshi I thought girls go to Venus to elongate their penus
(DIR) Post #B30bVtoWx1jPqpVdj6 by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-05T10:49:22.269446Z
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@Mondobizarrro @kittenlikeasmallcat Trans Repner
(DIR) Post #B30iNhte4kF0FgwUwC by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-05T12:02:12.883638Z
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@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @lain Kristina she don't know I exist by Catch 22 (I know it's a song but still)
(DIR) Post #B30iNjJYnsZ4eM4hyC by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-05T12:03:55.882639Z
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@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @lain that said, it's crazy to me that people don't read Scott Pilgrim as a parody of this kind of "emo morality", like do people forget that "Scott Pilgrim is dating a high schooler" is repeated a dozen or so times in the movie and comic
(DIR) Post #B3BfdUeutieIhqRrm4 by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-10T11:50:11.114120Z
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Just agreed to take over the 24h shift tomorrow why am I like this
(DIR) Post #B3BqEusNNwIIH0E9ey by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-10T20:44:16.387892Z
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@Mondobizarrro I knew exactly what it looked like from the first post alone my favorite has to be this one, maybe if just because I'm so partial to Wallsockethttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EgiwIzbbWiY
(DIR) Post #B3C4BiUsLuNCMzbU4e by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-10T23:13:17.858953Z
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@nyx I hate it because all my reading groups happen on Discord channels. Surely we'll find some other way but still
(DIR) Post #B3DhbSTcd1TbaFF6Tg by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-11T17:48:39.866792Z
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@fisk the fundamental tgirl urge to sneak into shit
(DIR) Post #B3HXDVg4r10leSqlI8 by kyouu@social.xenofem.me
2026-02-13T04:21:24.820240Z
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@cyb3rm0shp1t Jesse Plemons in Bugonia