Posts by hebebur@nnia.space
(DIR) Post #AV3dihpmJDV5EWQhH6 by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-04-26T22:15:11Z
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I never outright disapproved of calling people eggs for a long time, but this is like. True.It's disrespectful and also harmful to GNC people. A man can wear a dress without being an egg. A woman can be butch without being an egg. And yeah, they can be an egg. But that's for them to say about their past if they do end up being trans.An egg is you 5 years ago before you realized, not your GNC friend. And if you genuinely think they're an egg you can have a serious conversation and not just call them eggs.The only person you can call an egg is someone in on the joke, who has said its okay. It's just really weird to call GNC people eggs and in the same breath say fuck gender stereotypes.
(DIR) Post #AVBWdVHCQSrqQKVVfE by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-04-30T17:45:18Z
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@comrade_lecter I thought we were gonna take MAP and make it just a word and not an acronym,,,
(DIR) Post #AVLoNkuOHOe91o4v44 by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-05-05T16:41:49Z
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If you guys need some freak friendly terms I stopped password protecting our coining tumblr. It's only halfway done with all the terms in our drafts but you can find all our dead dove terms there lol. I'll probably post more today. At some point I'll let it be searchable lol.https://alterouscuteboygirl.tumblr.com/?source=share
(DIR) Post #AVTueAOhuyrqGnR692 by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-05-09T09:32:46Z
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Can I ask a serious question about SSRIs and/or SARIs to someone btw, just need an ease for my paranoia
(DIR) Post #AVTueM8UH71UfxwJWq by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-05-09T09:45:39Z
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Well I spent some time googling and now I'm even more paranoid and it's now rounded out to 20 hours awake with no sign of sleeping, do I take my sleeping meds and not wake up until really late or suffer until I can safely take a medicated conk out hah
(DIR) Post #AVisXv3GuuJpinorSa by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-05-16T17:24:39Z
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@comrade_lecter Also i don't have friends because I'm aplatonic, not having friends isn't a personal flaw!
(DIR) Post #AW5eA7SBxbwtRMddr6 by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-05-27T19:33:34Z
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@comrade_lecter I'll add that friendly is also MAP related too, if it's like. Queerplatonic, or any other form of platonic that isn't ""the normal amount""PlatoniMAPs my beloved, even though I'm the exact opposite and aplatonic af.
(DIR) Post #AYTSTVl4S3KflWVdzs by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-08-07T02:54:42Z
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Is there a flag and term for specifically Guitar Objectophilia?
(DIR) Post #AZ0qMxLL0W95Y3frNo by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-08-23T05:33:02Z
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@comrade_lecter need omg
(DIR) Post #AZmGnDyivwdFDpuByy by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-09-15T02:23:54Z
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How do people deal with death?I uh. I don't know. I feel like I should feel something. Fuck it was a cat I had a crush on, shouldn't that make me feel something?But I NEVER FEEL ANYTHING, even that year my family members were dying left and right. I am a broken person.
(DIR) Post #AZnq53Lct6AF1BoYe8 by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-09-15T20:35:23Z
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Are my thoughts cool enough to start a blog on our new url we boughtLike if we had a blog on plurgai.monster would it be looked at at allHmmmm
(DIR) Post #AaLn4jCNwkjlJrm05Q by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-10-02T05:48:28Z
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Wait I finally found the original definition of Xenosatanism!!!Only took... forever.I thought it seemed odd the way antis were describing it. I was lowkey thinking I'm trans xenosatanist but I'm totally a xenosatanist.Antis explained it as "Okay with all abuse + sexual abuse" and that's clearly not what it says lolhttps://archive.ph/nOZ1d#section01
(DIR) Post #AaMAODbxObpO5czsJs by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-10-02T10:18:25Z
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@comrade_lecter I usually concede that I have reading comprehension issues but respectfully, I'm unsure if that's a very fair interpretation?It's not pushing people onto sex acts, just encouraging people to do what they want without it being taboo.And it says harmless sexual interaction, not traumatizing. There's plenty of people who have "traumatic" things that happen, except it's outside people who say it must have been traumatic. "Induced by internalized social norms".
(DIR) Post #AaMk0vhpOjsMFMwBVY by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-10-02T10:20:55Z
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@comrade_lecter personally I interpreted it as "Society says this specific thing is traumatizing at all times, so it pushes ppl to be traumatized and gaslights 'victims' into becoming victims"Like how society has Induced incest trauma by retroactively making it a bad thing. The actual incest hasn't caused trauma, its people gaslighting you into feeling violated by it.Maybe I'm wrong, but that's how I interpreted it.
(DIR) Post #AaMkeCsfTaNgo7jiy0 by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-10-02T10:30:31Z
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@parapunk @comrade_lecter I think it's saying that sex isn't some big spectacular thing and is on the same level as everything else.That masturbating is on the same level as hand rubbing and cheek kissing. If no harm is caused then what's the difference other than society has created this sacredness for sex that makes it on some weird other level than everything else.To be fair, its 3am and I'm trying to understand the text so I could be wrong, but
(DIR) Post #AaMmiR1340priInflY by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-10-02T17:27:53Z
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@comrade_lecter I believe they mean the inherent "it was nonconsensual because you can't consent" is what's being talked about, but I can see how it can be misconstrued to seem like it's saying as long as there's no pain then you aren't a victim (which isn't what I think I read but again I have reading comprehension issues and could simply be reading it much differently). To be fair, that is also a very short explanation with a lot of further explaining their point being lost to termination.
(DIR) Post #AaMmsO134YRjIyXsvY by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-10-02T17:29:40Z
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@comrade_lecter I also disagree that encouraging = violation. There's already a fight for people with breasts to be able to be shirtless, it isn't forcing people with breasts to not wear shirts, but encouraging the people who want to not have to wear shirts to be shirtless if they so choose.Fundamentally I think laws around public nudity and sex are kind of bullshit, which is what it seems to be saying. Encourage people to be open instead of hiding for society's sake.
(DIR) Post #AaMnQa4ujPCmYseuHY by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-10-02T17:35:52Z
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@comrade_lecter @parapunk I can agree to disagree, as it isn't something completely different from everything else.I'm not saying it should be done, just that it's very sociogenic. It isn't inherently different, but people have made it different.It's different in the way that touching a foot and a hand are different, but I don't think it's somehow on a different spectrum. But I can see why someone would, and think you're valid in feeling that way :)
(DIR) Post #AaN8Ytuwx2cZRio4gq by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-10-02T20:54:55Z
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I have many controversial opinions but I've also learned that I'm actually correct. /comp
(DIR) Post #AaNFkCslTqer837fsG by hebebur@nnia.space
2023-10-02T22:52:07Z
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Especially when even certain parts of the MAP community are reading into things in a clear Bad Faith way just like Antis, it's making me even more resolute in my opinions lol.I'm becoming too based and awesome for some of these people lol