Posts by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
(DIR) Post #9oEMgBLXMyV6jTBrt2 by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-23T22:17:37Z
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Nope. You "still don't know where all the holes on your body are" - a literal translation or a saying in my region. Fully grown? Nope. Males after 28-29, probably are grown socially, psychologically, and physically. Some women earlier. I'm 41 and I still didn't hit the middle age crisis, because I'm living radically different than the norm around me. Maybe that all is a myth. Btw I felt much better in life after 33! :) @socjuswiz
(DIR) Post #9oENMmQTtkgvtaobku by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-23T22:09:07Z
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They've seen I'm on Spinster so they asked me AGAIN for my phone number. For a dozen times in the last 13 years. The funny thing is my number was and remains the same the whole 13 years. Psyched about what triggered this really.
(DIR) Post #9oENrajfPgvWcCTtpo by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-23T22:30:54Z
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Well Facebook and Twitter are like that.@LangCleg
(DIR) Post #9oEPeWgzKnZUDe7sZ6 by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-23T22:50:55Z
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They're annoying because I can have automatic posts on Twitter and they don't object to that, but they've noticed there hasn't been much other activity on my account like RT likes etc. Or maybe I'm just guessing they are the most obscurely regulated social site I know. I'm not even logging in there since August. @Lennart
(DIR) Post #9oEPoQQZTvGdgXARDk by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-23T22:52:44Z
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Yes, but people treat software as persons. See what I mean: https://spinster.xyz/@cyberwanderlust/posts/102633324718220244@LangCleg
(DIR) Post #9oFOr74E0vuViEOPc8 by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-23T22:03:59Z
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Hey @MirandaYardley is that the psyched church teacher trans male Aoife? :) @Ladyfat
(DIR) Post #9oGNSrUgMFiFfObGaG by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-24T21:35:51Z
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Another genuine question for founders of @spinster: what's the purpose and mission of this platform? @mk @alex Can we make a long ass thread about it? Can we get more women than expected to answer this question? :)
(DIR) Post #9oGOlphhKyv7ZTIXp2 by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-24T21:31:22Z
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Do you ever talk to a woman friend for 3,5 hours straight via today's technology? It's a genuine question I would like to hear about from various women here. Please RePost? ;)
(DIR) Post #9oHbXB6iyCdsAiJ3Ca by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-25T11:48:11Z
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Flat line here :D @Hypatia
(DIR) Post #9oPVlu3D2AwTWzBhNA by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T07:21:17Z
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Ronald David Laing should be a best friend of @alex. I will provide the book on @jesus, but YOU have to start reading dude while you're YOUNG, and stop provoking homosexual people with a bad half-baked uninformed claims. "The Politics of Experience" "ONLY when something has become problematic do we start to ask questions. Disagreement shakes us out of our slumbers, and forces us to see our own point of view through contrast with another person who does not share it. But we resist such confrontations. The history of heresies of all kinds testifies to more than the tendency to break off communication (excommunication) with those who hold different dogmas or opinions; it bears witness to our intolerance of different fundamental structures of experience. We seem to need to share a communal meaning to human existence, to give with others a common sense to the world, to maintain a consensus.But it seems that once certain fundamental structures of experience are shared, they come to be experienced as objective entities. These reified projections of our own freedom are then introjected. By the time the sociologists study these projected-introjected reifications, they have taken on the appearance of things. They are not things ontologically. But they are pseudo-things. Thus far Durkheim was quite right to emphasize that collective representations come to be experienced as things, exterior to anyone. They take on the force and character of partial autonomous realities, with their own way of life. A social norm may come to impose an oppressive obligation on everyone, although few people feel it to be their own.At this moment in history, we are all caught in the hell of frenetic passivity. We find ourselves threatened by extermination that will be reciprocal, that no one wishes, that everyone fears, that may just happen to us ‘because’ no one knows how to stop it. There is one possibility of doing so if we can understand the structure of this alienation of ourselves from our experience, our experience from our deeds, our deeds from human authorship. Everyone will be carrying out orders. Where do they come from? Always from elsewhere. Is it still possible to reconstitute our destiny out of this hellish and inhuman fatality?Within this most vicious circle, we obey and defend beings that exist only in so far as we continue to invent and to perpetuate them. What ontological status have these group beings?"
(DIR) Post #9oPYfvBcCOKxB5xVVg by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T07:53:50Z
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He's just in deep shit. That's what this is. Not enough detractors? Let's make some more! I do hope he will just stop crying wolf on here. @AliceT @alex
(DIR) Post #9oPZwtMYKeCgOojNIG by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T08:08:08Z
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The thing he said has no merit. At all. It's stupid and simplified as it comes and it's probably due to lack of knowledge about human psychology, sexuality etc.I think he's in deep shit because he riled up so many of us. @Vajazzledvagina
(DIR) Post #9oPhvYNhed6gfc8qVk by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T09:37:29Z
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"We seem to need to share a communal meaning to human existence, to give with others a common sense to the world, to maintain a consensus."https://spinster.xyz/@cyberwanderlust/posts/103044459867821010 I think more people should read and educate and elevate themselves in any sense of the way that they can - than fight over this because of opinions of people online. For the first time I'm also pissed about the shitstorms and dramas that are created to WASTE our energy. @Vajazzledvagina
(DIR) Post #9oPjBlr7QMpN32CJ4S by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T09:51:39Z
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Most of the people cannot put themselves in another's shoes because they're ignorant. Don't let it get to you. Especially if you're under 30 years old. I can tell you it gets better and I'm a bisexual, so imagine that pile of shit from everyone everywhere. At the age of almost 42 I don't fucking care about their shit. Personally, it gets better when you're stronger to elevate yourself from the fucking mess the politics are. And this is political shit. More reading, self-inspection, work on yourself, and you'll be fine (I mean that worked for me). Social media will tear us a part. I'm the bugger that's been saying that for the last 5 years, yet here we are. :) @Vajazzledvagina
(DIR) Post #9oPkZGVniAXKjzzdJ2 by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T10:07:00Z
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He's simplifying the whole issue and he's not the only or the first one. Etiology of homosexual desire is not the same for everyone and that's why the whole world still doesn't agree about "born this way" or "socially constructed" LOL and our sexuality is deeply connected to much of the other things about us, so to simplify that as a "choice" is to be intentionally and I would say blissfully (because he's heterosexual) ignorant. Maybe Alex should have apologized already and kept out of it all in the first place. @Vajazzledvagina
(DIR) Post #9oPkplZjzAXLiShiyW by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T10:10:05Z
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And we thought Spinster is going to be a WARM BATH.
(DIR) Post #9oPmQEgZKeU0NXqshk by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T10:27:54Z
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Of course. But then there are nasty over the top comments. It is to be expected... strong feelings strong words. I once wrote here "I wish that Glinner would just drop dead" when he was behaving as a proxy for Magdalen Berns while she was dying.... and they've reported me for hate speech. And I didn't even take this feelings of mine anywhere near Glinner... so... this shit is going to get worse if he doesn't apologize and let go. @LangCleg @Vajazzledvagina
(DIR) Post #9oPmZKsRgJ6OBhkKWG by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T10:29:32Z
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I want to tell you I still have my Twitter account.
(DIR) Post #9oPnb2R3JoD9WbJEDg by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T10:41:01Z
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After what I saw here today, I'm deleting this account and @jesus too. If anyone wants to reach me, I'm everywhere as cyberwanderlust. Bye people!
(DIR) Post #9oPo58Xz9wV9ASu75k by cyberwanderlust@spinster.xyz
2019-10-29T10:46:29Z
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Jesus committed suicide on Spinster. (my last jokes!)