Posts by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
(DIR) Post #A3Jk6Vz2TY4GzMsMu8 by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:35:11.622866Z
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my brain melts any time i see the word "biphobia"
(DIR) Post #A3Jk8tCx6BXfb5W3V2 by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:35:37.442328Z
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it's not real
(DIR) Post #A3JkNNgmZEymBeNYfY by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:38:14.139914Z
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biphobia isnt real bc all that happens is that people don't date you lol and your feelings get hurt i s2gand if you get hurt for being bisexual, its not bc ur bisexual, its bc of homosexual feelings ya dingus
(DIR) Post #A3JkSXO3wC8xiG57uy by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:39:10.400835Z
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by people i specially mean homosexualsif a hetero doesnt date you, theyre being homophobic
(DIR) Post #A3Jkh2jQCEOmypzNWS by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:41:47.266383Z
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even when ID'd as bisexual i really didnt appreciate the other bisexuals stepping in homosexual spaces and speaking about certain issues, especially when they mostly dated the opposite sex??? i still keep my mouth shut about certain things bc ive only dated 1 female long term and had only a handful of lesbo interactions
(DIR) Post #A3JkmZzvwMPZbNLuNc by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:42:47.857555Z
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and pls i dont mean controllin what someone has to say or whatever, go off, but the lack of experience and understanding is obvious
(DIR) Post #A3JlDKkMkehw7VpOwS by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:47:37.940484Z
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@Saiten it isnt wrong for me to say it's silly for people to speak on issues they dont fully understand. they are not homosexual. they are not straight. they are bisexual. a homosexual shouldnt speak on bisexual issues either, they do not understand fully what it means to be "inbetween." i remember bisexuals not feeling like they fit in a place. they do. in that bisexual little cornerthat's as silly as me speaking on the trans experience. i may have dysphoria but i am living as a trans man. i chose not to transitiona bisexual has an understand of homosexuality, theyre still not living life as a homosexual
(DIR) Post #A3JlFJuuo9EM7qi3xg by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:47:59.454384Z
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@Saiten AM NOT LIVING*
(DIR) Post #A3JlwkZPaVABF0MPpI by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:55:50.310208Z
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@Saiten i think now we're just getting technical and my apologies for not being clear about it, because truthfully i dont engage in these discussions often and i suck at debateI'm not advocating for them never to speak out or actually control their thinking. That would be actually insane.I'm pointing out that they don't fully understand and will never fully understand a different person's way of life, just like how I won't understand theirs. They can speak whatever they want, but their background will affect the validity of their opinion
(DIR) Post #A3JlxxHxmmlmybm2Xg by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:56:03.489147Z
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@jyushimatsu @Saiten jdhdKsurks fjefkenr ekdkwkdjr rndirowka oh my GOD
(DIR) Post #A3Jm49CwNsuzgENS1g by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T04:57:09.744320Z
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@Saiten i mean now that goes against what i injtially said i guess but it was a heated post and i understand the consequences of that (but wanted to clarify)
(DIR) Post #A3JnB2qeWjRBwCnyO8 by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T05:09:36.794527Z
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@Saiten You have done enough for me to reconsider my opinion, but it'll take time ofc. Or at least for me to refine my opinion since it's still wobbly in my brain. I still don't see exactly how a group of people not fully understanding something is invalidating, but I will think for sure
(DIR) Post #A3JnGNTNGyUXLrSYYi by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T05:10:35.239391Z
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man im too turbulent for these kind of discussions but eh i probably should say more of my opinions to get used to me saying shit and defending it
(DIR) Post #A3JnHMepmyu574I4OG by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T05:10:46.078003Z
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or refining them of course
(DIR) Post #A3JnK1PzDI4C6nc2ee by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T05:11:15.037355Z
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i actually feel really good after that, being a stick in the mud isnt all that scary like i thought it would be
(DIR) Post #A3JnOpTV2twYVzY3VI by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T05:12:06.757886Z
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@Soygoy wait you dont think i should say things or dont think im turbulent lmao
(DIR) Post #A3JnVzX43CbzjcdAhc by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T05:13:24.838558Z
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i've gone from TRA -> RadFem -> ??? currently balancing the two and it seems like i'm falling under womanist. i need to read more works
(DIR) Post #A3JnaYvIPV9Gej91GK by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T05:14:14.409266Z
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@Saiten nddjdkfkskskdj okay i laughed. i mean, i didnt mean it as a gesture, im serious lolwe're not mutuals but this is Very new to me so thank you for engaging in the conversation too
(DIR) Post #A3Jrv9kRbaOCTV8zrc by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T06:02:46.880026Z
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@georgia ill spare my adderall for u
(DIR) Post #A3KrTRDBHFIrgdKPia by bulaklak@outerheaven.club
2021-01-17T17:32:07.716070Z
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Goodbye Fedi. I will be leaving. I'll be back, but I need a break.There are a lot of reasons why I am leaving, but because of the nature of my job, I am extremely burnt out.Some reasons are I want to learn how to process my emotions privately without receiving any validation. I also started to feel the need to lash out because of my stress, so I know it's time for a break.Thank you.