Posts by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
 (DIR) Post #AT044XdSeTIfoqGlEW by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-02-21T03:56:48Z
       
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       @shrugdealer The heartbreaking thing is that this isn't new.  At all.My grandmother (b.1915 d.2014) loved to sew and had an eye for fashion.  She wanted to be a dressmaker more than anything.In the depression, there was no market for handmade clothing anymore and she had to take a job as a wealthy family's cook to survive.She made a career out of it, became an amazing chef, and retired as a professional baker when she turned 65.  I still miss her cooking, especially her breads and pastries.But during my whole life with her, I always noticed her wistful looks into women's clothing stores and her insightful takes on women's dresses at weddings, parties, etc.I wish I could have seen the things she would have created if given the chance.
       
 (DIR) Post #AUcwyW4gn2y1DZ1A0G by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-04-14T01:25:36Z
       
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       @Tilopa tl;dr because the judges that get to decide the limits of free speech are bought and paid for by the same people who sign Tuckums' paychecks.  Why yes it is grim here in The Former Colonies, thanks for asking.
       
 (DIR) Post #AV8Zch0942eEt1xIWW by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-04-29T04:08:39Z
       
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       @stopthatgirl7 @seldo The only thing I'm gonna add to this thread, and I'll probably regret doing it, is this:Long time Masto users will eagerly tell you about how this platform was designed by marginalized people and therefore has integrated anti-abuse and anti-harassment features.#Black people KEEP ON SAYING that these features are not enough and not working for them.I don't know how to fix this, but I'm 1000% sure it's a problem.  And no matter what kind of non-cis-het-whatever person you are, if you're making excuses and not fucking LISTENING, that's a problem.#BlackMastodon #PleaseDontGiveUpOnUsYet #SomeOfUsWantToBeBetter
       
 (DIR) Post #AV8ZciJgAtrqxu6Pbs by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-04-29T04:15:42Z
       
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       @stopthatgirl7 @seldo Actually, no.  You know what?  Fuck that.  Bomb me with excuses all you want.  The fact is that for the entire time I've been on Mastodon, that's like 3 years now, #Black folks have been saying that our tools are not fucking working for them.  Who are you gonna believe, Black folks or... your own random assumptions?  If we, as Mastodon people, really believe we want to build this community, we had better fucking listen to what Black folks are saying.  If they are being subjected to (and I've seen it) horrific abusive shit and Masto-admins can't or won't stop it, the next stop is the rest of (LGBTQ*) us so we better fucking take this criticism seriously.#BlackMastodon #Solidarity #MaybeNobodyElseCaresButIDo
       
 (DIR) Post #AW8SzHVVj1shPihSts by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-05-29T03:59:40Z
       
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       @tess The best way I've ever heard it explained was by the social media director at Big Software Company, talking to our moderator staff:"Free speech in the US means you're welcome to go stand on a milk crate in the public park and shout about whatever you want.  Nobody can arrest you for that.  It does not mean that we need to accommodate you on our platform.  You have a right to speech, not a right to an audience.  If nobody at the park wants to listen to you, and nobody here wants to either, we aren't required to capture an audience for you to shout at."
       
 (DIR) Post #AWEgQpvPrNbdDWxRS4 by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-06-01T02:46:17Z
       
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       @Radical_EgoCom
       
 (DIR) Post #AWVScwmu4h3uJ0Aw9Q by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-06-09T06:26:35Z
       
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       @hn100 IDGAF how much it costs, (and really, this could have been done much less expensively), MORE NUKES NOW.  We're backed into this corner because credulous boomers got gaslighted by "environmental" groups that were funded by the fossil lobby into opposing all nuclear power.  Thanks a bunch, Sierra Club, how's this working out for you?  Is it going great?  Is the environment doing just fine?  Fucking idiots. The only way out of this is a massive expansion of nuclear power and it's awesome to see, even if the costs got grifted out of control.  Still worth it.  I don't care who scammed a bunch of construction money out of it.  We need this.
       
 (DIR) Post #AWbGEsvYDgWrVnGsLY by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-06-12T00:23:44Z
       
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       My lilacs at home are gone by, but out here in #Berkshire county, they're still going and the smell is drifting all over town.  This white #lilac isn't quite as pungent as the purple variety, but it's still softly sweet and floral.  #BloomScrolling #ILoveNewEngland
       
 (DIR) Post #AWcWqm3Ct3hdwyWiR6 by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-05-31T03:13:50Z
       
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       @pariahsickkid Fucking *MAUS*?!?!!!!!?!!!!!!!?eleventyone!!!Wow, they're not even pretending anymore, huh?
       
 (DIR) Post #AWrHECJzWYYa5hlfaC by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-06-19T18:47:06Z
       
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       I'm glad to be home, but I do already miss the #Berkshires.  Here's a #poppy that bloomed in my parents' garden yesterday.  (Not pictured: all the blackberry thorns I got stuck with while taking it.)#BloomScrolling #ilovenewengland
       
 (DIR) Post #AX2SjjsK3CPK9LZfNo by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-06-25T04:33:27Z
       
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       @IdahoLark @johncarneyau My parents have a TON of hummingbirds (well not really, it would take an insane amount of hummers to weigh a ton) living in their garden, and while I was there last week I fell in love with the sound of them whipping by my head, like a giant bumblebee on Adderall.
       
 (DIR) Post #AXMwGCrH5zVXCLn6K8 by andthisismrspeacock@tech.lgbt
       2023-07-05T01:25:45Z
       
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       If your hot take on Nazi discourse is "well actually people X had it worse than people Y, how dare you not center the people I identify most with", you know what champ, they all ended up in the ovens, it's not a fuckin competition.#subtoot #Nazis #genocide