Post B2lQofiBasxykTtLea by VivianHsiao@spinster.xyz
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 (DIR) Post #B2lQofiBasxykTtLea by VivianHsiao@spinster.xyz
       2026-01-29T02:20:33.842376Z
       
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       Just read some people's thoughts on how vulnerable you can be to your partner and how social norms have shaped our common standards for that. It is quite interesting seeing how many men firmly restate that women won't respect a sobbing man because they don't want to mother him. Of course the occasion and stage of relationship matter, too.I think generally there is a base line between being vulnerable and dumping emotions. It is also important that one must know how to stand on his or her feet if they want a meaningful and growing relationship. Though in a relationship, one may have to take care of (sort of parenting) when the time is difficult for the other. That is not a permanent condition. No one can do that forever. It is tiresome. So yes, a therapist exists for this reason.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2lQoh38cTJutkhawy by Jonny@annihilation.social
       2026-01-29T03:09:08.460887Z
       
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       @VivianHsiao My girlfriend was a staunch “hear me roar Viking bitch”. We had our own houses.My dad (my best friend) died in the middle of the day. I called her and told her my dad died. I was distraught.I met her at her house in her driveway when she got off work. I cried in her arms for 2 seconds before she said, I don’t want the HOA too see this.Jonny was a woman hater from this second forward.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2lsRiqIaJz8VzX1Iu by VivianHsiao@spinster.xyz
       2026-01-29T07:09:38.457171Z
       
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       @Jonny Maybe she is not good at handling people's tears. I used to be like that. And it is never easy for a person who does not share the same experience as you do to really comfort you. I lost my father and read some books to learn this painfully. None of my peers lose their parents that early. It is no use if you hate women for this. No matter she is your girlfriend or wife or any close female person, she will always have the right to refuse to comfort you. Of course you can break up with her for hurting you again (as a stranger, I am sorry for your loss btw). Just find a better woman and make you life better.👍
       
 (DIR) Post #B2lsRk3S4u6IH4h2Rc by Jonny@annihilation.social
       2026-01-29T08:18:42.991073Z
       
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       @VivianHsiao How about settle the fuck down.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2lsyJbHSJoZmf33yq by Jonny@annihilation.social
       2026-01-29T08:24:37.614625Z
       
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       @VivianHsiao Go be a chick in San Diego, gay wawd.