Post B2ecnArEf66i6uSPyq by meso@new.asbestos.cafe
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(DIR) Post #B2eZO4qfZCzgN5XA1o by yew@misskey.bubbletea.dev
2026-01-25T19:42:12.449Z
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@druid@princess.wedding it's empathetic to lend a helping hand to someone in distress but that mindset one is in is no solid foundation for a relationship.being "desperate for love" is really bad, it leads to inbalanced relationships that happen just to have someone around.there's only two endings to this: the desperate either stays in this horrible mindset and never gains any confidence; being emotionally entirely dependent on their partner.or that person actually does get better and starts to wonder what kind of life they really want to live and what kind of person to share it with.i would argue it's cruel to start dating someone who's clearly crippingly desperate for any romantic or intimate attention from literally anyone.
(DIR) Post #B2ea2w2HEmLKubRhI0 by scathach@stereophonic.space
2026-01-25T19:49:33.569297Z
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@yew @druid I've been on both sides of this dynamic and it really fucking sucksMain reservation I have at having a real relationship is that I'd unintentionally put someone through this again
(DIR) Post #B2eavTgwK0ngvnTPZQ by ra1n@social.freedombits.org
2026-01-25T19:59:26.366061Z
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@yew @druid that's kind of the scary part of being in a relationship. you feel on top of the world like nothing can bring you down, but, if she leaves, your heart will be crushed and you'll feel lower than ever. Kinda how I think about it.
(DIR) Post #B2eb1V4E7W3ew2Em9Y by ra1n@social.freedombits.org
2026-01-25T20:00:32.355514Z
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@yew @druid idk. I guess some people can have some kind of internal validation where they feel good about themselves alone or with somebody else, but yea I'm not sure how you do that. lol
(DIR) Post #B2ebAReuA6ZeyDetEm by yew@misskey.bubbletea.dev
2026-01-25T20:02:09.946Z
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@ra1n@social.freedombits.org @druid@princess.wedding ime breaking up hurts much more than being broken up with idk why
(DIR) Post #B2ebEf6E8EVjoXRtYm by sampo@pleroma.soykaf.com
2026-01-25T20:02:54.894317Z
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@yew @druid >i would argue it's cruel to start dating someone who's clearly crippingly desperate for any romantic or intimate attentionthanks for the laughs and suicidal ideation
(DIR) Post #B2ebsL3o3WGPFPEhJw by KaiserKitty@clubcyberia.co
2026-01-25T20:10:04.794524Z
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@yew @druid @ra1n prob because you have to take responsibility which always is harder to swallow
(DIR) Post #B2ecQ1IC3iQPmg1fdI by meso@new.asbestos.cafe
2026-01-25T20:16:10.365150Z
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@yew @druid what happened
(DIR) Post #B2ecfHXTw8kcW2SEng by yew@misskey.bubbletea.dev
2026-01-25T20:18:55.177Z
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@meso@new.asbestos.cafe @druid@princess.wedding nothing happened in my life. i just thought of it because i saw a bunch of "tfw no gf" posts.
(DIR) Post #B2ecnArEf66i6uSPyq by meso@new.asbestos.cafe
2026-01-25T20:20:21.428103Z
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@yew @druid i think a lot of people seem to think being "cute" makes the tfw no gf posts any less pathetic that annoys me