Post B2YnStKiKBWTCJTHZw by shitpostphrenic@noauthority.social
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 (DIR) Post #B2YiXaieSUOF925cO0 by Jagahati@noauthority.social
       2026-01-22T23:56:30Z
       
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       As a father of three boys I spend a decent amount of time thinking about what young men need to be successful. I have it narrowed down to the following:Self control.Be dangerous.Know how to teach yourself new skills.Know how to follow the rules, how not to follow rules highly effectively and know when to do each.Know how to cook.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2YjC0btcE0X1mCbmC by Henhouse_Cockerel@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:03:49Z
       
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       @Jagahati as a father of one boy, he has the cooking down, he has the danger down, but the self control, we are working on that....
       
 (DIR) Post #B2YjgVgucccS6w5odE by Jagahati@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:09:19Z
       
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       @Henhouse_Cockerel I tell my oldest I’ll teach him how to be more dangerous and how to break the rules better once I know he has self control locked in.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Yjq2sMbxwPdazo24 by Henhouse_Cockerel@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:11:03Z
       
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       @Jagahati I don't need to teach the former, its the latter I am concerned about. But then I remember who his father is lol, should I have expected any different?
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Yjy0r20kOxgWAiXY by Jagahati@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:12:29Z
       
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       @Henhouse_Cockerel I was an army infantryman, and my dad was a pyrotechnics expert. I know lots of dangerous.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Yk2Q89ybJZEhHkdk by Henhouse_Cockerel@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:13:17Z
       
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       @Jagahati lol, there you go
       
 (DIR) Post #B2YkyLrhzcSUnrDKgy by Max_Imum@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:23:45Z
       
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       @Jagahati solid advice, especially cooking. That's an often overlooked skill. Being a decent cook can  be a way to save money, a way to impress people and be able to afford quality food so you aren't killing yourself with the crap passed off as food from restaurants. You should never stop learning skills.Another good piece of advice is to learn how to not only accept failure but how to learn and grow from it. Failure should sting but never defeat you.Your boys will probably become real men 👍
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Yl3l7vUxTybANVyq by thoughtcriminal@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:24:44Z
       
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       @Jagahati I'd say the fourth builds beautifully on the first two.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Yn8COwEbZ8Fsa2XQ by Woodbutcher@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:47:57Z
       
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       @Jagahati all good pieces of advice
       
 (DIR) Post #B2YnStKiKBWTCJTHZw by shitpostphrenic@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:51:41Z
       
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       @Jagahati teach them hypothetico-deductive reasoning and deferred disposition
       
 (DIR) Post #B2YnfevbC41eHloPOC by NashRicky@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T00:53:59Z
       
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       @Jagahati I don't get the " follow rules" part...who's rules? The wrong message. That is why this country is in the mess its in. " oh, I am rule follower.l, oh and where is your mask and its time for your booster. Bad idea bro
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Yql3qcGoCgsnkUfw by Jagahati@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T01:28:34Z
       
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       @NashRicky if you follow no rules you end up in a cage or shot by a guy with a gun and a badge. If you don’t follow rules you won’t stay married or hold a job.This doesn’t mean you follow every rule someone throws your direction. Hence know how and when to break the rules.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Yt8PzMJfeG7Y6ThI by NashRicky@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T01:55:12Z
       
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       @Jagahati bad advice when you tell your kid to always follow the rules. Ever hear of critical thinking.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2YuEGIbM4AjlDSEd6 by Jagahati@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T02:07:28Z
       
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       @NashRicky you are right, I should add reading comprehension to the list.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2YxH1zpHxSw8GgVHs by RadarR1der@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T02:41:35Z
       
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       @Jagahati @Henhouse_Cockerel
       
 (DIR) Post #B2ZsIB0YxlNhl7iRbk by rw@noauthority.social
       2026-01-23T13:20:29Z
       
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       @Jagahati good communication skillsIntegrity to not leave a job poorly done, and clean up after.Critical thinking