Post B2Udfhv4IMhTOD6mn2 by SavvyLevie@poa.st
 (DIR) More posts by SavvyLevie@poa.st
 (DIR) Post #B2SBG3ibRGH2R5L76e by BionicNigga@poa.st
       2026-01-19T18:25:15.625487Z
       
       2 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @TrevorGoodchild Could you remind me what was Charles Manson's formula for game? I remember you poasting that it was literally just simple stuff like playing an instrument to demonstrate just how easy game really is, but that's the only detail I remember.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SBZKBcR2wD0q696O by TrevorGoodchild@poa.st
       2026-01-19T20:18:47.550879Z
       
       19 likes, 4 repeats
       
       @BionicNigga >demonstrate a skillset or fake it sufficiently (music, photography, whatever)>be pleasant and calm in interactions with women but never 'nice' or 'accomodating'>be very quick to say 'no'>silence is more powerful than constant back and forth speech>never let them make you angry
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SBwcmlRyeNMCaCTg by BionicNigga@poa.st
       2026-01-19T20:22:39.811720Z
       
       1 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @TrevorGoodchild Ok I've still got a few to work on then, but thanks man! đŸ»
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SBx0f8fyoLPVCRvM by DMA@nicecrew.digital
       2026-01-19T20:22:30.898154Z
       
       2 likes, 0 repeats
       
       Good advice.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SE84JjczNFq5abAG by Kalogerosstilitis2RevengeoftheJunta@poa.st
       2026-01-19T20:47:29.408883Z
       
       2 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @BionicNigga @TrevorGoodchild Be greek or italian. That's it basically. 😁
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SEAJxwPz7ux2TAdE by Kalogerosstilitis2RevengeoftheJunta@poa.st
       2026-01-19T20:47:53.779193Z
       
       2 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @TrevorGoodchild @BionicNigga ">be very quick to say 'no" This
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SHbQNGzzjGVZvxOy by Largo@poa.st
       2026-01-19T21:23:46.566818Z
       
       3 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @TrevorGoodchild @BionicNigga > never let them make you angryI think we need to touch on this in the fediverse, what consists of "angry", and to what point? I personally think there's room for further explanation.May need to do an effortpoast about this.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Tkwzhvux5o0DC8h6 by TrevorGoodchild@poa.st
       2026-01-20T14:29:57.481247Z
       
       12 likes, 2 repeats
       
       @Largo @BionicNigga A female fedi denizen did an excellent writeup on this. @BarelyEagle has the screencap iirc and the bottom line was that you will never, ever be able to 'out-emotion' a woman as they are irrational children at their core. Losing frame control is actually what they are subconsciously provoking you to do. The more calculating ones attempt to escalate this into a man's natural endpoint of anger: physical violence. The solution is not giving them what they want but calmly telling them 'no', the way you would a child throwing a tantrum. This is why NEXT is such a powerful tool in a man's armamentarium, and you should be quick to cut losses when necessary.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Tm5HN2ENp73OvzA8 by bloggerski@poa.st
       2026-01-20T14:40:47.971888Z
       
       3 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @TrevorGoodchild @BionicNigga Thats an excellent summary.  I flatly failed at this for most of my life and wish i had this knowledge. Ofcourse you also have to be outcome independent enough to do whats necessary. I failed at that also
       
 (DIR) Post #B2TmYaSAMQYcdUJEvI by Rlyn@nicecrew.digital
       2026-01-20T14:47:49.010184Z
       
       3 likes, 0 repeats
       
       Women observe the situation pretty closely for response when they think they may have provoked an anger.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Tn47WLT0WkAaIgMK by Largo@poa.st
       2026-01-20T14:51:37.151819Z
       
       2 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @Rlyn @TrevorGoodchild @BarelyEagle @BionicNigga Sometimes thats their goal. (To what end? Usually nothing good for you)
       
 (DIR) Post #B2U6DbMjlsvyT42axM by Rlyn@nicecrew.digital
       2026-01-20T18:27:57.822834Z
       
       5 likes, 0 repeats
       
       I don’t intentionally provoke anger, and despise conflict. I do shut down and run
 (avoidant attachment thanks mom) and the man who didn’t respond when I shut him down and went my way, neither getting angry or begging me to get back together, just concise and matter of factly said ok If that’s what you want. No emotion about the matter. Well that the man had me texting him within 2 months. đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ„°
       
 (DIR) Post #B2UGe2YuHHuPt0yjmi by Nym@poa.st
       2026-01-20T20:25:06.153290Z
       
       1 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @Largo @TrevorGoodchild @BionicNigga seems fairly obvious to me, you can be disappointed in them but never appear tilted, how can you let a woman tilt you? They are silly children
       
 (DIR) Post #B2UGr18qryNtFJynR2 by TrevorGoodchild@poa.st
       2026-01-20T20:27:19.906768Z
       
       12 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @s2208 @BionicNigga The one thing that women can smell like rotten meat is a man who is unpleasantly bitter at females. This stinks of defeat to them and dries them up like the Gobi. Amused mastery is so much of a better vibe to radiate. They can smell simps too, and they'll take full advantage of the freebies while being disappointed and friendzoning. "When you 'accomodate', you get what the commode gets."
       
 (DIR) Post #B2UH3ulRtN0hEPBP1c by Nym@poa.st
       2026-01-20T20:29:46.809628Z
       
       2 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @TrevorGoodchild @BionicNigga This makes me think of how Bill ends up acting in Groundhog Day.When he stops simping and has eyes for a life beyond the woman, she finds him desirable. He gains skills, becomes pleasant towards all people, is quick to tell Andie MacDowell "No I have plans", he no longer is tilted by obvious tilters because he has things going on a shit to do and you can join in the wake if you want to.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2UHAQDjqq5wWqWBZQ by jb@nicecrew.digital
       2026-01-20T20:30:55.171274Z
       
       4 likes, 1 repeats
       
       My grossly oversimplified version of this: my wife ruthlessly shit tested me over many years
 One day I blew up, got in her face, and said “one of these days you’re gonna push me too far and I’m gonna punch you right in the mouth - and that is gonna be the greatest day of my life.” That night she was a wildcat in bed, and it was an absolute turning point in our marriage. It still took a while to figure out the rest of it. Holding frame is essential, and it is something I had to work at (and still do).
       
 (DIR) Post #B2ULnW8uAOg20R9fIO by basedasian@poa.st
       2026-01-20T21:22:49.852361Z
       
       1 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @TrevorGoodchild @Largo @BionicNigga @BarelyEagle I always try to remind myself but often don't follow my own advice. The only way you can win an argument with a woman is not starting one. If it does begin, it would be faster and advantageous to just agree. By agree, I don't mean give in but rather, just an the argument as fast as possible and move on. Done correctly, it's disarming.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2ULnn6L7Bj4bP5M9o by SavvyLevie@poa.st
       2026-01-20T20:54:55.129200Z
       
       2 likes, 1 repeats
       
       @TrevorGoodchild @Largo @BionicNigga @BarelyEagle Wife and I are very happily married. Despite being a model Christian woman she still pushes my buttons sometimes. I rarely have to do more than raise my voice by a fraction at most, and tighten my hand into a fist. I can confirm what Jb said below: sex with a woman who just got put down is a different level of pleasurable.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2UYIMuRkDEVnSry1Q by VaxxSabbath@detroitriotcity.com
       2026-01-20T23:42:52.306389Z
       
       4 likes, 1 repeats
       
       @SavvyLevie @BarelyEagle @BionicNigga @Largo @TrevorGoodchild don’t underestimate the extent to which women will start shit when they’re out-of-sorts and just need some reassurancethe main tell for this state of affairs is a “shotgun” series of complaints:  all over the place with no coherent patternusually calling this out (“what is this bullshit, what are you really bent out of shape about”) reveals some childlike need to be comforted about some silly female-brain thing, which once provided, leads to a quick return to flowers-and-sunshineover time it is usually possible to train them to recognize this state of affairs and minimize the time spent in the Aggravating Zone; self-management is the impossible dream, so you’ll never get there, but at least her being able to quickly identify when she’s drifting away into an cloud of ovarian madness and her being able to sheepishly recognize that her hindbrain is starting shit (“which is fine, dear, we expect this of you, but don’t be a pain in the ass”) is more than good enough for domestic tranquility
       
 (DIR) Post #B2UbvygxVHrw8K8i1I by SilverDeth
       2026-01-21T00:23:39.433789Z
       
       1 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @VaxxSabbath @SavvyLevie @BarelyEagle @BionicNigga @Largo @TrevorGoodchild ^ 100% this.  The ladies get bent out of shape - over something outside of our fucking house - and they will start shit at home to act out."Why the fuck are you doing this... what the hell?""Sarah at choir blah blah blah blah female noises blah blah.""So you started shit with everyone here? I'm out."*walks off"
       
 (DIR) Post #B2UcKkcowNDtkI15ou by VaxxSabbath@detroitriotcity.com
       2026-01-21T00:28:07.218178Z
       
       6 likes, 1 repeats
       
       @SilverDeth @BarelyEagle @BionicNigga @Largo @SavvyLevie @TrevorGoodchild usually smirking works even better“So you’re all over the place and bitched out of shape about something stupid, huh?  So what you’re telling me is that I am always
. sly smirk““YOU’RE ALWAYS RIGHT OKAY pouts, huffs, tears form at corners of eyes““
.Theeeeeere we go.  That’s better.  It’ll all be fine.  Hey, what’s that?”  (light grabass until giggling starts)remember that you’re dealing with an adorable retard that you can fuck and it makes a lot of their bullshit easier to take
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Ucwx2DFaYhEm6o9w by SilverDeth
       2026-01-21T00:35:02.287681Z
       
       1 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @VaxxSabbath @BarelyEagle @BionicNigga @Largo @SavvyLevie @TrevorGoodchild Wife unit has long ago learned to (mostly) self regulate.  Youngest... not... one... bit.The teenage female sputtering and howling noises begin, and I go out to find something to fix.  I'll break it first if necessary.Works so far - I leave to shrieking and come back to laughter and chatter.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Udfhv4IMhTOD6mn2 by SavvyLevie@poa.st
       2026-01-21T00:23:54.803226Z
       
       3 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @VaxxSabbath @BarelyEagle @BionicNigga @Largo @TrevorGoodchild Agreed. My wife is still young, but she's already told me on a couple of occasions that, and I am paraphrasing her here, "she was being mean for no reason other than *underlying issue* bothering her at the time". The first time this happened I was taken aback. Now it is starting to become easier for her.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Ue4SXkbH7OwP0L3Y by SilverDeth
       2026-01-21T00:47:36.007197Z
       
       2 likes, 0 repeats
       
       @VaxxSabbath @BarelyEagle @BionicNigga @Largo @SavvyLevie @TrevorGoodchild ...you can shave with my lawnmower blade.  I am not joking.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Ue6vuOON8iavm55c by VaxxSabbath@detroitriotcity.com
       2026-01-21T00:48:01.958153Z
       
       7 likes, 1 repeats
       
       @SilverDeth @BarelyEagle @BionicNigga @Largo @SavvyLevie @TrevorGoodchild remember, frens, women are reactors teetering on the brink of a criticality excursion, which will happen violently if they do not have a proper control rod inserted in the right placecomport yourselves accordingly