Post B2UNPHRBO9JfMCH5yi by vonzeppelin@poa.st
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(DIR) Post #B2ULvY0H8Fg25swnz6 by vitalis@dirtyknight.life
2026-01-20T21:24:07.781374Z
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I asked the girl from my HEMA school if she wanted to go dancing at a latin club this weekend and she said yes, but then she asked if she could bring her gf along šwill still go because I think itāll be a fun time dancing with them even if its not a date or anything.
(DIR) Post #B2UM2kSjCzRSlHgpFo by whirly@netzsphaere.xyz
2026-01-20T21:25:34.661788Z
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@vitalis her legit gf or the thing were girls call their friends āgirlfriendsā
(DIR) Post #B2UMR9MKIKJqvZKZpg by Kagekokoro@varishangout.net
2026-01-20T21:29:57.299820Z
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@vitalis her friend who is a girl or her gf?
(DIR) Post #B2UMYAQciXE4GrgeQK by Death@dsmc.space
2026-01-20T21:31:14.597874Z
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@vitalis maybe you'll hit it off with her gf!
(DIR) Post #B2UMhMrxpbmPSirXAu by vitalis@dirtyknight.life
2026-01-20T21:32:45.463892Z
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Iām going to assume her legit partner but either way it kind of signals it will be a fun outing and that I shouldnāt take it as possibly leading to anything more than that š
(DIR) Post #B2UMn8wyUmVO1vxagi by VictimOfSimony@infosec.exchange
2026-01-20T21:32:52Z
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@vitalisI'm reminded of that episode of #TheOffice (British) where they all go dancing. :blobcatgiggle:
(DIR) Post #B2UMuVrngsuL8E3PZQ by ForbiddenDreamer@poa.st
2026-01-20T21:35:18.205891Z
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@Death @vitalis That'll teach her to disrespect you!
(DIR) Post #B2UNGQtupn5s6KUn2m by _anti@novoa.nagoya
2026-01-20T21:36:12.170Z
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@vitalis@dirtyknight.life You could take a friend of yours and make it a double date or something more casual. You can get to know them, and move on from there i suppose
(DIR) Post #B2UNPHRBO9JfMCH5yi by vonzeppelin@poa.st
2026-01-20T21:40:48.259626Z
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@vitalis @whirly imho you can assume it's a friend until proven otherwise (these days though...)ya good dance with them both, have a good time
(DIR) Post #B2UORagys1xVblKVdY by croyle@wandering.shop
2026-01-20T21:28:47Z
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@vitalis Doh! But you have the right attitude, and at least you know she's not interested because she's got a girlfriend, and not for anything that's your fault. :)
(DIR) Post #B2UR39JxHiSzd6b3xI by kolya@social.cologne
2026-01-20T22:20:44Z
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@vitalis maybe she wants to stay on the safe side on the first meeting. also that girlfriend talk might just be to test your reaction. girls are weird like that. anyway, you'll find out soon enough and it could be fun either way.
(DIR) Post #B2URBgVxktOUtXHccC by kolya@social.cologne
2026-01-20T22:22:04Z
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@vitalis when I was in a similar situation once I ended up making out with the "girlfriend". lol
(DIR) Post #B2URrD1rluL7bs0Rhg by carlosruzu@miruku.cafe
2026-01-20T22:30:01.525Z
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@vitalis@dirtyknight.life remember that dating is akin to the sisyphus boulder in that you get through it by literally brute forcing through as many ask outs and rejections as possible in social settings while trying to be the best you can possibly be.you could become friends with both of them both for shared joy/divided misery but specifically to meet more girls that way as well
(DIR) Post #B2USV8vQRuNqSu2GQ4 by vitalis@dirtyknight.life
2026-01-20T22:37:46.320467Z
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those are all possibilities for sure! she could easily have just said no, or even leave my invite on read without a reply. Iām sure Iāll have a fun time with her and her gf either way :happcat:
(DIR) Post #B2UT1AQwNQ2qPT2xd2 by vitalis@dirtyknight.life
2026-01-20T22:43:38.001212Z
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absolutely! there is nothing wrong with just becoming friends and growing oneās social circle. I just gotta shoot my shots and embrace whatever happens to shoot again
(DIR) Post #B2UTx2MkWucSBUgHEe by carlosruzu@miruku.cafe
2026-01-20T22:52:44.682Z
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@vitalis@dirtyknight.life hell yeah brother under Christ
(DIR) Post #B2UU4lcafYu6ZKmBvc by carlosruzu@miruku.cafe
2026-01-20T22:33:55.561Z
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@vitalis@dirtyknight.life @whirly@netzsphaere.xyz its really annoying how little people talk about this and how some people use different lingo depending on the situation. current girl I'm dating is deeply autistic, keep this in mind. she put "bff ā„ļøā„ļøā„ļøā„ļø" next to my name in her contact after we traded numbersshowed this to my nerd friends and they were like "yeah she likes you"told this to family and they were like "oh you got friendzoned because she called you a friend" even though atp we told each other I love you a lot. they said "only way to prove otherwise is to ask to date", I asked her out over text (while she was sick which made me feel bad) and she said "yeah" lol