Post B2SiDLkHFt1rxqRFrc by amelia@misskey.bubbletea.dev
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 (DIR) Post #B2Sh77FW8f23JVVxeC by shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev
       2026-01-20T02:12:14.764Z
       
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       how is it that i've been out of my parent's house for almost a decade and i'm still just now realizing major things they did that fucked me up NOW like goddamn
       
 (DIR) Post #B2Sh8yYdQPegw6LLua by shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev
       2026-01-20T02:12:34.802Z
       
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       when i first got out of there i unspooled so much and i was like wow, i really unspooled all of it out now i guess. lol. lmao
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SiBfK7UeJK6bOtea by prettygood@socially.drinkingatmy.computer
       2026-01-20T02:24:15.541011Z
       
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       @shibao still happens to me.  Some shit I've never gotten over, like pathological obsession with avoiding even one single drop of water reaching the floor before/during/after a shower, because doing so meant Lecture Time™ for the next 40 minutes.  Hell it took till my early 40s to find it acceptable to throw away food that was unwanted but not yet spoiled, because "there's starving kids in Africa" or some such white liberal savior nonsense.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SiDLkHFt1rxqRFrc by amelia@misskey.bubbletea.dev
       2026-01-20T02:21:55.531Z
       
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       @shibao it takes a long time. a lot happens inside a developing mind, and unfurling it after the fact is a lengthy and often taxing process. gaining points of comparison to realize how insane their behavior is can take a really long time too
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SiKYiHRK20D5wTJI by mischievoustomato@tsundere.love
       2026-01-20T02:25:52.293009Z
       
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       @prettygood @shibao my mom had parents as awful as yours. Pain.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2SiWPkqZboBttnOr2 by prettygood@socially.drinkingatmy.computer
       2026-01-20T02:27:59.728717Z
       
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       @mischievoustomato @shibao I wouldn't say mine were awful, just very much not well-adjusted.  Everyone's broken in a different way.  Like my mom would freak the fuck out screaming and crying if water spilled on the kitchen floor, like a single paper towel's worth of water you can clean up in four seconds, probably because her parents would flip shit for it.
       
 (DIR) Post #B2U0LxNZD79vKh1u52 by shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev
       2026-01-20T17:22:31.705Z
       
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       @prettygood@socially.drinkingatmy.computer mfw when i finally accept i'm going to be realizing things like this about my parents and having high school dreams for the rest of my life
       
 (DIR) Post #B2U1jL5BLc3TSj8yPo by prettygood@socially.drinkingatmy.computer
       2026-01-20T17:37:57.069998Z
       
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       @shibao one of the best things I ever did was block every person I went to high school with on Facebook in like 2009
       
 (DIR) Post #B2U1rCgaRyLHjlODpY by sapphire@shortstacksran.ch
       2026-01-20T17:38:32.129804Z
       
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       @prettygood @shibao I did this by deleting my facebook in 2011, none of the failures who went to my small town high school can ask me for money or to watch their children
       
 (DIR) Post #B2U1z4RuxQZMVaHOiW by Pi_rat@freesoftwareextremist.com
       2026-01-20T17:40:49.398314Z
       
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       @prettygood @shibao for me it was making this account
       
 (DIR) Post #B2UTLdQ6JcOI6LPi08 by mirq@tsogol.tsiran.org
       2026-01-20T22:46:57.032332Z
       
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       @prettygood @shibao I had to overcome the food thing to but mine was rooted in post-soviet scarcity mindset hahaha