Post AzM2qLuWEkiyCeRxvU by GolfCartLady@nicecrew.digital
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(DIR) Post #AzM1W6t8HQsXrlaMLY by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:21:32.530799Z
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Actions speak louder than words. Right? It’s true that talk is cheap. But what makes you feel better? When someone does something for you without saying anything, or when someone pays you a compliment? Which makes you feel more loved and appreciated? Silent actions or heartfelt words?
(DIR) Post #AzM1kAKCIf3qZvwlxQ by CyberShell@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:24:07.320705Z
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Silent actions. It's worse when one's actions don't match words.
(DIR) Post #AzM1p8rr92zdVW40BM by Frondeur@poa.st
2025-10-19T03:25:02.221368Z
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@Rose im perfectly content being lied to these days tbh...
(DIR) Post #AzM268vACRuIaziWfY by mackya@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:28:05.189309Z
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When someone does something nice. Words can be in genuine, but doing something nice takes effort and is more sincere.
(DIR) Post #AzM2HV2GJptEMsS8TQ by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:30:09.224572Z
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True. I’m not saying actions don’t matter. But I think the power of words is underestimated. A simple compliment can change someone’s whole day.
(DIR) Post #AzM2Jk4XNrIjaBaPom by missjanedoe@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:27:41.846405Z
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Both are nice. :) Hope you're doing ok, rose. <3
(DIR) Post #AzM2MZJTqGEh5CvJuC by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:31:04.348584Z
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I’m doing well. But I’m about to go to bed.
(DIR) Post #AzM2YoqhuCnak3J4ZU by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:33:17.672469Z
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I suppose. But silent actions can lack understood intent. So saying how you feel or why do things is important too. Also just saying something kind brightens someone’s day.
(DIR) Post #AzM2qLuWEkiyCeRxvU by GolfCartLady@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:36:27.619629Z
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You look nice today :smug_cat:
(DIR) Post #AzM2sAkqgZ8EBNnL2e by Frondeur@poa.st
2025-10-19T03:36:47.382723Z
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@GolfCartLady @Rose i look my age...
(DIR) Post #AzM2wSm7cyCdEMR6xM by GolfCartLady@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:37:33.874980Z
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Let me lie to you :kitty_alpha:
(DIR) Post #AzM2z9p4Y4n7Js6KEy by Frondeur@poa.st
2025-10-19T03:38:03.036645Z
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@GolfCartLady @Rose as long as you do it because you care...
(DIR) Post #AzM30SLn9GUx4W1aLY by GolfCartLady@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:38:17.131528Z
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Of course :lamo:
(DIR) Post #AzMpy70SQi7E36YcpU by HockeyDoxie@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:39:52.543404Z
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I think actions count more, but ngl, I do like a compliment.
(DIR) Post #AzMqCNcdRvuZdVDb4C by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T12:49:28.691153Z
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That was kinda my point. I think we downplay how much a compliment affects us. Logically actions mean more. But a kind word has more power than expected.
(DIR) Post #AzMqSLMZcHIvGNJkTg by GillRigged@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T03:49:55.656773Z
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Compliments are nice but will only get you so far.
(DIR) Post #AzMqSMFsIfXY1tBufw by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T12:52:21.251898Z
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I’m not talking about using a compliment to get something. I mean if someone holds a door for you without saying anything, you kind of assume they did it because they felt obligated. But if that person holding the door says, “Hey, I like that jacket.“ It has a lot more meaning. I don’t know. Just musings.
(DIR) Post #AzMr4Z7GvlHEvENzfM by BowsacNoodle@poa.st
2025-10-19T12:59:16.655782Z
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@Rose @HockeyDoxie As a man, I appreciate compliments and kind gestures. Compliments are rare because of how men are and the way society views us and our place with a lot of expectations of duty for things without much coming back in way of thanks or acknowledgement.
(DIR) Post #AzMsXaT15UdtSmxXVI by UnCL3@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T12:58:12.099949Z
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Gotta be careful WHO you compliment like that these days.When I'm out of my normal "rural element", I ONLY open a door for old ladies. When I moved to DFW, in Dallas in '99, I got some snide comments, "I don't need your help." Realizing there are lots of liberal wymyn in the cities, I just started NOT doing it unless it was an older generation who were raised proper.
(DIR) Post #AzMsdQR5IQBu5cq6ka by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T13:16:47.348909Z
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I understand. I hold doors for the elderly or mom’s with kids. And I always say thank you when a man holds a door for me.
(DIR) Post #AzMsstEqUVDplNUNJg by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T13:19:35.021794Z
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I know what you mean. Having your actions acknowledged is important.
(DIR) Post #AzMsv8aGPLwhw3ZwUy by UnCL3@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T13:18:21.351013Z
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you my dear are now the exception.Modern society sucks...like we didn't already know that lol
(DIR) Post #AzMtDO49aIsLAHGHbs by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T13:23:16.746961Z
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Just the way I was raised. But I will admit I don’t really like people talking to me randomly in public. I’m not sure why it happens so frequently to me. People love to ask how old I am…
(DIR) Post #AzMtoFABeCPOGgerke by ChadleyDudebro@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T13:29:52.370357Z
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How old are you?
(DIR) Post #AzMtpQtlVBF4xBXnQe by Rose@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T13:30:09.212429Z
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I’m 29
(DIR) Post #AzN3eLresQjFhHuh4i by Wolffkran@poa.st
2025-10-19T15:20:12.562565Z
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@BowsacNoodle @Rose @HockeyDoxie https://youtu.be/zR_dy8SapFE
(DIR) Post #AzNQyMcc4JwCmdO652 by Eiregoat@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-19T19:41:27.644015Z
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Another thing that really annoys me... it used to be taken for granted when I was a kid that if you were getting on to public transport you'd stand back to let people off first. Even if space was tight and there wasn't room for everyone, people still did it.Nowadays it's a free for all, people just push their way to the front and across people trying to get out.
(DIR) Post #AzNwczyaGaQD08WKf2 by UnCL3@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-20T01:35:01.884352Z
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That's what happens when half the population ignores social standards
(DIR) Post #AzPnXGcMyB29bcF3Ym by CyberShell@nicecrew.digital
2025-10-20T23:03:45.294464Z
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Yes!