Post AvcC6Nk07Ld051mhrE by jochie@strangeweb.page
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 (DIR) Post #AvalqrDJyia4tBTYR6 by 0xabad1dea@infosec.exchange
       2024-01-30T09:28:41Z
       
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       I do a lot of online community crisis resolution and 50% of it can be resolved by asking the party in crisis what timezone they’re in and then kindly but firmly telling them to go to bed
       
 (DIR) Post #AvalqwEDKpGYROvq1Q by 0xabad1dea@infosec.exchange
       2024-01-30T09:51:31Z
       
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       I cannot emphasize this enough: if you are having a panic attack about the general state of your life - academics, your job, your relationship with anyone - and it's 9 pm or later, GO TO BED. Don't @ me with your special case objection that willfully misses the point, go the fuck to bed and consider what if anything needs to be done when well-rested and well-fed I have had more personal crises than is advisable to admit to and so have many of my friends, I guarantee this is coming from extensive experience
       
 (DIR) Post #AvcBj29SDjc0SeYaUy by falcennial@mastodon.social
       2025-06-28T12:17:31Z
       
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       @0xabad1dea ooh I like that rule. it couldnt be simpler and never misses.I got a similar one: I don't make decisions or judgements at the book ends of the day. only the middle bit when I'm completely on.
       
 (DIR) Post #AvcBj384aM6LUeuzz6 by ysegrim@furry.engineer
       2025-06-28T17:42:56Z
       
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       @falcennial @0xabad1dea This. "Sleeping over this email" saved my job probably a lot more than just once.
       
 (DIR) Post #AvcC6Nk07Ld051mhrE by jochie@strangeweb.page
       2025-06-27T16:28:07Z
       
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       @0xabad1dea So a bit like this one (not mine, but no idea where it started):If you feel like you hate everyone:    Eat somethingIf you feel like everyone hates you:            Go to sleepIf you feel like you hate yourself:                    Have a showerIf you feel like everyone hates everyone:                            Go outside
       
 (DIR) Post #AvcC6QaXWyqIuYNh1k by slothrop@chaos.social
       2025-06-27T16:05:01Z
       
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       @0xabad1dea my wife and I have a longstanding rule that if we start arguing, we pause the conflict, check if one of us is hungry, and eat something first. I can only recommend this approach.