Post AuT7pLPZpg0MiExqk4 by FallsMom@mastodon.coffee
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(DIR) Post #AuT59qBcp0wE5YWJua by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-25T23:44:45Z
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I just realised that for the first time in 3 days now there is silence at our home.. :amaze: We've had issues with one neighbour for years with loud music but that's improved. Unfort the new family below us is much worse. In total I've asked 6 times if the music could get turned down or at least the bass, in 3 days...And not only during the day but also the whole night! Since they take enough to not have to sleepWonder why those 3 kids are under watch with the child protection service
(DIR) Post #AuT5LB97EddoHLkk6K by Nataliafadeev@mastodon.social
2025-05-25T23:46:48Z
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@stux really
(DIR) Post #AuT5Yo6rgEvOt4CNPM by FallsMom@mastodon.coffee
2025-05-25T23:49:15Z
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@stux Very sad story, for those three children, and for the surrounding neighbors like yourself. . . .😔
(DIR) Post #AuT5bXKWWVGdiMtAf2 by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-25T23:49:47Z
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Yesterday I invited her to our home so she could listen how loud it sounds, since we live in old crappy apartments we can hear almost anythingAnd one of the first things she said was that she was annoyed that child protection service told her she cannot smoke weed inside with the kids but she does it anywaysLike I didn't even ask! In the first conversation with her bg before he knowing i was his neighbour he told me he had been to jail for 2 years and trades in firearms..I got so much ammo
(DIR) Post #AuT5jrW3M95WdYFfGq by FallsMom@mastodon.coffee
2025-05-25T23:51:15Z
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@stux I hope there's someway for those kids to get out of a horrible situation. . . .
(DIR) Post #AuT5kokH8uWOKkMM88 by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-25T23:51:18Z
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Within their first month I had to kick the dude drunk out of the home because he assaulted herNext day, he's back like nothing happenedThese are the people that now happily live below usI cannot even...So yeah, we're looking for a new home
(DIR) Post #AuT5p0CEVhmJ0SQqAK by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-25T23:52:12Z
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/end frustration modesorry ❤️(they don't speak a word english so no chance they''ll be reading this)
(DIR) Post #AuT5wIrJWPD2ul81x2 by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-25T23:53:25Z
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@FallsMom Those kids do not even go to school! I am not kidding..it's the law hereAbout an hour ago all three where still awake and running though the little house at 1 at night..It's just
(DIR) Post #AuT6A9nnzTo0sd5rF2 by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-25T23:55:51Z
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@alex :cat_hug_triangle: it's a little rough sometimes with so many bad examples around
(DIR) Post #AuT6QhvOtLVpLIXPWa by falcennial@mastodon.social
2025-05-25T23:58:57Z
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@stux be a shame if domestic abuser had a little accident of his own.
(DIR) Post #AuT6W6RBBLOCoZyVQe by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T00:00:00Z
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@falcennial :blobcatgiggle: He threatened me and im still waiting!But she's the issue also, the very next day he was there againnothing learned
(DIR) Post #AuT7WBaq737ol964MS by TidalFlats@mastodon.coffee
2025-05-26T00:11:07Z
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@stux Been there.https://youtu.be/NdOXBWyrBDM?si=XEOHJKu2OZJhew2y
(DIR) Post #AuT7ZFGAw7UT04tFWy by trebach@functional.cafe
2025-05-26T00:11:45Z
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@stux I think it may be the same dynamic as my cousin and his girlfriend had. She kept using their kids as a way of winding him up, he'd end up violating the protective custody order, and be back in jail.The cycle only ended when he drove drunk and hit a telephone pole. His second child doesn't even know he had a dad because he was not able to see them much after the order was in place
(DIR) Post #AuT7l5Z0oQgiP3LenQ by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T00:13:55Z
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@trebach Oof.. it does seems that way from the info i got so farThere seems more though, last month they where not here at all and the police came by several timesWhen im going to the door, she has to unlock 4 locks or somethingDefenitly running or at least avoiding cops and child servicesChild service even asked one of our other neighbours to give them a call when they would show up appearnly
(DIR) Post #AuT7pLPZpg0MiExqk4 by FallsMom@mastodon.coffee
2025-05-26T00:14:39Z
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@stux😔
(DIR) Post #AuT7veAsz7Zwdu68cy by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T00:15:46Z
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@FallsMom I guess i just give up on them, I wanna try and help everyone i can but not if i lose my sanity over it
(DIR) Post #AuT81iOiCG3DTfSUNc by Lomara@social.linux.pizza
2025-05-26T00:16:53Z
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@stux oof. We have a unit below me that is empty because the last tenant brought her boyfriend in who began beating her, and after a large police response, were evicted. I hope she is ok. She was about to give birth! He was throwing her around and she would scream. He was a monster and I hope he is in prison. Many of the neighbors called police on him.
(DIR) Post #AuT82a2akiRVqhWaOm by FallsMom@mastodon.coffee
2025-05-26T00:17:05Z
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@stux So true. You've got to keep yourself & GF & George & Washy safe AND sane!Sounds like moving may be your best option. . .
(DIR) Post #AuT8AuWuSVIBi9g5IG by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T00:18:35Z
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@Lomara Holy.. i also hope that ended well indeedDoes it me or does this kinda behaviour increase? It's so very troubling
(DIR) Post #AuT8IwIFmlTJUuePaa by trebach@functional.cafe
2025-05-26T00:19:57Z
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@stux It's definitely not the same as my cousin because this guy is definitely more aggressive than my cousin. My cousin was good-natured but stupid.There seems to be some domestic violence and child abuse doing on with this couple if CPS (Child Protective Services) is involved and wanted you to be their eyes and ears
(DIR) Post #AuT8X646FdqHrGmVQO by Lomara@social.linux.pizza
2025-05-26T00:22:35Z
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@stux good question. It sure seems more prevalent to me. I think the pandemic lockdowns made it worse. I also think the rise in popularity of men like the Tates contributes to it.
(DIR) Post #AuT8XJuglQdIo8UBhQ by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T00:22:38Z
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@trebach This one is a combination of stupid and aggressive and sometimes a LOT of alcohol so kinda a deadly mixI've been so much more involved then i would wanted already, it was needed but truly sad
(DIR) Post #AuT8e1gYvuVsIn4mR6 by falcennial@mastodon.social
2025-05-26T00:23:29Z
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@stux if it threatened you then "stand your ground" and give it a couple of skull tunnels. you'll be doing it a kindness to end its suffering. abused partner will have one less problem in her life. the problem that is most likely to kill her. there is another tremendous kindness.not your problem of course, it is just perhaps an option. you are a person with agency. I hope you put all that shit in your rearview. you deserve a better community than that.
(DIR) Post #AuT8egNrcKuwWfdvU0 by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T00:23:58Z
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@Lomara Was also thinking of thatThe "manosphere" or whatever that is just incredibly toxic...Well.. one thing left to do.Shame it out of them, big time
(DIR) Post #AuT8pDEuJekpJzTUgK by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T00:25:52Z
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@falcennial Unfort it doesn't work like that here 😉 Or fortunate i guess!Self-defence is okay but to a certain level, weapons are a no no, alwaysIf i where to shoot him, even in self-defence i would go away for a looong time, and rightfully so(little side note! as a kid i almost had a black belt in taekwondo 😀 not that theres much left but still)
(DIR) Post #AuT8shuAl66dIWRUzQ by Lomara@social.linux.pizza
2025-05-26T00:26:26Z
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@stux agree, the shame needs to shift to the abuser.
(DIR) Post #AuT9L3FWzgAZbYwriK by falcennial@mastodon.social
2025-05-26T00:31:37Z
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@stux I get it, it's same here. laws of this type are quite empowering for the casual shit eater but there is always off the books activities where needed. domestic abusers for example. anyway, may you create a solution you're happy with 🌻
(DIR) Post #AuT9qx6NO08hnxsU3k by ChampersBE@mastodon-belgium.be
2025-05-26T00:37:22Z
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@stux DAMN !Good luck with the house hunt.I have a few friends near Bijlmer who have the same problem.I've had troubles with a loud upstairs neighbor but it seems they calmed down.Hoping you find a nice quiet place soon enough.
(DIR) Post #AuTAJsyFp9bdOHsKTA by stux@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T00:42:37Z
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Sorry for all frustration btw! ❤️ I wanna be a calm happy person but sometimes surroundings can make it a little harderI'd rather type it out here instead of building the frustration and fueling this situation even more
(DIR) Post #AuTAwdbesmLt24miMy by rustybikes@mastodon.social
2025-05-26T00:49:33Z
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@stux oof... chaotic neighbours are the worst. stay safe, man. ❤️
(DIR) Post #AuTBuf6URcy33EpNWy by MuhammadFreeSoftware@fosstodon.org
2025-05-26T01:00:26Z
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@stux Why dont you write a personal diary? It can help with frustration
(DIR) Post #AuTDKR3TOq5yxnGoMq by mpm@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T01:16:19Z
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@stux at the point the ownership bails on civilized society, the best course of action it to leave and not look back. A few years ago I realized that we either moved out or I was at risk of arrest because a “resident” didn’t care about anyone else, which made 2AM amplified karaoke singing totally OK.
(DIR) Post #AuTDVK6JayRSa4n70i by zemsgram@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T01:18:17Z
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@stux here’s hoping you find a new place soon!
(DIR) Post #AuTFFeL4mamMchLjQu by HarriettMB@beige.party
2025-05-26T01:37:47Z
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@stux @trebach Can you record them and send the recordings to any authorities? Child protection? The building owners? Even the cops? That way there is evidence of their behaviour and someone might do something. It’s awful when kids bear the brunt of adult bad behaviours.
(DIR) Post #AuTQsBachk88FTCRKi by jjj@functional.cafe
2025-05-26T03:48:04Z
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@stux That sounds incredibly stressful. Sorry you have to deal with this.
(DIR) Post #AuTUu2avWDr0kLTuzo by PrincessConnasse@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T04:33:11Z
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@stux Wow. I'm sorry for you. But I'm horrified for the kids ! Here, in France, the child protection is a shame, but I thought it was better in the Netherlands.
(DIR) Post #AuTghj1LfPU40wjZHU by ernstdemoor@mstdn.social
2025-05-26T06:45:23Z
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@stux 😢🫂
(DIR) Post #AuV2HTDyARP3dvU18C by adamsfan@mastodon.social
2025-05-26T22:21:57Z
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@stux Hope you find a better place soon!