Post AtJrEEgmoSmYh2UQ5I by Tattie@eldritch.cafe
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 (DIR) Post #AtJrECUeyZtTsqnhuC by Tattie@eldritch.cafe
       2025-04-21T09:06:45Z
       
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       Ugh. I hate waking up in the morning to some patronising bigot telling me my late wife was an "abnormality" and her biological existence less real than others' due to her inability to reproduce.Horrible, fascist bullshit.
       
 (DIR) Post #AtJrEDisPCrNhESZhg by Tattie@eldritch.cafe
       2025-04-21T15:01:26Z
       
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       I wavered on this post as my wife didn't normally identify as intersex, but I know very well she'd have been labelled an "abnormality" by this fucker's definitions. Human biological variation is much broader and more common than the pigeonholers would have us believe. It's "normal", in fact. Yet it's so often swept under the rug. Not talked about. Not seen.
       
 (DIR) Post #AtJrEEgmoSmYh2UQ5I by Tattie@eldritch.cafe
       2025-04-21T15:01:59Z
       
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       My mum, on the phone, the other day: "I was watching this show about this woman who had this condition where she'd grow facial hair..."Me: "Yes, Polycystic Ovary Syndrome. That's what $WIFE had."Mum, taken aback: "oh! Well, I mean this woman had it seriously, I mean she had a full beard."Me: Remembers how much shaving, plucking, waxing, and IPL my wife did to keep her facial and body hair acceptable to female beauty standards and her own dysphoria, and realising that basically none of this was known to anyone other than herself and me."Mm-hmm."