Post AkSrnVaX5HoeuEM0aO by gonnefishin@shitposter.world
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(DIR) Post #AkQrTirBeaQDwxn0Fs by gonnefishin@shitposter.world
2024-07-29T19:21:09.428102Z
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Please. You guys are smarter than I am and have more knowledge on this shit.I'm too fucked up and hysterical. What the hell am I supposed to do when my mom passes.
(DIR) Post #AkQraPaBiGPUCQ1msK by teto@cawfee.club
2024-07-29T19:22:19.931845Z
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@gonnefishin youre supposed to mourn her and then move on? Or what exactly is this about?
(DIR) Post #AkQrrAbWehpsfRe1i4 by gonnefishin@shitposter.world
2024-07-29T19:25:23.737106Z
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@teto I'm mourning for sure. Trust me.I don't know anything about the bureaucratic shit I have to go through for funeral services.
(DIR) Post #AkR0f3t8hN21x1BUWm by anonicus@shitposter.world
2024-07-29T21:04:02.673136Z
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@gonnefishin I wish I knew exactly what to do. Honestly did she ever say she wanted to be buried or Cremated if she ever passed?
(DIR) Post #AkR14WIuBfGJJtNLlo by Hyperhidrosis@shitposter.world
2024-07-29T21:08:38.966073Z
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@gonnefishin You have to secure a death certificate so you can close all her accounts and start funeral arrangements to put her to rest.You also should inform family and friends about the death so they can help out.
(DIR) Post #AkR1H4rXWbExybYzlg by djsumdog@djsumdog.com
2024-07-29T21:10:23.125866Z
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I wish I could help, but I was on broke and on the other side of the planet when my mom passed over 10 years ago. My dad and sister took care of everything. :blobcatshrug:
(DIR) Post #AkR1Qd4nghbUhAJwcy by djsumdog@djsumdog.com
2024-07-29T21:12:21.207966Z
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..and also pay close attention when talking to funeral home people. They know people are grieving and won't notice price increases or changes in contracts. Don't let them know how much you get from insurance to cover the costs (or if you do, subtract $1~2k from it, because they'll somehow find a way to tack that much on).
(DIR) Post #AkR1lDnEsxKMMUvS2y by Hyperhidrosis@shitposter.world
2024-07-29T21:16:22.068515Z
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@djsumdog @gonnefishin go in when you're sound of mind or have someone else go with you.
(DIR) Post #AkR52ifhdJ6EunR5Tk by teto@cawfee.club
2024-07-29T21:53:05.844487Z
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@gonnefishin you call the police and they take care of it. They will tell you what to do
(DIR) Post #AkR548E66fJ2SfCHfU by teto@cawfee.club
2024-07-29T21:53:22.346124Z
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@gonnefishin I have no context. It sounds like you just found her dead.
(DIR) Post #AkSrnVaX5HoeuEM0aO by gonnefishin@shitposter.world
2024-07-30T18:34:09.307515Z
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@teto I have been really busy. I was not even in the same city when it happened, my great aunt called me and told me that EMS said she suffocated to death on her stomach. The officer told me they were ruling it a natural death. Truthfully I'm not entirely convinced that my aunt did not kill her. I plan to call the officer in charge and see if they even bothered to do an autopsy once she arrived at the morgue in a few moments.@Hyperhidrosis Death Certificate. I will look into getting that. I don't particularly have friends around as it is, but I'll start contacting old friends who've met her and see if they wouldn't at least be receptive to coming to the service when it's held. @anonicus My mom spoke of being cremated before, but this was before she had joined the Jehovah's Witnesses. I have no idea how she felt about it afterward.
(DIR) Post #AkSsDMUbWYY4E2uPOi by pernia@cum.salon
2024-07-30T18:38:38.375950Z
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@djsumdog @Hyperhidrosis @gonnefishin why? do you get to keep some of that insurance money if you pay less to the funeral home?
(DIR) Post #AkT4lUdCyBAglNyUkq by djsumdog@djsumdog.com
2024-07-30T20:59:07.115445Z
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dunno .. like I said elsewhere in this thread, I've never had to make arrangements myself. I thought insurance usually paid a fixed amount for burial costs ... but anyway the point I was getting at is there are a lot of funeral home reps that sadly take advantage of people in time of grief, and to beware of that.