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(DIR) Post #Aj4ZMWm14eb4KibtMu by Paradox@raru.re
2024-06-19T03:22:22Z
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I just saw a yt comment saying that small talk is the allistic version of stimming.
(DIR) Post #Aj5gK25f4lnpQfW4xM by Paradox@raru.re
2024-06-19T16:15:04Z
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This is the video I was watching. Thoughts?https://youtu.be/H6Wf8Q3e6lg
(DIR) Post #Aj5kGIsB8Wua8agf5s by sathariel@princess.wedding
2024-06-19T16:57:27.408257Z
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@Paradox guess I'm just bad communicating with others, hard to relate with both presented forms totally
(DIR) Post #Aj5kGJp1bjz156Deoi by Paradox@raru.re
2024-06-19T16:59:11Z
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@sathariel How so? Could you describe your experience with communicating?
(DIR) Post #Aj5kvLXG8rNAGhTOK0 by comfcat@raru.re
2024-06-19T17:06:36Z
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@Paradox i'm curious if it's more like a behavior to sus out the intentions and condition of a stranger.
(DIR) Post #Aj5rsu06FCOByEkDwG by sathariel@princess.wedding
2024-06-19T17:25:52.205561Z
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@Paradox I think I'm more on the autistic side, cause I don't like small talk, one of the things that make me sad usually is to have many empty interactions. I think that's why I usually avoid talking at all. However I can follow these social required talks in an acceptable way, but I'm very introverted. Even while having an interesting conversation I prefer to hear and just respond or answer the things that I think are necessary.What makes the video hard to understand to me is the feelings part. How are feelings not information? For me that's the most interesting part in communication many times, more than what they're saying. Also I'm very emotional and feelings would affect so much what and how I'd respond.
(DIR) Post #Aj5rsvGRXv3ZtDOn3I by Paradox@raru.re
2024-06-19T18:24:37Z
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@sathariel The way I understood it, feelings is just the current mood of the people interacting, whereas information is pretty much everything else going on (the content of the conversation and body language). At least, aside from social context.
(DIR) Post #Aj5siesxgePY9N5Kpk by Paradox@raru.re
2024-06-19T18:33:59Z
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@comfcat Honestly that sounds like a solid guess.
(DIR) Post #Aj5vATDcrBNzz18jku by sathariel@princess.wedding
2024-06-19T18:53:45.904084Z
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@Paradox but isn't the mood shaping the information?
(DIR) Post #Aj5vATjAxschYrtvvs by Paradox@raru.re
2024-06-19T19:01:24Z
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@sathariel Possibly? But I guess it depends on who you are.Given her priorities model, it seems that mood is the first thing they notice before the meat of the conversation.I think I'd have to rewatch it to understand it better. Something I gotta really chew on.