Post AiGI1fu8LjLbtdKF8a by realcaseyrollins@social.teci.world
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 (DIR) Post #AiEp0QO1T3UheMOhvc by thj@mastodon.social
       2024-05-25T04:12:41Z
       
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       I've met a few eccentric/disturbed people, and it's immediately obvious why they have no close friends. They give off strange vibes and your gut feeling tells you to stay away.
       
 (DIR) Post #AiEp974qd1Q8MyZVNA by realcaseyrollins@social.teci.world
       2024-05-25T04:14:15.780247Z
       
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       @thj I’ve always been attracted to such people. I generally find them interesting, but it wasn’t until I dated a couple of them that I realized how dangerous letting them get to close to me can be.
       
 (DIR) Post #AiEqK4mVbWpgOAmjsO by thj@mastodon.social
       2024-05-25T04:27:27Z
       
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       @realcaseyrollins Vibes very noticeable to me, so I will detect subtle shifts in a person's mood. Eccentric people are off the scale to me. All the dashboard lights are lit. A lot of people talk about red flags. I don't even need those.
       
 (DIR) Post #AiEtOU5Tl7KbtXS4tE by realcaseyrollins@social.teci.world
       2024-05-25T05:01:48.857519Z
       
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       @thj @thj I have a guttural urge to try and put out those lights whenever I see em. After awhile I've learned that if such people could be saved by people who wanted to save them, they'd have been fixed by now.
       
 (DIR) Post #AiFUp7eKzEbCQbK18S by amyedge@toad.social
       2024-05-25T12:01:13Z
       
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       @thj @realcaseyrollins Define eccentric. I talk to my cat and dog, is that eccentric? A sign of bad mental health? Just a personal quirk? Or a sign of superior intelligence?
       
 (DIR) Post #AiFnMj7qTHYnOAIV4y by thj@mastodon.social
       2024-05-25T15:29:00Z
       
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       @amyedge @realcaseyrollins Talking to your pets is super common. People somehow think this makes them weird.When I say eccentric, it's not "just being a little quirky in a cute way" that I mean. If you haven't been around mentally unstable people or people with personality disorders, it's hard to explain the feeling.
       
 (DIR) Post #AiFnZLTViNXbnoRqPw by thj@mastodon.social
       2024-05-25T15:31:17Z
       
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       @amyedge @realcaseyrollins Artists are often this way. Interesting on the surface, but seriously demanding to be around in private.
       
 (DIR) Post #AiFnxes5Fdd8uQXFRY by amyedge@toad.social
       2024-05-25T15:35:36Z
       
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       @thj @realcaseyrollins I used to be a criminal defense attorney, and I also practiced family law. I know what you are referring to, and I would call them unstable.  I've sat with someone charged with murder in the forensic unit at a state mental hospital. I had a law classmate who went on a shooting spree at UNC Chapel Hill. None of those people were eccentric; they were mentally ill. Though the law classmate did look like Lou Reed.
       
 (DIR) Post #AiFrFEyCaeIPeWTMLw by thj@mastodon.social
       2024-05-25T16:12:29Z
       
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       @amyedge @realcaseyrollins Many historical figures with a reputation for being eccentric would get mental diagnoses today. There's a tendency for "interesting" people to have problems that they're hiding. The entertainment industry is full of people who are either traumatised or have mental disorders. It's rare that you meet people who are extraordinary and not also challenging.
       
 (DIR) Post #AiGI1fu8LjLbtdKF8a by realcaseyrollins@social.teci.world
       2024-05-25T21:12:34.301819Z
       
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       @thj @amyedge @thj @amyedge Yep, this is why I interchange "eccentric" with "neurodivergent" in my head. I don't think there's a meaningful difference.
       
 (DIR) Post #AiGVNKOsHTomyeMMDo by midway@soapbox.midwaytrades.com
       2024-05-25T22:47:56.464824Z
       
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       You just need enough wealth the be eccentric
       
 (DIR) Post #AiGW79J5rEGZtQVM8m by thj@mastodon.social
       2024-05-25T23:50:26Z
       
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       @midway @realcaseyrollins @amyedge It's like "expatriate" versus "immigrant"