Post AhojAzQoNJBbOvOlua by ethanjstark@hachyderm.io
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(DIR) Post #AhbXTe8W36JoLvUXUu by evacide@hachyderm.io
2024-05-06T01:02:58Z
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The saddest thing about meeting other high-profile women and enbys in infosec is the part where you compare your lists of stalkers and chronic harassers.
(DIR) Post #AhojAzQoNJBbOvOlua by ethanjstark@hachyderm.io
2024-05-06T04:08:31Z
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@evacide Oof. Sorry to hear.I have a community in The SF Bay where the fem community leaders keep a spreadsheet of the masc folk in the community, and tracks all yellow- and red-flag acts.Here in Asheville, there are similar systems for reviewing experiences with guys on the dating scene, positive and negative experiences.Pretty awful that such systems are needed.
(DIR) Post #AhovfN2QMxZKklFEdU by SpocksDaughter@mastodon.social
2024-05-06T03:03:57Z
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@evacide plz define 'enbys'? 'High powered' but ancient endevoring to keep up. Grin
(DIR) Post #AhovfO0gktm5lfRMZM by pbrane@sigmoid.social
2024-05-06T03:39:38Z
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@evacide @SpocksDaughter “enby” is how you verbally say “NB” so is a way to say “non-binary”.
(DIR) Post #Ahqg26VYmf8DCDbviC by jackemled@furry.engineer
2024-05-06T06:56:37Z
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@SpocksDaughter @evacide Phonetic spelling of "NB", which stands for "nonbinary", referring to their gender not fitting within the standard boy & girl binary.
(DIR) Post #Ahqg27Ew3xQZSwqARE by SpocksDaughter@mastodon.social
2024-05-06T07:13:24Z
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@jackemled appreciated. Age 74 West coast American 26 yrs yrs UK. Abt last yr reconized this contraviserial cultural shift. Try as I may to tell people here remote SW UK I idenity my self as: wait for it.... 'Has&Been'! No one ever gets it. :^/ Would I get a laught back hm ??
(DIR) Post #Ahqg27kq9Kwr3tleAS by jackemled@furry.engineer
2024-05-06T07:29:41Z
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@SpocksDaughter It's not controversial, just rediscovering what got lost in book burnings. Unfortunately I don't get the joke, I'm not good at them & don't pay attention to pop culture & media that I would need for context.
(DIR) Post #Ahqg29LkDc3w0e2dKS by jackemled@furry.engineer
2024-05-06T07:37:30Z
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@SpocksDaughter The whole thing about nonbinary is people realizing "I don't think I fit into this category of gender, I don't seem to fit into the other one either. I'll just do my own thing.", it's similar with transgenderism, people think about who they are & realize "I don't fit into the category I'm expected to, but I do fit into this other one & feel much more comfortable with it."Gender is complicated & I don't really understand it either. The most I know is how it seems to negatively & positively affect people. I just wish people could be accepted as who they are & who they want to be instead of attacked for it. If someone born with a penis feels like they should be a pretty girl, it's not my business, I'm just happy to see them finally feel good about themselves. I do my best to listen to others about how they see themselves even if I don't really know what it means, because maybe I'll learn something & maybe it will apply to me too & help me feel better about myself as well.
(DIR) Post #Ahsj6X7yRXQp5mIn6u by lauraklein@hachyderm.io
2024-05-06T04:57:33Z
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@evacide I don't know what's worse -when it's all the same people doing it which just shows how little is done to stop known bad actors, or when it's all different people which just shows how many of the bastards there are in our workplaces and how comfortable they are doing it.
(DIR) Post #Aht0UOi55ckR9k9jns by WebCoder49@floss.social
2024-05-06T07:46:10Z
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@SpocksDaughter @evacide Enby means a non-binary person.
(DIR) Post #Ahu0lvQkso5miaMzQm by claushoumann@mastodon.social
2024-05-06T06:02:36Z
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@evacide My wife showed me one of those bear videos where a dad tells her daughter he’d recommend the bear any day because men are evil. Unfortunately true to such a degree that it leaves me feeling all despondent and sad.
(DIR) Post #AhvUOeZ8bxqTXG4OJ6 by GeePawHill@mastodon.social
2024-05-06T05:18:06Z
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@evacide I've a dear friend, not in infosec, the general trade, and she is an important figure in the network of women in my corner of geekery.We're very close, so at conferences, we'd inevitably seek each other out.And I'd be sitting at her table, while women in the network came by to check in with her. They'd greet her, and then give me a rapid side-eye, and my friend would say, "He's okay, go ahead."The fucking stories I heard. *Routinely*, the stories I heard.
(DIR) Post #AhvUOfKHmfYjtU82nQ by amye@hachyderm.io
2024-05-06T05:31:33Z
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@GeePawHill @evacide this means you are trusted and loved.
(DIR) Post #Ai0nGk9aoybvT8rYUy by Orca@nya.one
2024-05-06T03:06:43.436Z
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@SpocksDaughter@mastodon.social @evacide@hachyderm.io enby - nb - non-binary
(DIR) Post #Ai1Ijg3qDL8XkiRuiG by SpocksDaughter@mastodon.social
2024-05-06T07:16:01Z
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@pbrane @evacide
(DIR) Post #Ai3Eza2SMUOgCv36A4 by twcau@mastodon.social
2024-05-06T07:24:05Z
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@evacide Gathering it’s akin to a Venn Digram with near perfect circle overlaps? ☹️