Post Ad0W5fhrdSae8rfbxQ by comrade_lecter@nnia.space
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 (DIR) Post #Ad0VsNfvMdQqSEQQXA by comrade_lecter@nnia.space
       2023-12-20T17:11:51Z
       
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       @luwa @cottonnsheepp @rubricappula I said it before that I believe in consent in harm to a degree, but it requires knowing that harm is harm. If you give a child a drug and don't warn about side effects, just say it's a nice pleasant thing for entertainment, it's not consent by any plausible definition. And similarly, if we live in a society that's so pro love that many simply cannot conceptualize love as a frequent form of harm, putting a child in this position is bad.
       
 (DIR) Post #Ad0W5fhrdSae8rfbxQ by comrade_lecter@nnia.space
       2023-12-20T17:14:16Z
       
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       @luwa @cottonnsheepp @rubricappula I also disagree with "My line is wherever the child themselves want to place it. Which is what every pro-c believes." If that was the case, we wouldn't have so many people jump to defense of abusers who were called out as abusers by the children they were intimate with. See the Valium drama and Newgon stance on Gabriel Matzneff.
       
 (DIR) Post #Ad0XpOIylWEHRoOXwm by comrade_lecter@nnia.space
       2023-12-20T17:33:42Z
       
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       @luwa @rubricappula @cottonnsheepp I'm not talking about sex right now, I'm talking about people's refusal to approach love as a source of harm. Love as in, feeling a strong emotional attachment to a person and entering relationships dependant on this attachment.
       
 (DIR) Post #Ad0f4UcYGWIr3fhLAe by cottonnsheepp@nnia.space
       2023-12-20T18:54:51Z
       
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       @comrade_lecter @luwa @rubricappula Exactly what Asme said. Simply feeling an attachment to a child does not make them knowledgeable on the risks of relationships. I know this firsthand from emotional incest - even without explicitly sexual or romantic interaction, it is incredibly (unfortunately) easy to expect too much emotional labor from a child. Trying to give them sex education to give them consent, the way you're implying, is not beneficial to the child and gives them the wrong impression on what their responsibility is in their interactions with others since relationships ought to be as equal as possible to reduce the possibility of abuse.
       
 (DIR) Post #Ad13uZCUsfyhDisIhU by comrade_lecter@nnia.space
       2023-12-20T23:33:11Z
       
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       @luwa @aronarchy that's a big assumption. Care to elaborate?
       
 (DIR) Post #Ad161X31U1A4TktOGu by aronarchy@nnia.space
       2023-12-20T23:56:47Z
       
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