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 (DIR) Post #AXfieMZNaS8MVmMkUK by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:09:54Z
       
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       so hi new friends on the extinct pachyderm site!my name is kianan rowan jordan-abrams, but all my friends call me rowan. acceptable nicknames for my first name are key or k. also I'm part of the mod team here.I write poetry/otherwise as k. r. jordan-abrams at @hypergraphia; personal side account at @where_the_rider. my name is lowercase on purpose; so are most of my sentences and such. capital letters are overrated and too much work (although I try to use them in hashtags). #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieNRyJTnpF5uLa4 by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:10:26Z
       
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       I'm #Transgender, specifically #Nonbinary and #Genderqueer, and my pronouns are they/them or he/him.I spent my teenage years repeatedly coming out, first as lesbian and later as trans (a couple of times), before finally learning about nonbinary identities in my mid-twenties, but for various and sundry complicated reasons wasn't able to access transition care until early 2022 at the beginning of my thirties. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieOH1FgdTnPn79E by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:13:01Z
       
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       I held a class A CDL and worked as an over-the-road #TruckDriver for almost 6 years and stopped recently due to #Disability and now work adjacent to passenger commercial transportation. in the past I've also worked in #Union #UnionStrong shops as a class B CDL bus operator (#SMARTTD GO-875) and a paratransit driver (#ATU 662, #Teamsters 848 where I was a shop steward trainee).I'm incredibly geeky about all things #Safety. your regulations were written in blood. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieP2AQOLk9dqldY by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:14:12Z
       
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       in addition to my own #Union background, my zayde was, as well as a tinkerer and jack-of-all-trades, an extra in the film industry way back before they were called background actors.he helped spur the movements that eventually led to background actors being eligible for membership in #SAG and #AFTRA although he personally didn't end up with enough film credits from after that happened to qualify for MPTF benefits. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfiePmxcPmQUlk8Zc by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:14:28Z
       
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       regarding my background in labour #Activism is that I was raised in and around #FolkMusic, particularly at the California Traditional Music Society's now-defunct #CTMS Summer Solstice Folk Music, Dance, and Storytelling #MusicFestival as well as Lark in the Morning #MusicCamp. I've been supported by family in any activism I pursue, which has also included #MayDayWalkouts and #BDS actions.this is far from the only environment which shaped me, but it feels important here. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieQj68GHhP4wZBw by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:15:20Z
       
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       when I was originally writing this thread yesterday, I misestimated how much I was originally going to get done. not only failure to account for mountain grades and city traffic but.I'm #Disabled. I'm #Neurodivergent and #Deaf (well, #HardOfHearing but I say deaf for simplicity's/cultural sake) and I have #HereditaryMultipleExostosis. bone spurs grow in places they're not supposed to, associated #ChronicPain, plus other health problems.and some days it's more than others. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieRW1CNPrqnpdRY by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:15:48Z
       
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       along with being deaf/hard of hearing, I have some #SpeechImpairment #SpeechImpediment as well as #SelectiveMutism plus #Dyslexia.this affects pretty much every aspect of my life.I went through #SpeechTherapy for all of primary/secondary school, but verbal speech is still always a conscious effort. good days you can't tell I have problems; bad days? I'm nigh unintelligible.I use #AAC on my phone as well as #AmericanSignLanguage and #PidginSignedEnglish. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieSRnjXdYk0rmVc by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:17:30Z
       
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       fun fact, my spouse is also deaf!my hearing does, however, return to normal right around 8,000 Hz and remains perfect all the way up through hearing electricity and lightbulbs. but conversation is challenging at best.got my first pair of #HearingAids last year, after most of a lifetime of complaining something was wrong with my hearing, and a severe worsening of my #Tinnitus that prompted me to seek help, as it was also impacting my #MentalHealth. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieTG8iNu3G8PyyG by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:18:15Z
       
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       in addition to everything else, I am a part-time undergraduate #CollegeStudent.I went back to school to community college after a seven year gap, and then transferred to #UniversityOfNebraskaOmaha. I started out with a major in #ReligiousStudies and a minor in #EmergencyManagement but changed my program to #InterdisciplinaryStudies to better fit the breadth of previous educational and life experience I have. I do have some educational goals I want to go for post-undergrad. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieU7fVMilw9SjPE by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:18:45Z
       
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       in case the Hebrew in my display name (which is my Hebrew name) wasn't enough, I am #Jewish. my family is mostly #Ashkenazi from the Pale of Settlement. both sides of my family fled to North America during the pogroms in the 1800s, my mother's family to Canada and my father's family to the United States.I grew up #Conservadox, flitted between #Chabad and #ModernOrthodox as a teen/young adult and then went #OTD, and am now finding my own derech and my way back. mostly. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieUs6ihrsGBBon2 by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:19:05Z
       
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       my politics lean to the left. the far left. the personal is political and vice versa. #TikkunOlam is praxis.I don't tolerate bigotry or hatred online or in real life. I look forward to not having to deal with it here the way I did on the bird hellsite.I don't have space for all the hashtags to make it abundantly clear where I stand but here's a few.#NothingAboutUsWithoutUs#FreeBritney#EndMMIW#WaterIsLife#BlackLivesMatter#NoJusticeNoPeace#DefundThePolice#LoveWins#Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieVtutSuRS52mFU by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:20:17Z
       
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       the more complicated bit is of course that every American Jew is expected to have a position on Isreal/Palestine. even though I've never been and don't necessarily intend to go. I am against and will always be against the entanglement of jingoistic nationalist philosophy with Judaism. I believe in the separation of church and state. that should apply to anyone calling themselves democracy.I block people who hold that anti-Zionism is always antisemitism for my own safety. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieWrTK2Y2QmuL4q by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:21:20Z
       
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       as an adult I found and read the writings from the #JewishLabourBund, and the Bundist philosophy of #Doikayt. the idea that instead of this absolute need for medinas Yisroel, that, "there, where we live, that is our country".there's also a line in the play #AngelsInAmerica by Tony Kushner, "there is no Zion save where you are". that play was… formative and important to me, growing up in the 1990s in the shadow of the death and destruction wrought by the AIDS epidemic. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieXl7z74FDOwmpM by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T13:21:56Z
       
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       aside from what I've covered upthread, my other interests include #FibreArts (specifically spinning), #StarTrek (#DeepSpaceNine is best Star Trek), #Photography (although I haven't done much of that recently).I like to say I'm the world's best bad #Musician. I play pennywhistle and bodhrán (pretty well) and guitar (badly), and can learn most instruments passably to play supporting parts pretty quickly even if I'll never actually be good at them. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieYdii8jhwiUNv6 by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T14:09:52Z
       
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       also I'm happily married to @inoru_no_hoshi, one of my best friends in the world. we have a while little meet-cute story that's a thread for another time. we have one adorable #Cat, Zoey. I probably won't post many pictures of because writing alt text or image descriptions is not accessible for me. we also have an entire outdoor #CatClowder we feed/try to take care of. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfieZUXXkzGaXCZFY by kabrams@union.place
       2022-11-20T14:10:08Z
       
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       anyway, I do honestly think this thread was better yesterday as I wrote it, but I'm also so much less tense no longer having typos and formatting errors live in the wilds of the internet.glad to see so many folks from the bird hellsite over here, and equally glad for the new friends that I am making. the end. #Introduction
       
 (DIR) Post #AXfiea2DWXvSGyxSk4 by mao_yat@poa.st
       2023-07-14T03:05:33.709366Z
       
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       @kabrams x
       
 (DIR) Post #AZUKvdtzgPIdC0ebtQ by oatmeal@emacs.ch
       2023-09-06T11:02:08Z
       
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       @kabrams in the modern context Ashkenazi refers to German Jews, not Eastern Europeans Jews. Two very different groups from a cultural point of view, including language spoken, education, assimilation etc. If your parents spoke Yiddish at home (or are Russians) you’re an Eastern European Jew, not ashkenazi.
       
 (DIR) Post #AZUYOOYB8elTNjUTmi by kabrams@union.place
       2023-09-06T13:32:59Z
       
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       @oatmeal in the context of my family, we have always used Ashkenazi. no one asked for your opinion.