Post AWodktrkmEodvTg9Ro by ninafelwitch@tech.lgbt
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 (DIR) Post #AWodktrkmEodvTg9Ro by ninafelwitch@tech.lgbt
       2023-06-18T07:30:54Z
       
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       I cannot stand people who "flirt" as a joke. Like, a person who looks into my eyes, with a soft smile, leaning forward, "you're really pretty". But when I'm like "I want to kiss you" they respond with "oh no, I see you just as a friend. I wasn't actually flirting, just pretending, for fun, like I do with all my friends."Please don't do this to your panromantic, polyamorous and neurospicy friend.Please don't do this to anybody.
       
 (DIR) Post #AWodkuZMA7h66i4yPY by ShadowJonathan@tech.lgbt
       2023-06-18T11:08:34Z
       
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       @ninafelwitch when you said "flirting as a joke" i couldnt even think you meant thisi often "flirt as a joke", in the sense that, while im not romantically inclined to them, my flirts (actually complements) are sincere, and i merely wish to teasenot... thisthis is not flirting, this is not teasing, this is destroying the framework teases work with, this conditions people to not receive any sincere complementsthis makes people incapable of receiving positivity without doubting it, and when a person is incapable of receiving and feeling like it is sincere, they can shut themselves out from any positivitywhich is a wrenched thing to cause in someonewhen i flirt, even from a teasing mood where i just love to see them get fuzzy feelings from what i say and mean about them, it is always sincere, since nothing less will cause them to be able to receive such things in the future