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(DIR) Post #AUBFw05arrPo8cOceO by Qeli@dragonscave.space
2023-03-31T14:17:28Z
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I need some feedback from other #trans and #nonbinary folks on something I have mixed feelings on:My boss posted a message this morning to all staff to share that it is #transdayofvisibility, but used the following language:"Also, March 31st is International Transgender Day of Visibility! We at <company> support transgenders and stand with transgenders. We know it is not an easy world, but here at <company>, you can be who you are without judgment. Love is all we need."I'm the only trans person at our company, and I find the use of transgender as a noun to be offensive. Am I alone in this? Should I say something, or just let it go?I think he is just very out of touch and not willing to learn about trans people on his own, and I don't know if it's my responsibility (or if I have the energy) to educate him and the rest of the staff. I really appreciate the sentiment of them celebrating the day, but the language he used just hit me wrong, I guess. What are your thoughts?
(DIR) Post #AUBFw0Yf7mfRalzpxY by ChristiJunior@bae.st
2023-03-31T16:46:10.589598Z
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@Qeli @Qeli He should have just said "all trannyfags deserve to burn in hell" instead.
(DIR) Post #AUBG8Qwiq9QwuNAvMe by thestrainingstudent@sciences.social
2023-03-31T14:58:20Z
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@Qeli Apologies if you're only looking for replies from trans & nb folks, I am cis.It's no one's responsibility to educate peers. You're validly put off by something offputting, you're valid to not want the mental/emotional labor of confronting it yourself. Is there a HR dept or employee who might be willing to raise the concerns to founder?Would it be preferable to send a link to resources rather than explaining it yourself?
(DIR) Post #AUBG8RamRDTaubuuno by Qeli@dragonscave.space
2023-03-31T16:18:33Z
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@thestrainingstudent Thank you for you reply and insight, cis opinions are still valid and appreciated!There is an HR Dept, but I don't think this warrants reaching out to them yet. We're a relatively small company so I'd rather handle it internally I think.I am gonna look for a link to some appropriate resources though, thanks for the suggestion!
(DIR) Post #AUBG8SE84ux4seKL8S by thestrainingstudent@sciences.social
2023-03-31T16:25:47Z
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@Qeli No problem! When I want to say something but don't feel like putting in the energy, I like sending a link to someone who was themselves willing to put the effort in and educate. A magic of the Internet moment.I think this one could be helpful, it does a good job of explaining terms to avoid without immediately putting ppl on the defensive. It has a section for "Transgendered (Verb). Transgender (Noun)"https://www.albertahealthservices.ca/assets/info/pf/div/if-pf-div-terms-and-phrases-to-avoid.pdf
(DIR) Post #AUBG8SmA2OAqaCFWBE by karabin@detroitriotcity.com
2023-03-31T16:48:23.605376Z
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@thestrainingstudent @Qeli You will never be a woman, apply for Medical Assistance in Dying please :trans.png:
(DIR) Post #AUBKP8guMgVV1y02Gu by kroner@seal.cafe
2023-03-31T17:36:16.024902Z
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You should really just kill yourself faggot, would do everyone a favor
(DIR) Post #AUBKfiLVZKD0FHtSdc by Mamako@poa.st
2023-03-31T17:39:16.328690Z
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@Qeli You should probably kill yourself.
(DIR) Post #AUBKhgVfMmpB87aIPQ by NirtyDigger@mugicha.club
2023-03-31T17:39:37.163073Z
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My reaction to that information:
(DIR) Post #AUBKxllPbGos3fcRs0 by ImperialAgent@mugicha.club
2023-03-31T17:42:32.006219Z
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You should be ecstatic that these people are even remotely willing to play along with your charade.
(DIR) Post #AUBL1O8XO2PlwGA50y by MisterLister@poa.st
2023-03-31T17:43:11.197579Z
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@Qeli You should just kys
(DIR) Post #AUBLBbud1Y05YiWvM8 by RahowasaurusRex1979@mugicha.club
2023-03-31T17:45:01.937070Z
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“Miss me yet?”
(DIR) Post #AUBLG4lfgKQMD9TBLs by Quietgirl82@dragonscave.space
2023-03-31T16:33:19Z
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@Qeli No your not alone in this. I don’t like that kind of language personally Trans is a descriptor like tall woman etc. I would talk to someone about this if you have the time/energy. This to me is not ok.
(DIR) Post #AUBLG5K3cTvhvnYdwu by ChristiJunior@detroitriotcity.com
2023-03-31T17:45:49.626121Z
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@Quietgirl82 @Qeli Here's the correct answer: It's not okay to play pretend with trannies and validate their pathetic delusions. Call them out as the disgusting, subhuman freaks that they are.
(DIR) Post #AUBLLmZAGglDUsLC0O by aimlessComposer@raccoon.place
2023-03-31T16:35:05Z
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@Qeli i feel this explicitly because my work just had a TDOV blurb and used "transgendered woman" and i just internally lost my shit about it
(DIR) Post #AUBLLn1WZFRgupbqD2 by ChristiJunior@detroitriotcity.com
2023-03-31T17:46:51.984525Z
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@aimlessComposer @Qeli Are you a tranny Furfag?
(DIR) Post #AUBLQ2LpWQxTby8GsC by greenpx@poa.st
2023-03-31T17:47:38.608681Z
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@Qeli Kys tranny
(DIR) Post #AUBLW7xRac3Kjnd8LI by AidanTTIerian@poa.st
2023-03-31T17:48:44.632996Z
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@Qeli You should go to Home Depot and buy a rope and a stepladder.
(DIR) Post #AUBLZu9ar2oH5F78lc by AidanTTIerian@poa.st
2023-03-31T17:49:25.495403Z
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@thestrainingstudent @Qeli
(DIR) Post #AUBLdRXbB78bV71u5Y by 46da9d8ac399a2ec9b2fbbf8bfb51544f2d8cee9052b735dde66c91d3f56ab9f@mostr.pub
2023-03-31T17:40:37.000Z
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I think you should fix whatever the underlying source of your unhappiness is so you stop using a delusional identity to find excuses to blame others for said unhappiness.
(DIR) Post #AUBLeCRsmBUYyziVCi by GayHateAlliance@poa.st
2023-03-31T17:50:12.103090Z
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@Qeli you dont have to put up with thatyell at him
(DIR) Post #AUBMNjhlyca19lrYP2 by ArdainianRight@detroitriotcity.com
2023-03-31T17:58:25.334765Z
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@ChristiJunior @Quietgirl82 @Qeli The first thing to do to restore order is to restore the proper name to things. If you can't call obvious men "men," you won't have the clarity of language and mind to address reality and solve your social problems. Refusing to bend the knee to tranny pronoun bullshit might seem small, but it is of civilizational importance.
(DIR) Post #AUBMaTtS4jKHslP2Ho by SpurgAnon@varishangout.net
2023-03-31T18:00:42.897255Z
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@ArdainianRight @ChristiJunior @Qeli @Quietgirl82 call them eunuchs. Dickless men aren't men.
(DIR) Post #AUBMuCROfmZPXugOqu by ArdainianRight@detroitriotcity.com
2023-03-31T18:04:17.740716Z
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@Qeli Maybe you should incoherently screech at him about how his bigotry is literally genociding you and that trans school shooters are the real victims of society. Also be sure to celebrate the "Trans Day of Vengeance." I'm sure that'll promote more mainstream acceptance of trans folx.
(DIR) Post #AUBOlelQCPkKgr6SqO by EvilSandmich@poa.st
2023-03-31T18:25:09.925113Z
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@aimlessComposer @Qeli A solution awaits to your issues
(DIR) Post #AUBQR2MZSkZti0m82a by kroner@seal.cafe
2023-03-31T18:43:49.901532Z
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Good job reporting me to me you fucking retard, when you inevitably commit suicide please do a flip as its the most entertaining thing you'll ever do
(DIR) Post #AUBQlWkwAigFlLwWLA by Bloomfer@coolsite.win
2023-03-31T18:47:32.533792Z
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i hope this fur fag kills itself
(DIR) Post #AUBQtC98gLHC9xv3Vg by Darberto@coolsite.win
2023-03-31T18:48:44.702703Z
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Fucking retards don't understand this isn't twitter
(DIR) Post #AUBQxe8eY8sk8NoZ4S by kroner@seal.cafe
2023-03-31T18:49:43.341556Z
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So true kang
(DIR) Post #AUBR3uakI3tctrwTj6 by Eiswald@poa.st
2023-03-31T18:50:52.519971Z
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@Qeli Here's some constructive feedback, faggot.Down the road not across the street.
(DIR) Post #AUBR4nQ0RgzAwULB7g by Bloomfer@coolsite.win
2023-03-31T18:51:00.396403Z
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das rite, only black trans folks are real. whites stole this ancient tradition of the san people!
(DIR) Post #AUBRGtrwHwxyQJB4mu by RyokoPilled@freespeechextremist.com
2023-03-31T18:53:13.551874Z
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@Qeli have you thought about not using your gender identity as an excuse to be an annoying faggot