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 (DIR) Post #ASd7GQrJVHsrVI22dM by AutisticAdam@neurodifferent.me
       2023-02-12T20:37:37Z
       
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       Autistic people may immediately say “no” or become distressed when a change of plan is suggested, regardless of whether it’s objectively better/necessary. We aren’t tying to be difficult; our brain has perceived a threat and gone into complete survival mode. This is the “fight” response in us.This is why giving us time to process a suggested change is important. It is for me anyway. If we have to respond instantly, there is a chance we’ll say “no” to something positive, because we haven’t had a chance to fully assess it. Given some time, our initial “no”could become an enthusiastic “yes”.@actuallyautistic #actuallyautistic
       
 (DIR) Post #ASd8E17gJnt33m6H0C by Darkside_girl@nightshift.social
       2023-02-13T07:47:30.930337Z
       
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       My son is the same way.