Post AS4IZZldmBHASPMfWy by RupertvonRipp@poa.st
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(DIR) Post #AS4GWwKZEJh1evJgq8 by Shadowman311@poa.st
2023-01-27T12:05:40.523846Z
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"Look, okay, Christian Tradition may have been scientifically proven right again, but you all are still evil because you don't like it when I rape children"aleteia.org/2023/01/24/research-shows-that-marrying-relatively-young-without-living-together-first-results-in-the-most-durable-marriages/
(DIR) Post #AS4HNIE54JDkcnFLO4 by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T12:15:05.673905Z
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It doesn't take much to convince me that religious people will have lower divorce rates and happier marriages.However this article seems to be making the claim that marrying young is the secret, and I think it's far more likely that marrying young and staying together are both just traits of religious people. So the real secret is faith.
(DIR) Post #AS4ILzHO7sm7WkjcTg by Shadowman311@poa.st
2023-01-27T12:26:06.382018Z
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@cjd This exactly, they are identifying the symptom instead of the source
(DIR) Post #AS4IMr3mAhyMKAmVl2 by Marakus@poa.st
2023-01-27T12:15:19.134349Z
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@Shadowman311 Just because giving kids to child rapists end up in raped children every time, does not mean it will happen every time, because it would be prejudice.
(DIR) Post #AS4IZZldmBHASPMfWy by RupertvonRipp@poa.st
2023-01-27T12:28:34.218607Z
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@Shadowman311 @cjd This always happens in social research mumbo jumbo. "Rich people read more books therefore if you read more you'll be rich!" ... doesn't work that way guy.
(DIR) Post #AS4Il5eDaPaKW9Np5c by Consoomer88@poa.st
2023-01-27T12:30:38.834652Z
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@cjd @Shadowman311 Sample size of one, but for my wife and I faith wasn’t a thing for the first 20 years of our marriage.Christ let us take our time coming around to him. Marrying in our (very) early 20’s has made it much easier to stay together.
(DIR) Post #AS4IlyC6mcmPgteePY by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T12:30:46.223956Z
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The funniest thing is that I can see this and I'm a totally non-religious person. I would call myself agnostic because atheists are fucking annoying. But I'm not stupid enough to act like religion doesn't confer memetic survival traits on those who adopt it.
(DIR) Post #AS4J3z2UNfmrWWkEzo by Consoomer88@poa.st
2023-01-27T12:34:03.998511Z
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@Marakus @Shadowman311 “That wasn’t real [insert jew degenerate behavior].”
(DIR) Post #AS4J6PoBp94R7uDSAi by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T12:34:27.842283Z
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Congratulations on a happy life! My wife and I have been together just about 5 years and we married late. We're doing well together BUT she's not from the US and I'm expatriated so that helps a lot. I still get the feeling we were mislead about what should be our priorities.
(DIR) Post #AS4Jmn79Z09nZSIBwu by Consoomer88@poa.st
2023-01-27T12:42:09.877541Z
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@cjd @Shadowman311 Congrats! May God grant you many happy and fruitful years together.When my wife and I announced our engagement the most common reply we got was “Why, you’re still so young!” I remember one of my fellow NCO’s asking me why I was getting married, and he was genuinely surprised when I said because I loved her. There is definitely an agenda to keep young people from marrying and starting traditional families, just as there is against Christ and his church. They’re both antisemetic lol.
(DIR) Post #AS4K1i0koreo5TPdtg by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T12:44:48.694954Z
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Thanks, we've also been blessed to have a little daughter who just turned 6 months today, and it's hard to know what kind of life we ought to recommend to her. Maybe this Christ guy can help us out too :)
(DIR) Post #AS4KL5HcWDlHlZXZQW by RupertvonRipp@poa.st
2023-01-27T12:48:21.660823Z
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@Consoomer88 @cjd @Shadowman311 I wonder if the secret is less "faith" in the broad sense and more "faith" in the sense that specific virtues make certain outcomes more likely and faith cultivates these.Marriage lasting more often? Man and wife who both take oath seriously will outlive the strip club crowd and the polyculew crowd.
(DIR) Post #AS4LbDuQJd1L6ewxQO by mukona@bitcoinhackers.org
2023-01-27T13:02:27Z
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@cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 reading for my kids: the so called married red pilled book list.For long term relationship, my favorite to follow/read is Rian Stone,And I like to read @jerr_rrej here and there to "rebase".But as Jerry says, I am no pilled anything, it's just that we ignored the basics for too long.Rollo Tomassi's book, the Rational Male, goes in depth of the natural forces at play. I really liked the read. There's many other books.Mandatory for LTR in 2023+ age
(DIR) Post #AS4MI4iwLFZt4T0nuS by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T13:10:11.132689Z
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All seems to be advice for men. Problem is that for a girl, deferring to the WRONG man is the worst choice possible. What's the right advice for a girl in order to have the best possible life long term?
(DIR) Post #AS4PQxuPLhG4P4J4pE by butterdog@poa.st
2023-01-27T13:45:26.977129Z
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@Shadowman311 census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/visualizations/time-series/demo/families-and-households/ms-2.pdf
(DIR) Post #AS4RgSo4xAHQU2reF6 by TheWanax@poa.st
2023-01-27T14:07:22.599917Z
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@Shadowman311 @cjd Exactly. The common mistake of thinking there is causality, when there's only correlation. Age of marriage and divorce rates are correlated, but not causal. The correlation only points to an underlying connection, in this case faith as a causal source.Very common mistake in statistics. It tells you that whoever put together those studies doesn't understand statistics.
(DIR) Post #AS4RgTIZ7ofO0b7zlI by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T14:10:36.831219Z
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I suspect what's driving this is in fact people who marry young actually have a clear idea about the path their life should take, and so they just follow that path. Be it dictated by faith or otherwise, they know what they want to do. People who wait have less clarity.
(DIR) Post #AS4SwTxCYWdcd3KjVQ by mukona@bitcoinhackers.org
2023-01-27T14:24:44Z
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@cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 I am trying to understand the question, a girl like your daughter? age? your sister? age?In a perfect way, so to say, the girl learns from the parents and knows intuitively how to choose as she has had the example of what is a 'good' man/relationship in the family.The "MRP" material is surely great knowledge for all and covers both sexes, but to be honest, for my girls, I leave it mostly to my wife (and me when she there's an opening).
(DIR) Post #AS4UPu6kUk6M61OOIq by Nelenese@shitposter.club
2023-01-27T14:36:44.999766Z
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@Shadowman311 i'm more interested on how not living together prior to marriage is apparently more satisfying than couples whom do.
(DIR) Post #AS4UPuZ6nImpVyf2VU by Shadowman311@poa.st
2023-01-27T14:41:08.684576Z
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@Nelenese It's because it makes every physical interaction prior to marriage meaningful since it's not something that just happens every day, it's similar to how waiting before marriage for sexual intercourse also helps improve marriages
(DIR) Post #AS4UrU5Sph7rVDwVhw by WhiteyInDaHood@poa.st
2023-01-27T14:46:16.086749Z
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@Shadowman311 @Nelenese I agree and I think there's something about willpower and commitment there too. If two people had the willpower and commitment to not cohabitate and not have sex before marriage then naturally you would see the application of willpower and commitment after marriage. Stronger people do more difficult things, and having a lasting and successful marriage can be difficult.
(DIR) Post #AS4V0Skp9qZjyVZOMq by WhiteyInDaHood@poa.st
2023-01-27T14:47:53.237523Z
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@Shadowman311 @Nelenese Additionally, living together without being married has the unspoken implication that you would leave given the chance for someone better. Relationships where everyone is holding back are less durable.
(DIR) Post #AS4VrnT6sCMpZDiRNo by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T14:57:28.528537Z
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Yeah, daughter. 6 months old today. The question is what kind of values does one install in a little girl to lead her to the best possible future for herself?
(DIR) Post #AS4WEupJgKat347uRk by lain@lain.com
2023-01-27T14:59:38.792038Z
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@cjd @mukona @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 now I know what to send you for Christmas https://tuttletwins.com/about/
(DIR) Post #AS4WYNfSfwtC01na9w by sickburnbro@poa.st
2023-01-27T15:05:12.417112Z
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@Shadowman311 @Nelenese the funny thing is the assumption that this form of marriage wasn't arrived at by actual testing in the real world.
(DIR) Post #AS4WtsXP63UNp3HTAO by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T15:09:03.994424Z
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Nice!Another big looming storm cloud ahead is school. In the first couple of years it's all about reading and that's relatively "easy", but after that - what kind of school actually teaches things which will help a person succeed?I'm largely of the opinion that most schools don't teach a whole lot beyond the critical importance of school. So basically it's just memetics, self-replicating by indoctrination.
(DIR) Post #AS4X8Tcg0oRStThxWy by jcbrand@mastodon.xyz
2023-01-27T15:11:43Z
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@cjd @mukona @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311
(DIR) Post #AS4XT7tbzGXfafTYdU by jcbrand@mastodon.xyz
2023-01-27T15:15:27Z
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@cjd @mukona @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 <I have a 4yo daughter and have thought about this a fair amount.Best thing you can do is to be a good male role model. Something I heard years ago: "Woman either want men like their father, or nothing like their father".The latter because of bad fatherhood.So if you're a good father with good values, chances are she'll want someone like you.
(DIR) Post #AS4Xtr10rC1T3SgMim by jcbrand@mastodon.xyz
2023-01-27T15:20:16Z
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@cjd @mukona @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 There's also the joke...Being a father is easy. There's just one thing you need to do.Don't leave.
(DIR) Post #AS4YgJVMElDhJTz14y by jcbrand@mastodon.xyz
2023-01-27T15:29:02Z
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@cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 Congratulations BTW!As mentioned I have a 4yo and have loved every minute.6 months is a cute age and they develop so quickly.I sometimes miss the earlier years, when she was crawling around, learning to walk or dancing for the first time.But there's been no better or worse age. It's beautiful to see her develop and grow into a full person.
(DIR) Post #AS4ahBIyPPTU51jRdQ by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T15:51:35.951887Z
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For me and @redchrision it has been a true blessing
(DIR) Post #AS4e9Sa04joDcws85w by Consoomer88@poa.st
2023-01-27T16:30:21.718248Z
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@cjd @lain @mukona @Shadowman311 Homeschool. We had our son in public schools for 1st and second grade, have homeschooled since. It’s easy, fun, and the kids aren’t stuck in kiddie jail all day. My son schools for about three hours and then he’s out playing
(DIR) Post #AS4gRDBmEhhd0y8O3c by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T16:55:56.222062Z
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What are the topics that you teach on, and what material do you work from? I have a big list of things I think a kid needs to know in order to understand how the world actually works and to thrive in it, but sadly I've never seen any kind of educational materials on these topics...
(DIR) Post #AS4moxBRziIs3Aga00 by judgedread@freespeechextremist.com
2023-01-27T18:07:30.240495Z
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@Nelenese @Shadowman311 The law of diminishing marginal utility.
(DIR) Post #AS540OlxSUQ41OnyPg by Consoomer88@poa.st
2023-01-27T21:20:03.260617Z
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@cjd @mukona @lain @Shadowman311 We use memoria press and augment that with Saxon math.We’re still in primary school but it covers the basics with options for things like Latin and Greek
(DIR) Post #AS55P3Pk6aBwyQjbFI by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T21:35:39.964077Z
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@Consoomer88 @mukona @lain @Shadowman311 That is quite impressive!I might have some minor quibble with the practicality of some of the topics, but at the very least, this is easily competitive with a prestigious classical private school.Having these types of curricula available really makes homeschooling a possibility...
(DIR) Post #AS55WweB9JIKIoFX8a by lain@lain.com
2023-01-27T21:36:33.669514Z
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@cjd @mukona @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 this one comes to mind too, no idea how it actually is: https://ronpaulhomeschool.com/
(DIR) Post #AS55jCkV6lvjiV3JVQ by feld@bikeshed.party
2023-01-27T21:39:06.729354Z
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seems legit lol
(DIR) Post #AS55nxvhdLAtCfYvQG by Moon@shitposter.club
2023-01-27T21:40:02.961260Z
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@feld @mukona @lain @cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 i like ron paul but he has endorsed a ton of shit products and services
(DIR) Post #AS55rp7KL9Tz1vq5Ds by lain@lain.com
2023-01-27T21:40:17.958754Z
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@feld @mukona @cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 respect the hustle
(DIR) Post #AS55xb5bPMovGFmlEm by lain@lain.com
2023-01-27T21:41:32.249878Z
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@Moon @feld @mukona @cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 the curriculum is on the site, it's easy to check if it's reasonable or not.
(DIR) Post #AS56CHY6LCK50A7Mzw by Moon@shitposter.club
2023-01-27T21:44:31.651238Z
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@lain @feld @mukona @cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 what are the odds it has creationist crap on theresomeone else can check, i'm just gonna assume there is
(DIR) Post #AS56L1UdPDb3oMfFqK by lain@lain.com
2023-01-27T21:45:09.724888Z
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@Moon @feld @mukona @cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 you know what they say about assuming things
(DIR) Post #AS56S851JY8sGd4We0 by Moon@shitposter.club
2023-01-27T21:47:20.384101Z
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@lain @feld @mukona @cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 i choose to be ignorant
(DIR) Post #AS56X4LacVDS8dB4xE by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T21:48:19.306780Z
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@Moon @feld @mukona @lain @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 A good education is one that will reliably lead to the person making better decisions for themselves and their family. In that cause, I'm more concerned about teaching "individual liberty" than creationism.
(DIR) Post #AS56sZOsMQtEWpy1dw by Moon@shitposter.club
2023-01-27T21:52:07.511541Z
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@cjd @feld @mukona @lain @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 buy a bored ape as an investment
(DIR) Post #AS571ofKyPWYTp4lM0 by 1iceloops123@shitposter.club
2023-01-27T21:53:53.924787Z
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@Moon @cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 @feld @lain @mukona i'd buy curo cards as a investment
(DIR) Post #AS572tpbFmXkn3OP9U by lain@lain.com
2023-01-27T21:50:07.001289Z
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@cjd @feld @mukona @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 @Moon
(DIR) Post #AS57B0wkgO8dAtbidM by widmer@sheep.network
2023-01-27T21:54:39.285820Z
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(DIR) Post #AS57N9Pp1ODUuozYLg by Moon@shitposter.club
2023-01-27T21:57:40.224582Z
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@widmer @feld @mukona @lain @cjd @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 which side am i on, it's impossible to know
(DIR) Post #AS57QN3kkXOs6ICkiW by feld@bikeshed.party
2023-01-27T21:58:10.258693Z
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your eyes aren't far enough apart to be on the left
(DIR) Post #AS57wB9GZPXQQRx05o by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-01-27T22:04:04.092912Z
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@Moon @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 @feld @lain @mukona But I just checked it and it looks like a self help book but for children. Significantly worse than Latin.
(DIR) Post #AS5VD4MXLq7rFRBHIe by TheWanax@poa.st
2023-01-27T14:26:17.849376Z
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@cjd @Shadowman311 There is truth in what you're saying. Having goals and drive in life are important. One of the most important things in a marriage is having common values and common vision for what that marriage will look like. Having a shared belief system that guides worldview, life direction, and how to handle conflict is extremely beneficial to that, regardless of the age. Getting married young by itself seems unlikely to strengthen a marriage. Especially today, people are more immature at a young age, so you would think being married young by itself would be more likely to cause divorce due to that immaturity.As a religious person, I can guarantee you that we have the same marriage issues as everyone else. With Faith comes a respect for the marriage institution as established by God, so there is a much greater drive to find solutions to marriage conflicts and keep that sacred institution alive between the husband and wife, when sometimes it would be easier to simply walk away and get divorced.
(DIR) Post #AS5VOzG29n1atGp1GK by Shadowman311@poa.st
2023-01-28T02:27:01.176190Z
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@cjd @TheWanax It's also in part due to pair bonding, women lose the ability to pair bond after they engage in sexual intercourse more than 3 times, with men its after about 10 times. People who marry young either had very few sexual partners prior to their spouses or had none at all since they waited until marriage (another faith based value) thus allowing their marriage to be made stronger by pair bonding in the marital bed.
(DIR) Post #AS5W2Laz2TaVSpOCfo by MisterLister@poa.st
2023-01-28T02:34:08.752188Z
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@Shadowman311 @cjd @TheWanax Man....
(DIR) Post #AS5WEYw5GXGKJU5FA0 by Shadowman311@poa.st
2023-01-28T02:36:20.768201Z
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@MisterLister @cjd @TheWanax what
(DIR) Post #AS5X3LL5ZrkaudzfBg by MisterLister@poa.st
2023-01-28T02:45:31.916263Z
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@Shadowman311 @cjd @TheWanax When I was with my ex I was going to call things off because she was divorced and I knew she was with a few guys before me and that the relationship probably wasn't going to lastI ended up knocking her upThe relationship did not last
(DIR) Post #AS5aQj0O3Mrspo9RGy by 1967GTO@poa.st
2023-01-28T03:23:22.379139Z
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@Shadowman311 @cjd @TheWanax Chasing The Dragon. Junkies are forever in pursuit of the best high they ever had (often their first). It's never going to get better, only worse. I suspect the women with triple digit body counts really aren't all that different, on an impossible quest
(DIR) Post #AS5aTFeVdveefQ7gTA by RupertvonRipp@poa.st
2023-01-28T03:23:49.684644Z
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@1967GTO @Shadowman311 @cjd @TheWanax They're trying to fill a dad-shaped hole that can never be filled.
(DIR) Post #AS5h6vHJPd0smnZYvo by TheWanax@poa.st
2023-01-28T04:36:30.167828Z
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@RupertvonRipp @1967GTO @Shadowman311 @cjd Yes. Exactly. They are sex addicts, trying to self-medicate to treat a deep psychological pain that they don't know how to process.
(DIR) Post #ASEry5DFxDVsuTInzs by mukona@bitcoinhackers.org
2023-02-01T14:52:15Z
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@cjd @feld @lain @Consoomer88 @Shadowman311 @Moon this is a deep thread I forgot to answer.I think there should be good curriculum when you make it there. Initially, and mostly all the way, we did use K12 remote due to our lifestyle, and to be honest, it turned out great. At the of the day, it's that you are in family and have first take on discussions with the kids that matters the most.We use various sites, such as IXL, to speed up learning.The worst is Internet/cheating/adult suff...
(DIR) Post #ASEsIyOiUJ99r1ck9Q by cjd@pkteerium.xyz
2023-02-01T14:56:01.854904Z
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