Post ARSyEDL5uj5nyuv93g by StephenC@aus.social
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(DIR) Post #ARSx0J6rYxUBs04KWG by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:02:33Z
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Recently, I noticed something that never troubled me before in this manner. Through observation and even conversations (on Mastodon), it occurred to me that the obsession with big #cocks in the adult space is somewhat irritating. I don’t have a particularly large one. I don’t feel inadequate with it though. I also have no obsession for large #tits or other exaggerated features. Maybe that’s why.
(DIR) Post #ARSx0K8Jl2FB2nl0QS by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:02:33Z
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That a woman would fantasize about a cock as large as a soda can is beyond me. Seeing women taking comparative photos with beer bottles confuses me. Is this really just an expression of a #fantasy grown more explicit, an expression of who they are or is there more to it?
(DIR) Post #ARSx0LUKifRrFN46Nc by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:02:33Z
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I cannot shake the impression that there is. Speaking from personal experience, in my #relationships I often found my partners more open to wild #sex and #explicit acts than moments of silence and emotional #closeness. While sexual experimentation creates #trust and a feeling of closeness all of its own, what I mean is a deeper, vulnerable, #spiritual #connection. This happened across several relationships with entirely different #women, so it was quite noticeable.
(DIR) Post #ARSx0LzWqgOyo7f10K by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:02:33Z
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I suspect this to be in line with the general state of things. Outward performance versus #inner #growth. We all seek #connection, one way or the other. We all have different ways and strategies, strengths and handicaps to get what we need.
(DIR) Post #ARSx0OQBoWusLO9Kq0 by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:02:33Z
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I guess what I’m saying is that I’d take a lazy Sunday in bed with my lover, having rather #vanillasex but with a deep connection over a #porn model checking all my arousal boxes any day.
(DIR) Post #ARSx0PbDR1KXzsJefA by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:02:34Z
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That’s not to say that sometimes, I just love to shove my cock down her throat, #fuck her #face, fuck her #ass and make a big, sticky mess – and go out afterwards. It’s all in the shared moment and the lusting for each other. Once, I fisted a woman for an hour. It can be quite beautiful.
(DIR) Post #ARSx0QBjFGXNp7OoZk by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:02:34Z
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But it can’t be just that. That’s an #affair, not #love. That’s #lust and #desire and nothing much else. It can be fantastic and fulfilling and exhausting for a time. It has its place – but it’s still #empty in the end. In the absence of a deeper #connection, it doesn’t satiate the hunger that drives it. #Fucking with people is one thing, #love is something else entirely.
(DIR) Post #ARSx0QfrREdlKZUsXg by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:02:34Z
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Circling back to the #feeling I described, the #hunch: I suspect that can never be enough for the women who lust after a soda can sized #penis. Because I really can’t. No one can. Occasionally, for a fleeting moment, someone may. But not me. I don’t have the required equipment. And that’s fine. It feels weird to think about it, but it’s fine.
(DIR) Post #ARSx3PkXKfIvKe6j0y by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:03:06Z
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Maybe someday soon, I’ll find that special #woman. The one who is not afraid of deep #connection, #love and #vulnerability. Who trusts, who let’s me adore her #imperfect body and touch her beautiful, brilliant #mind. The one who loves passionate kisses, slow #sex and cuddling as much as being fucked every which way. The one who’s not afraid of two being one, being two. Who has #issues and #baggage and #complications and loves to discuss for hours on end. I’d #love that.
(DIR) Post #ARSyEDL5uj5nyuv93g by StephenC@aus.social
2023-01-09T12:16:13Z
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@gentlemanlover it is only men who have such fantasies
(DIR) Post #ARSySxrHklvQJR0l84 by gentlemanlover@mstdn.social
2023-01-09T12:18:56Z
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@StephenC I recently had a conversation with a woman who explicitly told me about this desire/fantasy in a very explicit way.