Post AR6ND9RBInldNReddY by ReflexVE@mastodon.lol
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(DIR) Post #AR4wRc4SkSEgJfjuee by ubiquity75@dair-community.social
2022-12-28T19:45:39Z
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Friend to me just now: “On Mastodon every computer dude assumes women don’t know anything. It’s exhausting.”Friend is worldwide expert in her field of [computer and other things]. Friend is also a woman. All info about her either linked in profile and/or easily googled. Just mansplained to re the area of research that she pioneered. Dudes: before you reply, check and see to whom you’re speaking and adjust your assumptions accordingly. Or just don’t be a reply guy, period.
(DIR) Post #AR4wXEL9tKMmSEE9zc by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-28T22:04:07.664213Z
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@ubiquity75 this happens to me too and i am a guy. it isnt a women thing it is a people being shitheads thing.
(DIR) Post #AR4wq5MfUFAo7QvN8y by fcktheworld587@social.linux.pizza
2022-12-28T22:07:37Z
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@ubiquity75 honestly, dudes think they know more than experts, on a regular basis - see the astronomical increase in virology "experts" since the onset of the COVID pandemic, for reference.Knowing that they're talking to an expert, in a field in which that person is an expert, is unlikely to cause any differences in the replyguy behaviour, as a whole
(DIR) Post #AR4x36ArmuEqOWbqHw by CumskinFoidPuncher69420@beefyboys.win
2022-12-28T22:08:00.138493Z
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>Ph. D>real name>ToNe PoLiCiNg>purported "gay lesbian" (doubtful)No one on this side of fedi respects you.
(DIR) Post #AR4xeFXVvlky9fuwpE by franz@seal.cafe
2022-12-28T22:16:42.542465Z
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@ubiquity75 say nigger please.
(DIR) Post #AR4ybXRb0PEmlpQ7xQ by dj@rojogato.com
2022-12-28T22:27:24.482678Z
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@ubiquity75 Posts publicly, cries when men reply. Maybe you’re not as smart as you think.
(DIR) Post #AR4ygmHZGTKEEqECwq by CumskinFoidPuncher69420@beefyboys.win
2022-12-28T22:05:47.686543Z
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MaNsPlAiNiNg discourse like it’s 2014 tumblr
(DIR) Post #AR4ynrSkP278Kdppp2 by LexiconDevil@chudbuds.lol
2022-12-28T22:29:39.724696Z
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> Please don’t tone-police me
(DIR) Post #AR51cvRdYaTzMKnD0K by ubiquity75@dair-community.social
2022-12-28T22:36:08Z
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@jeff The irony of explaining to me that this isn’t an experience endemic to being a woman online is a lot.
(DIR) Post #AR51cxdPPn5U9QJddA by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-28T23:01:11.990527Z
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@ubiquity75 no you just have a chip on your sholder. most women i know never experience this to the degree most vocal on this topic would assert it is
(DIR) Post #AR51h7bYHwtwENQnYW by ReflexVE@mastodon.lol
2022-12-28T23:02:01Z
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@fcktheworld587 @ubiquity75 You seem to be disregarding the fact that they do it to women far, far more than men. This is not a "all experts matter" situation, this is literally about reply guys constantly targeting women to mansplain their expertise to them.
(DIR) Post #AR53YXwDDFOhCi8LGC by fcktheworld587@social.linux.pizza
2022-12-28T23:22:53Z
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@ReflexVE @ubiquity75 I'm not disregarding that at all. What I'm saying is that men, as a rule - rather than as an exception - are willfully ignorant idiots. Mansplaining, and a lot of misogyny, in general, is a consequence of this.
(DIR) Post #AR53h2WDOkjiMh1WPA by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-28T23:24:20.218761Z
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@fcktheworld587 @ReflexVE @ubiquity75 most idiots are men and men are idiots to everyone online not just the women.
(DIR) Post #AR53m8RsmH24ClQWWW by fcktheworld587@social.linux.pizza
2022-12-28T23:25:20Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE women do get it particularly badly, from men
(DIR) Post #AR53q5madEAf5w01JY by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-28T23:26:02.604300Z
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@fcktheworld587 @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE no, they actually dont. most harassment online is DONE by women. men just learn to not complain about it.
(DIR) Post #AR53vcqL8nyX4tOMHQ by CumskinFoidPuncher69420@beefyboys.win
2022-12-28T23:26:36.811368Z
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Your entire ideology and philosophy is a joke propped up by sinister powers we've all had this discussion several times over back on tumblr a decade+ ago.
(DIR) Post #AR541DMYmzKrn17yXQ by fcktheworld587@social.linux.pizza
2022-12-28T23:28:04Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE interesting. We have very clearly had very different experiences, and observations, online.I find it very unlikely that you and I will be able to find any resolutions in our views, here.Have a good day, dude.
(DIR) Post #AR543hQnxyEdcmIXXE by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-28T23:28:27.526025Z
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@fcktheworld587 @ReflexVE @ubiquity75 like, go talk to your SO and ask her what women on women internet bullying is like. you'll be very enlightened by what she tells you.
(DIR) Post #AR548eEhH1xpA7zhmi by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-28T23:29:23.529247Z
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@fcktheworld587 @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE i know, i see women as just as accountable as men when it comes to being a human being.
(DIR) Post #AR54AqHZSN4V6QNv96 by fcktheworld587@social.linux.pizza
2022-12-28T23:29:48Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE cool, dude
(DIR) Post #AR55CqjQrB4f1twCTA by CumskinFoidPuncher69420@beefyboys.win
2022-12-28T23:39:50.698904Z
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This is the creature you are arguing with.>University of California>Gender studies>Ph. D in jannying
(DIR) Post #AR55Ct1wJL4C9sc0au by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-28T23:41:18.395997Z
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@CumskinFoidPuncher69420 @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 i can respect the library science degree, my mother has one from MIT (90s). having to study internet culture as a profession on the other hand is..... asinine.
(DIR) Post #AR56e7EdhoF7zF6GQK by ubiquity75@dair-community.social
2022-12-28T23:55:49Z
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@jeff @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 Jeff, I can’t seem to find the post to which you are responding, so I cannot confirm, but I know you are not coming at me to tell me what you’ll respect and not respect in terms of my academic expertise, particularly based on…your mom. You gotta go, my reply guy. You’re the very problem.
(DIR) Post #AR56e9RTV3hMpd7Xhw by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-28T23:57:25.707859Z
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@ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 this is kind of my point i am making, you got a chip on your sholder, and now it seems you have a LOT of narcissism going on. i am okay with being hated by you especially when you make it all about how YOU are SUCH a victim.
(DIR) Post #AR56lAUM0XTG6WoU5Y by ubiquity75@dair-community.social
2022-12-28T23:53:41Z
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@jeff @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 Narrator: this has nothing to do with the initial post.
(DIR) Post #AR56lCgpp6duvofTou by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-28T23:58:43.316234Z
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@ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 really? women online can also be bullies and they are especially viscous to other women online. the most evil things i have seen online has been of that kind.
(DIR) Post #AR56xGSrcBuq75sstM by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-29T00:00:55.490988Z
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@ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 studying retards online is not an activity with any academic rigor.
(DIR) Post #AR576fMIQe4RvYIN60 by ademan@shitposter.club
2022-12-29T00:02:41.567398Z
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lmfao this is precisely why credentials have become nearly meaninglessa word salad of shit that makes underwater basket weaving sound serious by comparison
(DIR) Post #AR57T9hmHXXoPr4D7A by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-29T00:06:40.469380Z
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@ademan @CumskinFoidPuncher69420 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 i will use this next time someone tells me to "trust the experts" and not my lair eyes.
(DIR) Post #AR57couaRihop2fOk4 by CumskinFoidPuncher69420@beefyboys.win
2022-12-28T23:02:58.547780Z
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This isn’t 2014 tumblr.
(DIR) Post #AR59Ceg84PS5SoYVNY by jeff@federated.fun
2022-12-29T00:26:09.123538Z
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@CumskinFoidPuncher69420 @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 those who can, do. those who can't, teach.
(DIR) Post #AR5A1QNsyXLTtqENzk by Nyarlathotep@beefyboys.win
2022-12-29T00:03:38.358428Z
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You, specifically, don't know shit about shit. You wasted tens of thousands of dollars on a gender studies degree.People like you put fries on my plate.
(DIR) Post #AR5A1QnlQK2tC6L3Ka by CumskinFoidPuncher69420@beefyboys.win
2022-12-29T00:35:20.359156Z
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Instance is adminned by a google tranny, "ethical AI" people (Timnit Gebru)These are the people actively making the world a shitty place.Sometimes I think Pol Pot was right about academia.
(DIR) Post #AR6ND9RBInldNReddY by ReflexVE@mastodon.lol
2022-12-29T14:37:49Z
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@fcktheworld587 @ubiquity75 In other words you are responding to a thread about misogyny with an attempt to generalize the issue rather than acknowledge the misogyny. Which is what men tend to do.Also no, mansplaining and misogyny are not consequences of men being willful idiots. Misogyny and the related behaviors frequently occur in all contexts regardless of other context.
(DIR) Post #AREeWQnAFwtPY8ovZo by davep@infosec.exchange
2023-01-02T14:28:35Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 Sure, but it's worse for women who are world-class in their field. I can't imagine how exhausting it must be.
(DIR) Post #AREeWT3tohT2acfJwG by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:29:28.040994Z
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@davep @ubiquity75 is it? i figured they are top in their field because they dont give a shit about flippant internet comments and dont let it bug them.
(DIR) Post #AREeefpeDnVSVouctM by davep@infosec.exchange
2023-01-02T14:29:40Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 Most women (like most men) aren't respected experts in a given field.
(DIR) Post #AREeei7nhHDPchQ9Sq by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:30:54.330929Z
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@davep @ubiquity75 if most men AND women are not experts are you implying women are somehow less able to handle themselves online?
(DIR) Post #AREemsPLLhu7pdWJ3g by davep@infosec.exchange
2023-01-02T14:30:54Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 "Doing your own research" 😕
(DIR) Post #AREemufMx5uapv28Jc by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:32:23.308661Z
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@davep @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 trust the experts and do not think for yourself is how you become dumber than a rock.
(DIR) Post #AREerY5ALW4qF2JHs0 by RustyCrab@sleepy.cafe
2023-01-02T14:33:19.100722Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 this happens everywhere to everyone. If you don't know who somebody is on entering a conversation you start slow and ramp up.
(DIR) Post #AREexjQL5jaN9cA6Xw by davep@infosec.exchange
2023-01-02T14:33:35Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 no, it's just obvious that world class experts are in the minority compared to us lumpen cloggers, whether male or female.
(DIR) Post #AREexlcSvcTRxnqoj2 by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:34:19.798390Z
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@davep @ubiquity75 so why bother making this about biological sex?
(DIR) Post #AREf0Lgvmh7CPzAdto by davep@infosec.exchange
2023-01-02T14:32:19Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 They're top in their field due to persistence, intelligence etc, same as men but with more reply guys.
(DIR) Post #AREf0OPJgdo8qDx7MO by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:34:52.635143Z
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@davep @ubiquity75 you just sound like the reply guy's you so deeply get upset by. i for one just do not respect professional victims regardless of their sex.
(DIR) Post #AREfLtUNJytpJvZToO by davep@infosec.exchange
2023-01-02T14:35:52Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 No one said that. But coming from a place of confidence without expertise doesn't make you an expert. Listen to them and understand, then maybe ask questions if there's something you don't get or believe may be missing the mark.A bit of respect goes a long way.
(DIR) Post #AREfLvnajVSWU6Zr2e by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:38:42.317096Z
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@davep @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 respect is earned and narcissism is a disqualifier. i do not respect people who claim they study culture as a profession as observing internet retards is not an activity with any meaningful academic rigor. i speak from experience here.
(DIR) Post #AREfWCtzzw4wQRTSy0 by mentallyalex@lor.sh
2023-01-02T14:38:12Z
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@jeffRegardless of how or why they are top in their field, surely you can understand the frustration of being the resident expert and having someone explain your subject to you.That is the complaint. Assumptions of authority are a constant uphill battle. Even in this conversation you mentioned an aggressive and dismissive context as to how she is perceiving the world. (Chip on your shoulder).You are a man, and yet you are dismissing and explaining how a woman is received to her. She is clearly the expert here, it's her experience in the world as a woman.Maybe it happens and you don't see it, because it isn't happening to you. @ubiquity75 @davep
(DIR) Post #AREfWF6ToVFbFjKShM by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:40:33.317762Z
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@mentallyalex @ubiquity75 @davep it doesn't happen to my female friends either as they have a profession involving a day job that imposes responsibilities that do not include giving a shit what random internet retards think. when your job is giving a shit what internet retards think and why, you will be attracting a large amount of ire by default not because of your biological sex.
(DIR) Post #AREfb1tIMiAziqRcsi by davep@infosec.exchange
2023-01-02T14:40:22Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 the problem is far more widespread than "studying culture", whatever you may think of it.
(DIR) Post #AREfb6y5UJyrT9j1Xs by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:41:30.846226Z
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@davep @ubiquity75 @ReflexVE @fcktheworld587 i do not agree as the women in my life that i know do not experience this kind of banality, they dont have time to tbh
(DIR) Post #AREfr9P4CaB9efzbbE by mentallyalex@lor.sh
2023-01-02T14:43:02Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 @davep wow.Yeah, good luck with your future.
(DIR) Post #AREfrBnbIKzZ5LUE7M by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:44:20.119074Z
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@mentallyalex @ubiquity75 @davep i dont need it, i have a work ethic that is not centered around pandering to women online but mutual respect when it is earned. you know, normal professional behavior.
(DIR) Post #AREg9TFn8ZkcQsOErI by davep@infosec.exchange
2023-01-02T14:37:16Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 I don't get deeply upset because I mainly post toe-curling jokes. Reactions of horror are quite common though.
(DIR) Post #AREg9VTKtBm1JSk5FQ by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-02T14:47:41.601212Z
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@davep @ubiquity75 the jokes fell flat as i do not subscribe to misogynist world views that strip women of personal responsibility.
(DIR) Post #AREgCDOWYdkO7Bmc4W by book@sleepy.cafe
2023-01-02T14:47:09.642921Z
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UOOOOOOOOH! CHILD EROTIC! 😭😭😭😭
(DIR) Post #ARGe6nDgdW0ntYv8bo by pauliehedron@infosec.exchange
2023-01-03T03:42:34Z
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@jeff I think they lie to you so as to not wake the monsters from the id. Because I'm just a bystander and holy cats dude wtf did you even reply if you're so sure it's the opposite, just to be a reply guy in fact? OOF. Lmao.
(DIR) Post #ARGe6pVU8JRAzLGNd2 by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-03T13:34:11.446302Z
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@pauliehedron thankfully i trust those women i respect, it great. you should try it sometimes.
(DIR) Post #ARGexqvhZcUCkVoELI by FrailLeaf@froth.zone
2023-01-03T13:43:53.057091Z
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@ubiquity75 too many words
(DIR) Post #ARGeycg62wWYq0sRgO by CumskinFoidPuncher69420@beefyboys.win
2022-12-28T23:04:28.363338Z
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The sheer, mind boggling, myopic hubris of an eggless white woman with a Ph. D
(DIR) Post #ARGvWPONY0lSkGipJw by mentallyalex@lor.sh
2023-01-03T16:46:31Z
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@ubiquity75 @davep Your story is sadly one of a thousand similar. I don't say that to minimize but to support you. It's ridiculous the level of push back certain people make when you simply ask them "why" things aren't equal.Individuals like that are slowly becoming a minority. Hopefully the future will be brighter. :)
(DIR) Post #ARGvWRkQmzao3F3SyG by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-03T16:49:14.138425Z
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@mentallyalex @ubiquity75 @davep i dont think i blocked you i got your post just fine
(DIR) Post #ARGvfqIEtqRymdLgTA by mentallyalex@lor.sh
2023-01-03T16:49:44Z
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@jeff Yeah sorry - I edited. Your name was showing like, plaintext for a second but now it's not. Sorry about that. :)@ubiquity75 @davep
(DIR) Post #ARGvfsb6Kgj5viBm9A by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-03T16:51:01.098833Z
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@mentallyalex @ubiquity75 @davep np, instance blocks existing in the first place is the problem, there are so many better ways to do moderation that dont involve breaking the network
(DIR) Post #ARGvtkLZnvIyObXWLY by mentallyalex@lor.sh
2023-01-03T16:52:13Z
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@jeff @ubiquity75 @davep *shrug* I'm a consumer. I let technologists manage that as I'm not an expert in that field. :D
(DIR) Post #ARGvtmkor2gXrTMhyC by jeff@federated.fun
2023-01-03T16:53:31.146030Z
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@mentallyalex @ubiquity75 @davep i advise to understand the tech and not let it be gatekept by people who think they are better than you.