Post AQnK35AsJ1cxOUIPMu by Hairydalek@mastodon.social
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 (DIR) Post #AQnEhdJADXo77G7rEW by stux@mstdn.social
       2022-12-20T09:02:52Z
       
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       Harvard negotiator explains how to argue with Dan Shapiro Americans are increasingly falling into the “tribal trap,” according to Dan Shapiro, author of “Negotiating the Nonnegotiable: How to Resolve Your Most Emotionally Charged Conflicts.”#BigThink #arguing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IDj1OBG5Tpw
       
 (DIR) Post #AQnFAvPfyy3HfL8hVY by Michaeloftheberg@mastodon.au
       2022-12-20T09:08:10Z
       
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       @stux confession: I read that as “how to argue with Don Shapiro” and thought “with trepidation”.
       
 (DIR) Post #AQnGAx0q8TPYa36Akq by Malditopelirrojo@mastodon.social
       2022-12-20T09:19:26Z
       
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       @stux It's definitely an easier said than done kind of situation. I was trying to think of the people with whom I've *seriously* argued and where the conflict arose, and their views were just so repugnant that I struggle to think of a way to appreciate/affiliate. Like, when someone says "we should just throw the immigrants back into the sea" how do you find common ground? How do you appreciate a TERF who relishes in the degradation of trans people? Some people just are wrong.
       
 (DIR) Post #AQnI6B1onWOIVgPKXw by cuntess_evil@mastodon.online
       2022-12-20T09:40:59Z
       
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       @stux it's totally gonna convince gov in my country to issue me an ID with proper name and pronouns. totally
       
 (DIR) Post #AQnK35AsJ1cxOUIPMu by Hairydalek@mastodon.social
       2022-12-20T10:02:51Z
       
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       @stux: Is this the five minute argument, or the full half hour?