Post AQKA26i2Tp3CjsrmuO by kallisti@refusal.biz
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(DIR) Post #AQJQBu1zsMxQQHw0Su by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-05T23:50:18.152754Z
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im too soft on people
(DIR) Post #AQJQOLgks8ftfxvwXI by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-05T23:52:31.038626Z
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felt bad for the shitty ex again
(DIR) Post #AQK40NYeGcjigpGbpY by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T00:16:57Z
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@kallisti Shitty or not, you share a bond. Don't let those emotions control you -- but revel in your tenderness and sympathy.
(DIR) Post #AQK40O4YM0G0HmC5Ym by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T07:16:22.567620Z
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@KenJ not after what they did we cant share a bond
(DIR) Post #AQK5440mysl1BHka1o by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T07:19:03Z
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@kallisti I'm so sorry for your loss!
(DIR) Post #AQK544Vz6ti8k2LUeW by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T07:28:14.095196Z
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@KenJ thank you!
(DIR) Post #AQK54V62HTztBNPeSG by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T07:18:36Z
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@kallisti I hope with time, you will look back at the good. But if the betrayal was great, maybe the best thing you can do is what I call "flush the toilet" and watch it all go away.
(DIR) Post #AQK5l5K9ydw9hgKCzg by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T07:35:50Z
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@kallisti I have some good news for you
(DIR) Post #AQK5l5jKT44Oxk6JE0 by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T07:36:03.521960Z
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@KenJ oh?
(DIR) Post #AQK5s9rdUoxzoLM7yy by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T07:36:33Z
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@kallisti You have a new friend
(DIR) Post #AQK5sAQ1QyTLWzRaa0 by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T07:37:18.932162Z
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@KenJ aww, thank you :)
(DIR) Post #AQK6UkYDXmJQb5fuRk by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T07:42:44Z
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@kallisti I'm going to make you a promise, ok?I promise not to betray you, even if or when we disagree or fight. There's an old, old saying: "Iron sharpens iron." And I promise not to ghost or abandon you. If I did that, maybe I wasn't your friend in the first place. Whoops, that's two. 😋
(DIR) Post #AQK6W0QS0WRi7adoAa by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T07:44:32.433293Z
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@KenJ aww, thats so sweet :) thank you
(DIR) Post #AQK6avN8Dw15tcQxqC by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T07:45:23.998135Z
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@KenJ what sort of music do you like?
(DIR) Post #AQK8YFsPjQTqWsv9uq by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:04:21Z
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@kallisti Just about every kind of music. Jazz or classical when I'm working, Pop or rock when I'm playing, Country-Western, Gospel when I'm feeling reflective, Avant-garde/classical-modern when I'm depressed, and of course, music of the sea when I'm sailing. Rap, not so much. Much of it is pretty angry or confrontational. Reggae when I'm partying with friends. It has a beat that makes me want to dance.
(DIR) Post #AQK8jAQ8MF7WnDtdKK by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:09:16.942931Z
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@KenJ oooh, you play?i dont listen to much rap but i do have a soft spot for DEMONDICEi used to listen to more classical, never much liked country though :)as for rock, thats my cooking music - electric light orchestra, queen, etc
(DIR) Post #AQK8k61gBK1PSAtvGK by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:06:05Z
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@kallisti I used to play in a punk rock band, but I've also played in orchestras. I love singing, and I do that in the shower and in church. Sometimes when I'm making love.
(DIR) Post #AQK8pAwbK87w9dwoa0 by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:09:48Z
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@kallisti Hmmm...right about now, I'm wondering...what should I call you, if you don't mind my asking?
(DIR) Post #AQK8pBMpkb6vT0DlT6 by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:10:24.513555Z
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@KenJ you can call me kalli or eris
(DIR) Post #AQK97VyhrIOebQg3DU by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:11:14Z
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@kallistiQUEEN??? I had a thing for them in high school, when Freddy Mercury was still around. Went to a few of their concerts, know most of their songs by heart
(DIR) Post #AQK97WXnkoTAMH64v2 by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:13:36.607330Z
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@KenJ haha, yes. i only listen to a small subset of their songs, but i do love them. one of my favs is bicycle race
(DIR) Post #AQK9IQTaeelgiyKGCu by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:15:30Z
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@kallisti Callisto, in Greek mythology, a nymph, or else a daughter of either Lycaon of Arcadia or of Nycteus or Ceteus. Callisto was one of the goddess Artemis’ huntress companions and swore to remain unwed. But she was loved by Zeus and, in several variations of the legend, was turned into a she-bear either by Zeus (to conceal his deed from Hera) or by Artemis or Hera (who were enraged at her unchastity). ErisEris is said to be the child of Zeus and Hera, the king and queen of the gods of Olympus, but in other myths, she’s the daughter of Erebus and Nyx, the king and queen of the darkest night. When she had a son, she named him “Strife” and took him along in her chariot when she and Ares went to war. Bottom line, Eris was a goddess who existed only to start trouble. If there were a deity for Internet trolls, people who post on a comment thread just to stir people up, Eris would be that goddess.
(DIR) Post #AQK9M18MopIJHj6xaS by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:16:19.504928Z
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@KenJ kalli (from 'kallisti') is actually derived from the inscription on eris' golden apple :)
(DIR) Post #AQK9QkCPD3cWD6Fp3o by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:16:37Z
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@kallisti I think my favorite is "Seven Seas of Rhye" because it reminds me of Tolkein, and the guitar solo is amazing. (Studio version)
(DIR) Post #AQK9d3OVfTfDDamlMG by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:17:23Z
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@kallisti I'm going to go with Kalli, if you don't mind. Eris is a little combative for me.
(DIR) Post #AQK9dtEiv6jW0IbgK8 by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:19:28.470743Z
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@KenJ hahah, fair
(DIR) Post #AQK9nUXPbUDkIYvVYm by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:21:07Z
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@kallisti "καλλιστι" = "beauty" in Greek
(DIR) Post #AQK9sD343Z2bVHyuR6 by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:22:07.697846Z
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@KenJ yes - in old greek, it meant 'for the most beautiful', which is both a nice hint to the origin of my name (the trojan war) and a good bit of self promotion
(DIR) Post #AQK9xaDtJyZ2pIbl2m by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:21:49Z
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@kallisti Judgement of Paris, right? I'm a little rusty on my mythology
(DIR) Post #AQK9xao39XUIdRWdP6 by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:23:09.606716Z
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@KenJ aye! eris wasnt invited to a wedding party, shows up anyway with a gift od a golden apple addressed to the most beautiful (kallisti) and that causes the goddesses to do their thing and pick paris
(DIR) Post #AQKA0L6hyhQKoXYw5Y by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:23:27Z
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@kallisti I'm already learning that you're beautiful inside. As a male of the species, of course, I wonder about the outside, too...
(DIR) Post #AQKA26i2Tp3CjsrmuO by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:23:53.183601Z
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@KenJ havent you seen my pictures?
(DIR) Post #AQKAMOgnLBXMIJxYci by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:24:59Z
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@kallisti nope
(DIR) Post #AQKAMP9rb6mzkTYlvs by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:27:32.972586Z
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@KenJ im prerty sure you replied to one!
(DIR) Post #AQKANYolAWgnzsEw2C by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:27:40Z
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@kallisti Guess I better go hunting. I wasn't in the least curious before, too tied up in your heart stuff...but now I am. Guess I'm just a misgendered Pandora
(DIR) Post #AQKAZQyo8U2rAAbLsW by arts@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:29:59.232325Z
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@kallisti i know the feeling, I had to like cauterize a part of my brain to be able to move on from it
(DIR) Post #AQKAeBSlFqh8UCsQNs by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:30:51.973663Z
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@arts they gave a reason for their actions and i almosr wholeheartedly accepted it before i realised no, this is fucked
(DIR) Post #AQKB6WgJxQWIP3jYx6 by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:33:22Z
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@kallisti You're right. I did.
(DIR) Post #AQKB818sBw1XAFnfEG by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T08:36:14.874360Z
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@KenJ theres a couple more i can send in an hour or so
(DIR) Post #AQKC76ZOcqPPfAKoq0 by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T08:38:36Z
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@kallisti OK, I have a couple things to do, so I'm going to tear myself away from my computer (and you!) for a while
(DIR) Post #AQKQC7rIez2wSxztxI by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T11:23:09Z
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@kallisti Hi, Kalli, I'm back. The Christmas wreath isn't finished, but I've made a good start. Had to go out and cut some pine boughs, then trim and wrap them. Still no red ribbon, and the red acanthus berries aren't to my liking. It's going to be dinner at McDonald's at 8, and football at 11 my time (UTC+8).Terrible thing about Japan and Croatia last night... I had my heart and my money on Japan...You asked me what my favorite music is, now it's my turn. What's your favorite book, or what's your favorite genre?
(DIR) Post #AQKQJiwZB47RVh5G3U by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T11:26:22.830815Z
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@KenJ Ah, you watch the football? I don't, even though everyone around me does I don't have a favourite genre, I have sort of three prongs of music: vocaloid, rock and what I describe as 'weird gay music'my favourite book is probably the Dao De Jing
(DIR) Post #AQKR4LZTtQR0dHW8wa by KenJ@obo.sh
2022-12-06T11:33:00Z
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@kallisti I find the Dao De Jing very difficult to decipher, probably because I grew up with a Western mind. Please don't blame me!!!I must tell you that I honor and respect Laozi and you for the wisdom which can be found in that book. There are also some places in it which I (believe that I) understand but disagree with. Good book? Yes. Relevant? Mostly.
(DIR) Post #AQKR4LzMLD8PvXcoHQ by kallisti@refusal.biz
2022-12-06T11:34:45.747636Z
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@KenJ I've got 8 copies of it to help decipher :)